TTC after 35

Not how I wanted to end things.

Well looks like I'm out. This is not how I wanted to end our having babies chapter, but I guess this was the ending planned for me. We still hope to become foster parents down the road...maybe that will help me feel complete. I am bummed, but also feel a sense of peace I think. Thanks for all the support.

Good luck ladies, I wish you all BFP's very soon :)
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  • I'm so sorry this cycle didn't work. I think wanting to foster is great. There are so many kids that need loving homes which you guys could provide.
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                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
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  • I'm so sorry for you! IF just sucks so much. I wish you peace and happiness in your days ahead with whatever choices you make. ((Big hugs))
  • I'm so very sorry. *hugs*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • So sorry it didn't work out. May you find continued peace where ever your journey goes next.

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  • I'm so sorry @TripMomma!
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    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • I'm sorry that it didn't work. Good luck with whatever new chapter you and your family begin. I think fostering sounds like it might be a good fit for you. It is something that we are considering as well.

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  • I was thinking of you this morning. I'm sorry this didn't work.
    It's great that you are thinking of fostering. Opening your home to a child in need is such a wonderful thing.
    I wish you well.

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    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

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  • I'm sorry.
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I love the fostering idea. What a special way to turn a rough thing for you into a real positive for someone else (and yourself too of course)!
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  • Sorry to hear as well. Lucky foster kids if you decide to go that route!
    me:41   dh:43 
    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

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  • I'm very sorry.
  • I'm sorry @TripMomma   wishes for happiness to you and your family on your journey!
  • I am so sorry.  Good luck in what every road you and your family chooses to emark on.
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • Sorry TripMamma! Good luck 
  • @TripMomma I'm so sorry things didn't end up as you hoped.  Hugs.  Good luck with pursuing being foster parents.  That is such a wonderful thing to do!  I'm glad you feel at peace with things even if it wasn't what you had planned.
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  • I'm so sorry.  I agree that fostering sounds like a wonderful thing to look into.
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    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. Best of luck going forward.
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  • I'm sorry :(
    Me 41  DH 33  Married 09/03/2011
    DD1  EDD 08/18/01, born 08/03/2001 ~ 9lbs 10oz, 21.5 in
    DS1  EDD 4/30/2004, born 05/04/2004 ~ 10lbs, 22 in
    mc 02/14/12 @ 5 weeks
    DD2  EDD 12/25/12, born 12/30/12 ~ 10lbs 11oz, 21.25 in
    mc 12/05/15 @ 12 weeks
    Cautiously expecting 12/02/16



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