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Is this the place for me?

brownshuga1432brownshuga1432 member
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I am just trying to find out if this is the right place for me to post. I am married, I will be turning 30 in a few weeks, I have a 3 year old son and lost another son when I was 6 1/2 months pregnant this April. I have found that I am not allowed to talk about my living child in the group TTC after a loss because it hurts others who don't have any children.
 I also have never had trouble trying to conceive. I am now reaching two months off of bc  since my loss, so even though I want to be pregnant RIGHT NOW I know it can really take another few months. In no way am I able to complain or say the word trouble as of yet. 

do I need to start a different group? I appreciate honest/truthful answers so that I can avoid hurting any and being frustrated... HELP!
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Re: Is this the place for me?

  • morganlmwmorganlmw member
    I am sure we will welcome you here...However there is a trying to conceive after loss group that you may feel at home in.
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  • mara005mara005 member
    Welcome to the board, like mogan said, there is a After Loss check in ( on Thursday's I think). But you're more than welcome to post any questions or what not on the main board.

    Also, I'm very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!     

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  • brownshuga1432brownshuga1432 member
    @morganlmw Yea I tried  that group but I'm not allowed to talk about my little one being my motivation to get up and move... soooo. I don't know.

    Thanks for your welcoming!!!
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  • NB817NB817 member
    Welcome to the board! Sorry for your loss! HUGS!

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

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  • Reagan1010Reagan1010 member
    You are definitely in the right spot and are welcome here :) I'm sorry for your loss! Best of luck.
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • lycihlycih member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, but I think you're in the "right place"  Welcome!


    ::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy

    BFP #1: 07/08/11  EDD: 03/22/12  Missed miscarriage @ 8w: 08/11/11, stopped growing @ 6w6d
    BFP #2: 03/26/12  EDD: 12/07/12  We have a HB at 7w!! (04/20/12)  CSD born 12/12/12 
    BFP #3: 08/05/14  Chemical Pregnancy at 4w3d 08/06/14
    BFP #4: 10/02/14  EDD: 06/10/15  Miscarriage at 6w6d 10/22/14




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  • ambmamaambmama member
    Agreed, you are so welcome here. There isn't a typical profile here, really, and we all love and support each other AND brag on our little ones :)

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • welly01welly01 member
    I'm new here too, but I just wanted to tell you I'm so sorry for your loss.  I hope you find the comfort and support you are looking for.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • brownshuga1432brownshuga1432 member
    Thank you for your support guys! Much appreciated!
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