TTC After a Loss
scoutmaxwell
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Introduction and Question
scoutmaxwell
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Hello Everyone,
I am new to this board and so so sorry for all of your losses. I just had my 2nd MC, this one at 14 weeks, and D&C 3 weeks ago. I am having a pretty difficult time with it. I had a strange intuition that things weren't right, even though we saw the heartbeat at 8 weeks and the baby jumping around in there at 10 weeks. We went back at 14 weeks and there was no movement, no heartbeat. I just can't get the image of the still sonogram out of my mind.
I work full time and I feel like I am surrounded by pregnant women, mostly due in April (my DD) and my boss is being pretty insensitive - I will have plenty to contribute to throat punch Friday's I think. ;-)
Anywayyy, the genetic tests after the D&C came back normal so we have the go to try again. The Dr suggested it would be easier to track a future pregnancy if we wait 4-6 more weeks for my period to come back, but said it was up to us. I am 37 so I feel like the clock is ticking a bit. I guess we are going to go ahead and start trying but so far I haven't been in the mood much anyway. Sorry this is so long!
My question is actually, does anyone know how to get The Bump to stop saying how far along I am with the checklist?? I have un clicked Pregnant, removed my DD, logged in and out, it won't go away and it is pretty difficult to see every time I log in!
Thanks so much for listening.
(TRIGGER)
DS 9-15-09
MC 1/12 @ 8 weeks
MC 10/14 @ 14 weeks
MC 10/14 @ 14 WKS
MC 1/12 @ 8 WKS
DS BORN 9/15/09
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Re: Introduction and Question
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
IUI #1 - #4 - bfn (late 2015 to early 2016)
01/03/17 - 12mm x 6mm polyp removed from uterus- neg path, yay!
IUI #5 - February 2017. Hoping for some magic
02.22.17 - BFP! EDD 11/01/17
Baby G has arrived! 10/14/17
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
me = 32 DH = 33
TFAS
BFP2 august 2014 ended in m/c .... Gone but not forgotten....forever in my heart!Slight MFI low count, morph, mobility
I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome!
DH & I are both 28 Together: 12 years Married: 09/24/2011
BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012
Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12
BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20
BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15
Make sure you're healed mentally as well as physically before you start again. I know how hard it can be with the age. Good luck!
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
My Ovulation Chart
I am so sorry for your losses. It sucks but I promise it gets easier. I agree with the doctor that it's best to wait a few weeks. Our doctor told us at least 1 cycle to regulate your hormones but we decided to wait 2 to be safe. For me, I just figured 1 extra month isn't going to make or break me. It was tough but it made me feel better knowing my body was regulated.
Allow yourself time to heal. Take time doing activities you enjoy doing!
33 years old, Married Oct '11,
Summer '14: Diagosed with hypothryoidism, pollup, LPD, Low AMH, strong FSH.
BFP: 1/22/15. EDD: 9/23/14. Rainbow baby!
Married 9/13/14
Me: 24 / DH: 24
BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14
BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d
**Currently Benched until TBD**
My Chart
DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS 6/2010
BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
My chart here All ALers welcome!