Sexdrive

Amberascolese · November 2014

so over the last few weeks my sex drive has gone from everyday to never. I don't want it, I almost get turned off just thinking about sex. Is this normal? I'm 11 weeks and 2 days. I'm frustrated because I have always been a very intimate person with my husband. And now when he even mentions it I get sick to my stomach. Is this just a phase? Will it go away? Is it because of my morning sickness? Any advice would be great.

agapeflower117 · November 2014

Mine went away completely with my first baby. My husband was so worried that it was gone for good, but I got it back after my son was born. I'm more into it this time around, much to my Hubby's relief!

mamameghan · November 2014

I don't have any interest! But every once in a while I get sick of saying no and oblige. I'll tell yah, it's worth it!! Things have never been more enjoyable

schroead · November 2014

I've been wanting it more!! Everyone is different!

juniebaby · November 2014

Not interested at all! My husband is so sweet though in not pushing it because he knows right now I feel like death any time I'm awake. I'm hoping I'll get my groove back when all this nausea goes away. You're not alone!

Katerina&Baby · November 2014

mamameghan said:
I don't have any interest! But every once in a while I get sick of saying no and oblige. I'll tell yah, it's worth it!! Things have never been more enjoyable

This! Then I get mad at myself for pushing it off because once things get going it's awesome.

KimberlyandThor2014 · November 2014

I am having trouble regulating my sex drive. It goes from almost insatiable (usually at an inopportune time, and by the time we could make it happen I'm too tired or sick--poor guy) to ugh I don't even want to be touched. Hubby is super sweet about it but I know it's tough, especially when I get him all riled up and then when we get the chance I feel like "nevermind". We went from almost every other night to, maybe once a week, twice if I try real hard to overlook being tired (and always enjoy it when I get into it). And we realized I was pregnant on our honeymoon--so my ickyness kind of put a damper on that!

So looking forward to second tri--two more weeks to go!

shanaUW · November 2014

None here.... too sick!

carolyngrace · November 2014

We went from every other day to once or twice/week. And it's not because I want it, but just for him. I could definitely have gone without since my BFP. My sex drive has vanished! I know it will be back though.

kerrymarie44 · November 2014

What's a sex drive?!?

effthisnoise · November 2014

Zero sex drive. Anytime that I don't feel nauseated I tell my husband to hurry up and let's do it before I feel sick again. So far that's only been a couple times, though.

neongreen · November 2014

Zero over here, too. In addition to feeling bloated and icky, even though I know it's safe, a tiny part of me still worries. We'll see if something kicks in when I get to the second trimester.

aagenthner · November 2014

I'm opposite of most of you ladies!!! I was the same way with our first pregnancy too. I want it allllll the time, and it's an intense desire. It is so strange. It doesn't help we haven't had any sex since we found out. Last pregnancy I started bleeding after we had and that ruined it for my hubby. He is freaked out something will happen.

lindsayloo1212 · November 2014

Zero here either. And it's making me feel terrible. We went from all the time TTC to like twice since BFP.

cmcards83 · November 2014

ZERO desire to have sex! When you're bloated with round ligament pain it's the last thing I'm thinking about. My poor DH has been so patient.

I will say that the few times I've given it up the orgasms have been INCREDIBLE. Thank you extra blood flow! I'm in the home stretch of my first tri and our anniversary trip is next week so I'm hoping I get my groove back.

btm013 · November 2014

I don't have any interest and I really feel terrible about it. But throwing up for weeks straight will do that to a person. Thank god for an understanding husband.

Elley1486 · November 2014

I have zero sex drive at this point, though I have had an occasional sex dream. I wake up and entertain the idea of jumping DH's bones but by the time I finish thinking about it, I realize the effort it may take and say forget it. He has been super understanding though. This is our first and I think he is more worried about having sex...I just don't want to work up the energy. If I am in bed, I am sleeping or trying to sleep...the last thing I want is to be hot, sweaty and ziggled about. I am looking forward to the 2nd trimester though because I would like to know what all this positive pregnant sex talk is about!

brody624 · November 2014

DH and I went from sex every day/every other day to maybe 1 time a week... if he's lucky. It's been like that since 6 weeks.

amooraxo · November 2014

I haven't felt as in the mood but our frequency hasn't changed... I haven't been nauseous or throwing up so that probably why!

ClarkNichelle · November 2014

Ok so it's not just me!! I have been so nauseous that the thought of sex would make me sick!! I'm getting better though

ClarkNichelle · November 2014

Me too!

Schnurette · November 2014

I don't want anything to do with it but I think it is more because I am so exhausted.

When I was pregnant with DD I was pretty much badgering DH all the time and he was saying no (and then I found out he was indulging himself after I went to bed...fun fact: don't do that to your pregnant wife cause she is going to fliiiiiip her shit)

Oh how the tables have turned for poor DH

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