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XP: A (long) team green birth story!

Hey guys!  It's taken me a while to post this, sorry I haven't been as active over the past few weeks but I've been lurking.  I posted this on PAIF and wanted to share with you all too.  Thank you all so much for the support that you've given me throughout my pregnancy, and a special thank you to my Tuesday check-in friends!  PGAL is so tough and I don't think that I could've made it through especially the first half of the pregnancy without support of others who understand.  I'll be lurking and rooting for all of you and your rainbow babies!

My team green baby was born on November 13th at 6:39pm- it's a boy!  Joseph Thomas weighed 9lbs 1 oz and measured 21.5 inches.  I went in for my induction at 7:30 on November 12th but was sent home and told to come back at 10:30.  We started with pitocin and they kept turning it up but it didn't work, was having contractions but they weren't close/strong enough.  We tried a foley bulb catheter to dilate my cervix more, which it did, but that didn't kick-start labor either it was just incredibly painful.  Then we tried breaking my water, which did nothing to increase contraction intensity or frequency, it just bumped me from 2 to 9 on the pain scale.  All of the above was done over a period of about 19 hours and it had been 24 hours since I'd slept more than a quick nap or eaten anything and I just couldn't handle the pain.  We started with stadol but it wasn't enough so eventually I got an epidural.  Hours and hours later without any progress we agreed to a c-section.  I'm sore but recovering well.

We checked in at 7:30am Wed and Joseph was born at 6:30pm Thurs so the entire experience lasted 35 hours.  It was not the birth experience that I was hoping for, but Joseph is amazing and worth every second.  He spent about 19 hours in the NICU for antibiotics and observation because I developed a fever during "labor" but he passed all of his tests and has been doing really well since.  We're struggling with nursing but I'm hoping to make some progress soon. 

H is already such a great dad and has been really helpful as I recover.  We keep saying to each other, I can't believe he's actually here.  We're so in love with him after just 5 days and feel so incredibly lucky.  I'll try to upload a picture later when I'm not mobile!

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TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!

Re: XP: A (long) team green birth story!

  • Congrats on your precious boy! Love the name;) wishing you a quick recovery!
    ***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !! Lilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers [url=http://lilypie.com][img]http://lb1f.lilypie.com/z5R8p1.png[/img][/url] image<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?
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  • Yay!!!! I've been thinking of you and hoping for an update- thanks for posting! :-) Sorry for the challenging induction, but I am so glad you are home with your beautiful boy!!! :-) yay, happy dance!!!!
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  • Congrats momma!

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     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • Sorry you had a rough L&D, but glad to hear your little man is doing well! Congrats Mama! Love his name! :)
    BFP #2 3/19/14      EDD: 11/28/14
     Femara + Gonal F + Ovidrel  3/6/14  IUI #3 (plus 2x acupuncture)


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    BFP #1 7/22/13   EDD 3/29/14   MMC 8/13/13
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  • Congrats! I'm sorry it was a rough labor but glad he arrived safely!

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    TTC #1 since January 2013

    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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  • Congrats on your baby boy!! Sorry that you did not have a great experience but so happy he is perfect! Sending lots of T&P your way for quick healing. So happy for you!
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
    ALL WELCOME -
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  • Congrats on your baby boy!! Sorry your labour and birth experience wasn't what you had hope for but glad he's here safely. Sending healing vibes your way for a quick recovery.






     


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    TTC Since 04/01/13 

    BFP #1 04/28/13 Its twins! EDD 01/08/2014 MMC confirmed 06/27/13 D&C 07/17/13

    BFP#2 05/19/14 EDD 01/30/2015 Please be our rainbow!

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  • Congrats mommy! Thinking of you and your little man as you heal and bond together! :)
  • Congrats! I'm sorry that it wasn't the experience you were hoping for, but am so happy that he's doing well.
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    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
    BFP #3: EDD 1/27/15 Please be our rainbow! ...Team Green


  • Congratulations!!!!
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • Congratulations on your baby boy!

    EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
    EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14

    IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

    Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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  • Congrats!!! So happy for you! Welcome to the world, Joseph!!
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    I'm sorry the induction was so long and difficult, and that BFing is a little rocky at the moment. So glad he's home with you now!! I'll miss you on Tuesdays!
    Baby GIRL born 12/11/14!!
    MC @ 8 wks 7/6/13 - ectopic @ 6 wks 12/28/13

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  • Congratulations!!!
  • Congrats lady!!! Wishing you a speedy recovery!

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • Congratulations mama :x!!!!
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
  • YAY!!!  So excited to read this!!  Congrats on a healthy baby boy! ((hugs)) hope breast feeding continues to improve and you are able to rest and recover!!


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    My Chart

    BFP #1 - 6-2009 - edd 1-23-10 - mmc - discovered by u/s @ 13wks 2days - D&C
    BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
    BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
    BFP #4 - 3-10-14 - edd 11-19-14 - natural miscarriage 4-10-14
    BFP #5 - 8-24-14 - edd 5-5-15 - Please be our RAINBOW!!! <3
    U/S 9-30 - baby measuring right on track, heart rate of 155bpm
    U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
    10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
    11-13 IT'S A BOY!!!!!
    12-11 & 12-18 - 144 bpm everything looked great at recheck of a/s
  • Congratulations!! So glad his NICU stay was a short one and he's home and happy now. Enjoy those snuggles!
  • Yay! Congrats on your little boy!!! Hope your recovery goes smoothly and that breastfeeding gets easier as you both get used to each other.

    DS born 10/22/2008
    DD born 12/23/2014

    m/c @10wks 12/2007
    m/c @4wks 3/2014


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