I reached out to a friend today because I was just struggling. I didn't want to talk to my husband about it because he just doesn't know what to say anymore, so, I sent her a message: I'm having a really hard time right now. We've done this in the past. She and her husband have been TTC for a long time and are about to embark on IVF. From time to time, she sends me random messages on her bad days. I do the same. Well, she said all the right things.. told me to focus on the other things that make me happy and to be very frank with the people in my lives that are being insensitive about my TTTCAS. Great. I thanked her and we talked about how online window shopping can be very helpful/distracting. I mentioned that I had purchased a bunch of Lululemon running clothes that I probably should jump into and go for a run (which I did.. what a perfect day for it!). I didn't notice until I got back that she had responded with "Lululemon - dislike
I do not support asshole CEO's". Soap-boxing is a pet peeve of mine, so it generally irritates me, but on a day when I've just told you that I'm struggling, you're going to harp on me for this?! Grrrrrr... *rant over* (To her credit, though, I wasn't aware of the comments, and will definitely look into giving another company my $$ in the future.)
Ugh, that's not really the time or place for her opinion, IMO... While she's not wrong, and she's perfectly welcome to share information about business practices, it really seems like it wouldn't have been hard to stick with something positive about fitness/running, and in a few weeks bring up Chip Wilson... Sorry!!
::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy
I'm sorry you had a rough day! I had one last week after getting back some test results, and the ladies here really helped me through it! I hope your run helped! ((hugs))
Re: I just don't get people sometimes... *rant*
ME: 35 DH: 39
Married July 2011
DD Born 8/12
TTC #2 since 11/13
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::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy