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Over emotional? (Living child mentioned)

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I dont know if its because of being PgAL or just being pregnant but ive been finding that little things that usually wouldnt get to me make more anxious or annoyed than i normally would be. Today my husbands aunt took a photo i had uploaded of our daughter and posted it on her wall
For all the people she knows (who i dont) to see on her facebook. I normally keep my things and photos very private so i asked her to take it down and she rudely replied no as shes family she doesnt have to? Up until a few months ago the same aunt had random men sending her photos of their genetalia so she could be friends with literally anyone. Am i right to feel annoyed or is it my over emotional self playing tricks with my brain? So confusing D: xxx
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  • smagglebitsmagglebit member
    I think you have every right to be upset about that. That would make me so angry!

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    GrailSeeker14 said:

    I think you totally have a right to be annoyed at aunt's behavior regardless of being PgAL or pregnant or not. I don't think you're being unreasonable or irrational at all. I would be really upset if that happened to me. It's exceptionally rude for her to take and post a picture without asking you and share it beyond the boundaries of what you feel as safe for your children. Maybe YH can talk with his aunt about how even if she didn't intend to create a potentially dangerous/uncomfortable situation, it is important to both you and him as parents to maintain your kids' privacy and manage their social media presence on their behalf... and then tell her to take it down or ELSE. (that's what I would do, anyway).

    (((HUGS))) I'm sorry you're going through this.

    smagglebit said:

    I think you have every right to be upset about that. That would make me so angry!

    qwanda2013 said:

    Well that took a lot of nerve for her to tell you no! That was super rude. I would delete her from your wall as she has shown a serious lack of boundaries and personal restraint. I don't think it is fair for her to be able to trump the internet safety precautions you have set up for your family.


    Im so glad its not just me! It just seems like they're trying to cause stress when there doesn't need to be any. And I'm trying so hard to not to get stressed out or worry over things that i don't need to thank you guys needed the reassurance I'm not that crazy pregnant lady stereotype!
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  • kreardon11kreardon11 member
    I would be livid. You are totally justified.
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  • lyndz333lyndz333 member
    Holy crap, no that's not you being overly emotional! Sending pictures of genitals?! Eww! And no!!
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