am I the only one??

Re: am I the only one??

• WLJ2 member

  November 2014

  Nope definitely not the only one. I keep thinking I how nice it would be to have X time off for maternity leave. But that's not happening.

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• MrsZko member

  November 2014

  No, not alone. and in our case we did announce twice but had late losses....it sucks. Especially with holidays approaching. But we aren't alone, I try to focus on that and being happy with what I have.
  

  
  

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• morganlmw member

  November 2014

  Hugs for you guys. I can't imagine that pain. You are in my prayers

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• megastar007 member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

  Not alone.  I bought a Big Bro shirt for DS last July (like 2013)... I'm pretty certain that it is much to small, but I can't bring myself to part with it

  

  
  

  Me: 30   DH: 32   

  TFAS since May 2013

  8/14 - Bloodwork showed heterozygous MTHFR gene mutation and elevated AMH (but no cysts)

  9/14 - HSG, Hysteroscopy and laparoscopy showed tubes clear, but found and removed Endometriosis, scar tissue and 2 small benign masses on my tubes.

  11/14 - Daily ultrasounds confirmed that my follicles are not releasing the egg and every other day blood draws showed very low progesterone... DH's SA was near perfect

  12/14 - moving onto meds!!! Hold up!!!  Surprise BFP after only taking the progesterone!  Now what do I do with all of the other meds we already paid for?!  Due at the end of August 2015 Beta#1- 4434 @ 22DPO  Beta#2 - 7335 @ 25DPO Beta #3 - 14429  @ 28DPO

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• ambmama member

  November 2014

  @BethandBen I had to throw away the Big Brother shirt I bout DS after the 2nd loss. Seeing it in his closet was killing me.

  
  

  Hugs to all! xx

  BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

  BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

  BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• incir member

  November 2014

  Completely.  I can't think about Thanksgiving and my parents coming to visit without thinking that I was supposed to be telling them about my pregnancy on this trip.  It sucks.  

  
  

  BFP #1 ended with H born 2/2/13

  BFP #2 ended in loss @7weeks 10/15/14

  BFP #3 due 8/21/15 *please stick*

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• mara005 member

  November 2014

  I got a big brother iron on transfer, so glad I got that rather than an actual shirt because it is tucked away and I don't have to worry about him growing out of it. I think it was my sub consious way of not getting excited about the pregnancy because I "knew" it was going to end.  

  
  

  ((hugs)) ladies. 

  
  

  "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 

  **All After a Loss Welcome**
  BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
  BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
  

  BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
  BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
  BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow! 

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• emsmama15 member

  November 2014

  Me too.  Had an emotional meltdown today because I realized with today's negative, I will now be FORTY when/if I get pregnant again.    UGH!  I really had it in my head I'd be pregnant before I turned 40.  Now, I'm really hoping to give birth before I turn 41.  I also keep saying each milestone is it.  If I'm not pregnant by the next one, I'll give up.  Nope, not ready to give up yet either.

  *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***

  Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)

  7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)

  3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014

  12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!

  First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!

  Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl!  

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• schuebja member

  November 2014

  Nope, not the only one. I had bought DD a big sister shirt to wear to Thanksgiving to make our announcement, the week before everything happened. I had to take it back, I didnt want to hold on to it.

  Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.

   BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 

   BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 

   BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 

  HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.

                                                      

   

  
  

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• lycih member

  November 2014

  Nope, I have a big sister teeshirt that is still in its packaging because I got it the day I started bleeding this last time. I had a cute announcement planned for her 2nd birthday in December because I would've been 14 weeks then.  

  
  
  ::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy
  

  
  

  BFP #1: 07/08/11  EDD: 03/22/12  Missed miscarriage @ 8w: 08/11/11, stopped growing @ 6w6d

  BFP #2: 03/26/12  EDD: 12/07/12  We have a HB at 7w!! (04/20/12)  CSD born 12/12/12 

  BFP #3: 08/05/14  Chemical Pregnancy at 4w3d 08/06/14

  BFP #4: 10/02/14  EDD: 06/10/15  Miscarriage at 6w6d 10/22/14

  
  

  
  

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• purplehaze11 member

  November 2014

  Definitely not alone. This week I bought 3 cloth diapers because they were a good deal. Not for DD, for our future kiddo. And this isn't the first time. I feel like I'm torturing myself.

  DD 15.07.2012

  BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

  BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

  DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!

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