NPGR: 20-year Reunion, eeek!

mindaa · November 2014

So, DH's 20-year HS reunion is coming up in a couple weeks. He was very sweet and didn't pressure me to go with him, but it just wouldn't feel right not to. As it gets closer, I'm getting really nervous! He went to school in a somewhat upscale part of town, and I only point that out because it means that the women will, in general, be pretty into their looks. (while I'm so natural, I'm still sporting my own hair color). Of course, this is my choice, so normally, I could suck it up... but being just into my 2nd tri, means:

1. I don't look or feel my best right now.

2. NO ALCOHOL!

I bought a nice flowy maxi dress to disguise the blump and might splurge on some better makeup... but with all the current/upcoming PG expenses, it seems a little frivolous to go out and blow much more $$ than that on getting primped.

The good news is that even though I don't have a cute bump to show, at least now we can tell people we're expecting. If this had been in the spring or summer (after TTC unsuccessfully for 2+ years), I would not have been in the emotional state to handle those questions from a bunch of strangers.

Anyway, thanks for letting me get that off my chest. Any tips for surviving a reunion (without alcohol)?

harmonicbabe26 · November 2014

Go to a makeup counter at Macy's or Dillards or Sephora (if you have one in your area) and ask for a makeover. They can give you some cook tips on getting gorgeous! Have fun!

NeonNoon · November 2014

I hate reunions and avoid them like the plague.. haha

If you have the time and desire, you could look through and practice hair and make-up looks on youtube. I've learned a couple of updos that way.

As for surviving the night, remember that everyone is probably anxious about appearing their best too. Relax, be yourself, and try to have fun.

Lady2010 · November 2014

I recently went to my DH's 20 year hs reunion - was about 18 weeks pregnant. He also grew up in a pretty well-to-do area. We mostly socialized with his closest friends (who I already know) and then of course met lots of other folks I have heard of over the years.

The funny thing - I don't think anyone really paid that much attention to how they/others looked. Fortunately I think a lot of that superficial stuff went away in the last 20 years. (I have my 20th next year so hopefully it will be the same!)

Plus even if the people are superficial - who cares what they think - you probably won't see them again for another 10 - 20 years

Hope you are able to have some fun.

Tsuga76 · November 2014

Yep, I'm in the do what you feel like doing for you to feel good, but to hell with anyone who wants to judge you camp. You've got bigger and better things to deal with

As for surviving without alcohol, I've avoided reunions entirely but have ended up at plenty of social functions I'd rather not be at. So 2 ideas: 1) mocktails - fool yourself into thinking you're having a drink and 2) pregnancy perks, as in "phew I thought I could stay out later but I am pooped and even though I've only been here 45 min I think I need to go home and rest"

mindaa · November 2014

Thanks all!

I should go get a mall makeover, I've never done that. I'm sure it will be worth braving the mall Thanksgiving weekend... right?

And I guess if I can fool myself with decaf, I can fool myself with some "mocktails,' haha

I'm sure it will fun and my worries for nothing. I'm just so frickin' emotional right now, that everything feels extra daunting.

BeckyP005 · November 2014

Oh the no alcohol would kill me haha. Seriously though when I get my hair done and makeup done I feel like a hundred bucks!! Like Lady said you'll probably never see them ever again!

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