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bookwormfnpbookwormfnp member
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Hi may name is Tiffany and I should have joined this board a year ago. I had a misscarriage in May of 2013 and another one in September 2013 and I havent tried since. They found that my body doesnt absorbe enough folic acid so I am on 10 x the normal womans dose but all of my other bloodwork came back normal. My first loss was a blighted ovum. My send loss I had already seen a heartbeat but then my baby stopped growing at 9 weeks. My husband and I are getting ready to try again and I am excited but also very anxious. I cannot get my mind on anything else. I really need to be able to talk to people who understand what I am going through. I honestly dont know if I can do it again, but then again it is all I can think about. I hope that talking to you wonderful ladies will help my anxiety.
3 MMC #1 Ivf Fet pregnancy BFP 2/10/18

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  • lovemybellaglovemybellag member
    Welcome and sorry for your losses. It's so hard to try again but hopefully things will work out for you soon.

    me = 32  DH = 33

    TFAS  

    BFP2 august 2014 ended in m/c .... Gone but not forgotten....forever in my heart!

    Slight MFI low count, morph, mobility

    <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4ea3a7">My Ovulation Chart</a> || <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com" style="font-size:smaller;" >Ovulation Tracker</a>
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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    I am sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
    imagerainbows
              
    All welcome                                   
                              
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  • uromysuromys member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • jordangoodnightjordangoodnight member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Good luck TTC.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January) 
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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  • mmmslymmmsly member

    im sorry for your loss. welcome to the board!

     

     



     



     


                                                              


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  • TashaCNTashaCN member
    So sorry for your loss. I hope you find support on this board. Welcome.
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    Sorry for your losses.
    TTCAL December Siggy Challenge: Autocorrect Fails
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    ***siggy warning*** 

    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
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  • bookwormfnpbookwormfnp member
    I removed my siggy. So sorry this is the first time I've logged on since my second loss. Thanks for all the support
    3 MMC #1 Ivf Fet pregnancy BFP 2/10/18

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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    @tiffanylyandell Siggy still there.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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     My Chart

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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    Welcome to the board. Sorry for your losses.
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


    My Chart

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    TTCAL January Challenge
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    Welcome to the board. I also wish I had joined last year during my first loss. The support here as been amazing.

    It's normal to be anxious when trying again after a loss/losses. Good luck!
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • AngieL610AngieL610 member
    Welcome to the board. So sorry for your losses. Sending positive vibes your way!
    DH & me - 31. 

    BFP #1 09/27/14 -- MMC 5w (discovered 8w) 
    IUI #1 - #4  - bfn (late 2015 to early 2016)
    01/03/17 - 12mm x 6mm polyp removed from uterus- neg path, yay!
    IUI #5 - February 2017. Hoping for some magic 
    02.22.17 - BFP! EDD 11/01/17

    Baby G has arrived! 10/14/17
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  • mflowers929mflowers929 member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. As they say, it's the best place you never wanted to be.
    Momma to 3 angels and two amazing children
    F born June 2018
    W born September 2020
    #3 due November 2022
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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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    TTCAL December siggy challenge - Autocorrect Fails

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    | <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com" style="font-size:smaller;" >Ovulation Tracker</My Chart

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • williegsockswilliegsocks member
    I know I'm a little late posting, but I wanted to say welcome and I am so sorry for your losses.  This is a great place to get and give support.  I understand you feeling anxious about trying again yet excited at the same time.  DH and I have decided to postpone ttc for awhile to focus on us, but occasionally I find my mind wandering there again.  I waver between excitement and anxiety about going through this again.  So I understand where you're coming from.  Please keep us posted about how you are doing!  (HUGS)
    Me: 25  DH: 24
    Me: 4th Grade ELAR Teacher  DH: Police Officer
    Married: May 28, 2011
    TTC 1st Child since January 2013
    1st RE Appt: 8/19/14
    Blood Work: 8/26/14
    HSG Test: 9/2/14
    RE Appt to discuss results and treatment: 9/8/14
    Shocking BFP: 9/27/14
    D&C: 10/17/14
    Benching myself until we fully heal
    Unexpected BFP: 1/23/15


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  • MrsOscarFelixMrsOscarFelix member
    Welcome. I am so sorry for your loss.

    Married 9/13/14

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    Me: 24 / DH: 24

    BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14

    BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d

    **Currently Benched until TBD**

    My Chart


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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.  Are you going about changing your siggy the new way?  Click on the profile at the of right of your screen, click on Preferences and then Signature Settings.  If you are doing it the old way that could be why it isn't working. 
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
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  • welly01welly01 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • thegiantfamthegiantfam member

    So sorry for your losses, and good luck on this next part of your journey. This is a great group of incredibly strong women.

    ME: 27 DH: 31 Married in Ireland 12/28/13. Trying since November 2013. First BFP 04/30/2014, Natural MC 05/12/2014. 2nd BFP 07/11/2014, Natural MC 08/02/2014. Trying to find healing.
    Miscarriages are labor, miscarriages are birth. To consider them less dishonors the woman whose womb has held life, however briefly.
    Kathryn Miller Ridiman, Midwifery Today 1997

    my chart
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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