Is this a really bad idea? (it will make me sound very vain, you are warned)

WildFlower2350 · November 2014

Long story short I moved to my hubby's town which is 3+ hours from my home town and yet, despite being here, I've retained my....hairdresser. It just works b.c I get my hair done whenever I am with my rents. I have TRIED to find people here but honestly, every time Ive gone somewhere around here it's been a hair tragedy.

Here is my vanity part (be kind please). I want one decent cut and color before baby bc I know I will NOT be doing things like that, or traveling from my home for a good chunk of time. The only time I can get in is on a weekday (which happens to be a day off for me). Am I bonkers to drive in and out of NYC, alone, 3 hours one way, for a hair appointment at 29 weeks pregnant? Like I said, I tried to coincide this with the holidays but they were booked so I figure better to do it earlier than wait until later bc who knows. So here is the breakdown:

I drive myself 3.5 hours in the am to NYC. Get pampered and probably get home after a long day around 8:00pm Solo. Is this a terrible idea or am I being ridiculous and you would do it too. (Lemme tell ya, this place is worth it! LOL). Be kind ladies, be kind.

Irishcurls · November 2014

.......

For real? You're not going to die. Go get the haircut if it's that important to you.

michelle142 · November 2014

People travel longer trips than that, further along than 29 weeks, all the time.

It's just hair though. I'm far to lazy to drive that far to have my hair did.

lizzybean · November 2014

Well... I still only get my hair done when I make the 9 hour plane trip back home, so no judgement here...

I would, however, probably arrange to stay over at your parent's house that day if you can? Driving for over 30 minutes at a time has really been bugging my back lately.

jaztastic · November 2014

Im so confused... do you not go to this same NYC salon every time you want your hair done? Is there something different other than the fact that you are pregnant?

I know you said be kind, but you are setting yourself up for my snark attack. This question is so odd that its irrationally irritating me.

Just go get your hair done hon.

WildFlower2350 · November 2014

lmao @irishcurls.....you're not going to die. true story! i just tend to overthink things and can be pretty indecisive about dumb stuff, hence to reason to ask the internet about whether to get my hair did...thanks for hollering back ladies. and giving me a laugh. in hindsight, this was a pretty ridiculous post.

mandamoochie · November 2014

There are 99 different modes of transportation in and out of ny... if it's the 3.5 hr drive that worries you, couldn't you take a train?

I'd get it done.

lizjennings81 · November 2014

I really don't see the problem with doing the drive if that's what you want. If I were that determined, I would go by Amtrak (I'd use it as an excuse to spend the day reading), but I'm not sure that's available to you.

WildFlower2350 · November 2014

@jaztastic don't get your panties in a bunch, didn't mean to irritate you doll. i can see how these boards get a little testy- hormones flying. im a FTM - so yea, I def. overthink things and yes, it is the pregnancy that makes me question my planning skills. peace!

nhamic · November 2014

Totally go. Take the train if you can and feel like that would be easier on you. But I don't see the big deal of that length trip at 29 weeks or 38 weeks if everything is normal. I used to drive 1.5 hours or more to get into Portland when I lived in Oregon to get my hair done so I don't think its vain.

WanderingA · November 2014

WildFlower2350 said:
@jaztastic don't get your panties in a bunch, didn't mean to irritate you doll. i can see how these boards get a little testy- hormones flying. im a FTM - so yea, I def. overthink things and yes, it is the pregnancy that makes me question my planning skills. peace!

This should go over well.

srcr2011 · November 2014

Oh here come the "you're hormonal" comments.... 8-| Like @jaztastic said, this question is irritating me too. I think you are being ridiculous.

srcr2011 · November 2014

sugahcookie01 said:

@jaztastic don't get your panties in a bunch, didn't mean to irritate you doll. i can see how these boards get a little testy- hormones flying. im a FTM - so yea, I def. overthink things and yes, it is the pregnancy that makes me question my planning skills. peace!
Seriously? Your condescending tone talking to Jaz (calling her doll while simultaneously telling her to unbunch panties) is already a ridiculous overreaction, but then you blame that shit on hormones? No. Just no. You posted a weird question that you personally admitted made you come off in a strange way, and when that is acknowledged you decided to throw shade at one of our beloved regs? No. I am not a fan, OP. Not a fan at all. And trust me, it's my brain speaking and not my "hormones."

=D>

Nvywife · November 2014

If your that worried about a long day do it on a Friday or a Monday and make it a 2 day trip.

jaztastic · November 2014

I had to take a minute and tame the viper because somebody was about to get a serious snake bite.

Look here, Have several seats...

Im a FTM too... but that doesnt mean I lose my mind over every day decisions. "OMG, should I drive to the store and buy milk and bread??!!! I mean I am 28weeks pregnant. It cant possibly be a safe thing to do right?"

You make pregnant ladies sound like morons. But I guess that shoe fits you quite well.

And for the record, this viper doesnt wear panties!

Cookie0875 · November 2014

Until you were rude to Jaz, I had no problem with this post. Yes, it's a bit irrational to be so worried about making a 3.5 hr drive at 29 weeks, but everyone is a little irrational from time to time. But talking to Jaz that way is totally uncalled for. You wanted everyone to be kind, and that's a sure fire way to get the opposite reaction.

jaztastic · November 2014

musicgirl524 said:

WildFlower2350 said:

@jaztastic don't get your panties in a bunch, didn't mean to irritate you doll. i can see how these boards get a little testy- hormones flying. im a FTM - so yea, I def. overthink things and yes, it is the pregnancy that makes me question my planning skills. peace!

@musicgirl524 I cant even tell you how hard this made me laugh. Why people tryna come for sweet ole Jaz??

babykoz214 · November 2014

I don't think it's a big deal at 29 weeks. I would probably try to find a salon closer to where you live though. You're right that it will be hard to travel for this once the baby comes, so if you are questioning yourself now- it might be a good time to do your research and try somewhere new.

Wimcgrath · November 2014

This is a bit bizarre. For the record, @jaztastic‌ , best parting line ever.

Ducktale · November 2014

I would like to go one fucking day without someone making FTMs look like complete gonads.

Ask a stupid question and over react. Fine. Flip your shit over looking at fish the too closely. Do what you gotta do. Make a damn a poll on what sleepers are best (that was me). Start a thread over thinking dresser widths (I'm looking at you @irishcurls).

But don't go on the defensive and blame your stupidity on being a FTM. That excuse just doesn't work because many FTMs manage to not throw all logic and reason out the window. Just own that you asked a stupid question and deal with it and stop with the FTM excuse bullshit.

HerHighness · November 2014

Im confused at how being pregnant makes it impossible to operate a car.

Irishcurls · November 2014

Ducktale said:

I would like to go one fucking day without someone making FTMs look like complete gonads.

Ask a stupid question and over react. Fine. Flip your shit over looking at fish the too closely. Do what you gotta do. Make a damn a poll on what sleepers are best (that was me). Start a thread over thinking dresser widths (I'm looking at you @irishcurls).

But don't go on the defensive and blame your stupidity on being a FTM. That excuse just doesn't work because many FTMs manage to not throw all logic and reason out the window. Just own that you asked a stupid question and deal with it and stop with the FTM excuse bullshit.

Hey you liked that thread, Duck, don't lie.

kefttsc · November 2014

I personally feel sorry for all of your husbands and children. :x

jaztastic · November 2014

HerHighness said:

Im confused at how being pregnant makes it impossible to operate a car.

BINGO!!!!

WanderingA · November 2014

WildFlower2350 said:

Long story short I moved to my hubby's town which is 3+ hours from my home town and yet, despite being here, I've retained my....hairdresser. It just works b.c I get my hair done whenever I am with my rents. I have TRIED to find people here but honestly, every time Ive gone somewhere around here it's been a hair tragedy.

Here is my vanity part (be kind please). I want one decent cut and color before baby bc I know I will NOT be doing things like that, or traveling from my home for a good chunk of time. The only time I can get in is on a weekday (which happens to be a day off for me). Am I bonkers to drive in and out of NYC, alone, 3 hours one way, for a hair appointment at 29 weeks pregnant? Like I said, I tried to coincide this with the holidays but they were booked so I figure better to do it earlier than wait until later bc who knows. So here is the breakdown:

I drive myself 3.5 hours in the am to NYC. Get pampered and probably get home after a long day around 8:00pm Solo. Is this a terrible idea or am I being ridiculous and you would do it too. (Lemme tell ya, this place is worth it! LOL). Be kind ladies, be kind.

QFP, just in case

Maple403 · November 2014

HerHighness said:

Im confused at how being pregnant makes it impossible to operate a car.

I'm confused over how being pregnant makes one doubt their planning skills. Also, FTM here too. I can plan like a mofo.

Hormones might make me cry at random times, but hell, I've got planning in the bag.

Sahara6971 · November 2014

OY.

That is about all I have to contribute to this post.

crystalw88 · November 2014

I can't even...OP you asked us to be nice to you over your ridiculous question which you openly admitted was stupid to begin with but then decide to be rude to Jaz.

That shit don't fly here. [-X

SarahB0427 · November 2014

Shit. . Is everything an argument???? All this chick asked is if she should get her hair done 3.5 hours away. Yes take the trip get your hair done end of story

kefttsc · November 2014

SarahB0427 said:

Shit. . Is everything an argument???? All this chick asked is if she should get her hair done 3.5 hours away. Yes take the trip get your hair done end of story

Nothing was an argument until she insulted a regular. We are protective of our own.

Stop WKing and go away.

SarahB0427 · November 2014

I'm not defending anyone's behavior I'm just questioning why everything has to have snarky comments. I just don't understand it. This isn't the only post I've seen where an average question turns snarky

kefttsc · November 2014

SarahB0427 said:

I'm not defending anyone's behavior I'm just questioning why everything has to have snarky comments. I just don't understand it. This isn't the only post I've seen where an average question turns snarky

I'll repeat myself. It turned snarky because OP turned snarky and derogatory towards Jaz. The end.

jaztastic · November 2014

SarahB0427 said:

I'm not defending anyone's behavior I'm just questioning why everything has to have snarky comments. I just don't understand it. This isn't the only post I've seen where an average question turns snarky

Yea uhh okay. Snark is what we do. And I said I was holding back the snark.

Ducktale · November 2014

Irishcurls said:

Ducktale said:

I would like to go one fucking day without someone making FTMs look like complete gonads.

Ask a stupid question and over react. Fine. Flip your shit over looking at fish the too closely. Do what you gotta do. Make a damn a poll on what sleepers are best (that was me). Start a thread over thinking dresser widths (I'm looking at you @irishcurls).

But don't go on the defensive and blame your stupidity on being a FTM. That excuse just doesn't work because many FTMs manage to not throw all logic and reason out the window. Just own that you asked a stupid question and deal with it and stop with the FTM excuse bullshit.

Hey you liked that thread, Duck, don't lie.

I totally double checked the width of my dresser.

Dannylion24 · November 2014

I'll be driving 3 hours each way to go to a spa day near my parent's house at around 32 weeks. Will probably spend the night just to space it out, but I honestly hadn't given the distance a second thought. And I won't, unless I start to feel unwell or have some sort of reason to think something is wrong.

Unless sitting that long in the car bugs you, why not?

Eta: oooooooh. Didn't see the turn this took.

Irishcurls · November 2014

ChickenOnSunday said:

Ducktale said:

Irishcurls said:

Ducktale said:

I would like to go one fucking day without someone making FTMs look like complete gonads.

Ask a stupid question and over react. Fine. Flip your shit over looking at fish the too closely. Do what you gotta do. Make a damn a poll on what sleepers are best (that was me). Start a thread over thinking dresser widths (I'm looking at you @irishcurls).

But don't go on the defensive and blame your stupidity on being a FTM. That excuse just doesn't work because many FTMs manage to not throw all logic and reason out the window. Just own that you asked a stupid question and deal with it and stop with the FTM excuse bullshit.

Hey you liked that thread, Duck, don't lie.

I totally double checked the width of my dresser.

Does dresser = dresser here or something else?

I wanted a little extra girth on my dresser. That's all I'm saying.

Mommalawyer · November 2014

I don't understand why going to the same stylist that you trust would be vain. Nor do I understand why being barely into the 3rd trimester would stop you. So, yeah, do it.

brij2006 · November 2014

Heck, go get it done and turn it into a pampering day. Get your hair done, a good prenatal massage, and a pedicure.

ryanmichael1208 · November 2014

I highlight my hair blonde. Currently I have about 1 1/4 in growth (cancelled my apt last month). I'd say if you can make the trip safely & not have to pee so much on the way/sitting in the chair - GO GOR IT!! these days it's the littlest things that can make you go from crying to smiling

and while in the city, do a little x mas shopping!

Beth.1212 · November 2014

Ooh, holiday shopping is a great idea!

I say go, OP, and enjoy yourself if you can manage the time it takes for the trip.

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