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I can't believe that I'm here, but we found out yesterday morning at 19 weeks during our anatomy scan that our baby is severely deformed and there's basically no amniotic fluid. I have another ultrasound next Wednesday that is more indepth, but they told me it's lethal. I just am in shock and don't understand.
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  • lexusolsenlexusolsen member
    I'm so sorry that you've had such hard news. I hope that you find some peace in the days ahead as you decide how to proceed.
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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
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    I'm so sorry you had to receive such awful news. Please be kind to yourself in the coming days, and lean on this board as much as you need.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm so sorry. I hope you'll find support and comfort on this board in the days to come.
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    I'm so sorry.  I'll be keeping you in my T&Ps as you navigate this immensely painful time.  Please lean on us and let us support you in whatever ways you need.  ((hugs))
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    I am so sorry that you are going through this and for what is to come.  Lots of love and prayers to you and your family. 
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  • Maybe JoleisaMaybe Joleisa member
    I am so sorry for your devastating news. It is shocking and please let us know how we can support you. ((hugs))

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    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
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  • jenn.schottjenn.schott member
    I'm so sorry for this heart breaking news. ((Hugs))
    Married my rock - April 29, 2011
    BFP - June 4, 2011 EDD February 3, 2012
    Super T born @ 37 weeks - January 13, 2012
    Super T diagnosed with stage IV high risk Neuroblastoma nmyc-amp - January 2, 2013
    Super T cancer free - June 19, 2013
    Super T relapsed - January 2, 2014
    Super T earned his angel wings - January 3, 2014
     
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  • stefugestefuge member
    I am so sorry for your heartbreaking news. Know that we are here if you need us.
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  • BLPL101BLPL101 member
    Thank you all so much. I don't know if my baby will die inside of me or if I will carry to term and then it will die. These are some of the questions I need to ask at my appointment next week. Has anyone here carried to term knowing the fate of your baby? Going into labor and birthing a child who will die or has died seems beyond impossible. I would like to see my child though.
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  • CherryPickedCherryPicked member
    I'm so sorry that you got such devastating news.  

    I carried my daughter to term with Trisomy 13, which was also discovered at our anatomy scan.  It is a difficult decision but I have no regrets.  I wanted to give her any chance at life that I could, and with her condition I knew that she would not live long but there was a possibility for a relatively good quality of life for the time that she was here.  I spent 9 months making memories with her during my pregnancy and we spent almost 2 months with her after her birth.  This was well beyond what her doctors expected, and she was a happy, sweet child.  

    Something that helped me was to write down all my questions before doctor's appointments so that I wouldn't forget them.  I hope that you are able to get your questions answered so that you can make informed decisions.  I will be praying for you and your family!
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  • msunshine123msunshine123 member
    I am so sorry you received such heartbreaking news. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please lean on us when you need to.
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  • jenandbrettjenandbrett member
    I am so sorry for your horrible news. I received similar news at our anatomy scan, no amniotic fluid. I chose to carry our son and yes, it was incredibly hard, but I wouldn't change it for anything. He lived for three hours and I cherish every second of them. I am so sorry. Please feel free to message me to talk or with questions.
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    Beautiful daughter Alyssa born April 23, 2011 
    Precious son Isaac born at 34 weeks in April 27, 2014 with Potters Syndrome Type 4 and Down Syndrome - trusted into the arms of Jesus after 3 hours.
    Pregnant again! Due August 8, 2015 please be healthy, little one!

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  • luckyclover0922luckyclover0922 member
    Im so sorry :( I was also told at my anatomy scan that our son had a fatal condition due to not having any kidneys (bilateral renal agenesis) nor amniotic fluid. I was induced at almost 28 weeks due to pre-E and was able to spend 1 hour with him alive. I cherish those moments and wouldn't change a thing. ((Hugs)) to you and we are here if you need us.

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