DD just turned 3. Her new favorite phrase is "I don't want to, Mom." She doesn't follow directions, or cries/argues when she is told that it's not her turn with that toy, or she needs to put on her shoes, etc. I know all of this is totally normal, BUT, DH and I aren't sure how to handle it. I'm thinking about doing a sticker chart where she gets a sticker for listening, picking up toys, etc. Or, some kind of fuzz ball in a jar. When the jar fills up, she gets some kind of reward. I'm not sure about using rewards? That typically isn't my style, but I'm not sure what else to do to teach her to listen to me and obey. Any advice/suggestions?