I was over on TTGP and came across a post about whether it was important to pick a doctor or a hospital when picking an OBGYN.
So, I read through the responses and was floored that everyone picked their doc based on the affiliated hospital and not a doctor because of experience, credentials etc etc.
Now, I'm Canadian so we don't get much choice in the matter but from my own experiences the doctor is way more important than the hospital as a result of all my personal issues and history.
Am I the only one? Did you choose your OB based on the hospital they work with or the credentials/experience he/she has?
Re: OB or Hospital?
It's a hard one for me to weigh in too much because I have not had near the amount of Dr time as some of you ladies have had to have. I was fortunate that the OB I picked was affiliated with the hospital that I love. I can't say that I would stay with an OB/RE that I am unhappy with just because of that though. I think the one on one throughout the entire process is more important than a hospital stay.
The ONLY reason I am torn is because the hospital I went to right near my house for my MC in April was a really bad experience
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Honestly, if I could pack her up and make her be my OB in Minnesota, I'd probably do that:) I'm really bummed that I'm going to have to find a new one due to the move:/
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When I picked my OB I looked at the whole practice and then what other doctor's were affiliated with the same hospital. I am glad I did this because my OB recently left the practice, but there are two more I am ok with and another two in a different practice affiliated with the same hospital I would consider.
As for the future, I would go with both hospital and credentials I think. There is a hospital I absolutely do not want to deliver in, therefore, I will not go to an obgyn who only delivers there. I would still prefer to use a midwife if I can in the future, with them, I do not care what hospital I would be delivering at. That I suppose will all depend on what the obgyn says/finds in 3 weeks.
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Since my mid-20s, I've had multiple operative laps. When I look at an OB/Gyn (and frankly, the GYN is the important part of the pick for me), I make sure they are affiliated with a hospital for surgery purposes. If you see that a doctor is not affiliated with a hospital (or is only affiliated with their private "hospital/surgery center", run). I also would stay away from a doctor that is affiliated with only a "bad" hospital - no matter how good of reviews that doctor has.
I also look at over-all reviews and their credentials. Yelp any doctor you are interested in and do a general google search. You can learn a lot.
When I picked the practice I'm at now, I had to take into consideration which groups are covered under my insurance. Then I looked at convenience because, frankly, I was sick of driving all over the place for my other doctors. Actual hospital was not as important because I don't plan so far ahead as to "I'm going to deliver here". Fuck that shit. I've done this long enough to know better than to plan a doctor over a hypothetical pregnancy.
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So, we have 5 major birthing hospitals. Of those 2 are just regular L&D without a level 3 or 4 Nicu. The other 3 are all teaching hospitals which means they have MFMs, REs and higher level Nicus.
With my first pregnancy I didn't know what I was doing and so I put in a call to the one gyne/OB clinic we had in my neighborhood. It's affiliated with one of the regular hospitals that tons of expecting ladies are trying to reserve a spot at to deliver. We didn't know any better and so we stuck with it despite me mentioning a few times that maybe I should change doctors.
After my losses I had to fight for a referral to my MFM. My old OB didn't see the need to send me to a specialist because she's flagged as the high risk OB at the clinic where I originally went. Finally, after my hemmorhage and emergency D&C at the second regular birthing hospital I managed to manipulate a referral out of the OB who did my D&C. She admitted that she couldn't take on my case so she basically told me she'd write me a referral to any doctor I wanted.
I'm now affiliated with a university teaching hospital. It's a super old hospital so the facilities aren't the greatest in terms of fancy rooms and whatnot but they've got top notch health care for ladies like me who are at risk for premies and high risk pregnancies. It has a level 4 nicu and the philosophy of this hospital is very aggressive in trying to save preemies.
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I picked my OB because she was located near me and was covered by my insurance. There aren't any hospitals close to me that I wouldn't deliver at. Also, I did "interview" her before I officially became a patient. I wanted a doctor that supported natural birth.
However, there is a doctor in the city that is well known for handling a particular high risk delivery but she works at the worst hospital. (The hospital is actually a good hospital but they take on all the most critical trauma, non-insured patients, and their facilities are a little dated). If my own doctor couldn't do the delivery, I think I would go to her despite my feelings about the hospital because she is so highly recommended.
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I chose my OBGYN based on a referral from someone else. However, I did know the hospital that I wanted to be at and his office is actually attached to the hospital so it worked out great. I love my OBGYN but I honestly wouldn't have picked him he wasn't with the hospital I wanted. The hospital is brand new and 10 min from my house so I knew that's the one I wanted.
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I picked my OBGYN by proximity to work so that I could get to and from appointments quickly during the day.
I picked my RE based on recommendations and credentials.
Those were two very different decisions for me.
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