TTC after 35

TTC>35 weekly check-in 11/12

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1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.


2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?

3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?

4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)

QOTW: What is your (current) favorite TV show?

Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
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DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
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Re: TTC>35 weekly check-in 11/12

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  • Best wishes to all those about to test /get betas @CML11 , @TripMomma and those with upcoming procedures or appointments.
     @tlc35  I've always thought the poistcoital test would be interesting to do, Are they checking for sperm health?
    1. Kelley in GA
    2. 2nd with dh my 6th for 7 cyles
    3. We're on our own, I chart and hope to inspire dh to have sex!
    4. cd14
    5. I'm typically very hopeful at this point of the cycle and that is true this go round as well.

    QOTW: What is your (current) favorite TV show?  probably Walking Dead
  • @MySallyGirl‌ it is nice to see someone else watches Reign. No one I know IRL knows what I'm talking about when I mention it. Lol.
  • @wvarn I love Reign...I'm guessing you know it's only very loosely historically based though.  lol  You need some spaces between your questions...my eyeballs hurt trying to read everything in your response all together in one paragraph!  :) 

    @Davie813 90 Day Fiance is a guilty pleasure of mine as well.
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  • On O-1 of last week (fabulous timing [sarcasm]), DH told me that he thinks he wants to stop TTC. He is worried about AMA risks. I have a feeling that he is more worried about taking care of a second LO because I think that DS overwhelms him sometimes. So we need to have a heart-to-heart in the next couple of weeks about continuing. As for me, I am not worried about risks. I just want to make sure that he is ready to parent two if we end up having another. I'm not sure he's there. If we continue, he should probably do a SA.

    I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I hope you're able to have a good talk and get on the same page soon. Hugs to you.
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • @wvarn I love Reign...I'm guessing you know it's only very loosely historically based though.  lol  You need some spaces between your questions...my eyeballs hurt trying to read everything in your response all together in one paragraph!  :) 

    Sorry I fixed it.  My ipad hates me.  Yea I know it's mostly fiction, but I love all things set in that time period. The author Philippa Gregory is a guilty pleasure of mine. If you like to read and like that time period you should check her out.  
  • @MySallyGirl @wvarn there is a really good book about Queen Mary by Phillipa Gregory called The Other Queen.  She writes historical fiction, but the facts are accurate.  She did The Other Bolyn Girl and the White Queen which was made into a series on STARZ.

    @Davies813 I just saw an episode of that yesterday.  Its one of those were you want to hope its sincere, but you can't help but think they are doing it to come to America.  Some of them are really obvious that they are just doing it for the visa.
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  • Thanks so much @Davie813. I don't think that he is totally out, but it's good that he is willing to talk. We have a child-free vacation starting next week, so it will be good timing.

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  • @lcwed, yeah, none of the couples this time around seem to have much of a relationship--not a healthy one, anyway.  Definitely an all-around weirder bunch than last season.

    @URMySunshine, enjoy your vacation!  That sounds simply amazing!
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    flyliceandcoffee - CO

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC#2 since June with one loss

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
    I can't decide if I want to keep temping/using opks or not. Part of me wants to just so I know for sure when I ovulate, but at the same time I'm thinking all the knowledge is just too stressful!

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    CD5...waiting for AF to leave the building

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    meh. I was hopeful last month and we had really good timing but nada. Every month feels like I'm adding more and more stress onto myself. And sadly, every month, when AF shows up, I miss the one I lost just a little bit more.

    QOTW: What is your (current) favorite TV show?
    there's just tooooo many to name! Pick a day and I have a show I watch. IF I had to pick just one...I would probably say criminal minds. It's so creepy and nuts, but I love it. I just can't watch it right before bed.

    Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
    Everyone who is testing soon and everyone else who have positive tests even if they're just squinters!!! I get all excited seeing the good news from you all.
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  • @URMySunshine77‌ I'm sorry it's a little rough for you now, I hope some time away and relaxation helps!
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  • @2TMaggie0424 Were you or DH the 90 day fiance?  What is the country of origin?
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                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • 1. suziq1978, Central Illinois
    2. This is our second cycle
    3. Started charting and temping 
    4. 2WW, AF should come by Saturday. :(
    5. Trying not to get my hopes up - no symptoms to speak of that couldn't be considered upcoming AF symptoms.

    QOTW: Walking Dead


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    @Austrogermokee I also watch the 100 and Arrow.  DH is a major comic fan, so we DVR all the comic book shows.

    @ABabyMaybe4us I'm sorry about all your phantom symptoms.  FX you had great timing and get a BFP.

    @suziq1978 I hope you get a BFP in the next few days

    @b0710 FX the great timing leads to a BFP!
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    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • @lcwed Thank you!
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • That's so cool. Goes to show love can find you anywhere!
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    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • @tmaggie0424 my ex and I got married within 90 days as well.  People thought we were crazy.  When you know you know.
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • Phew, finally out of training this week. I feel like I missed so much on the board! lol.

    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.

    WinoGrrl- WI

    2. How long have you been TTC?  TTC #1 cycle 4

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Charting/Temping

    4. Where are you in your cycle? Waiting to O. My temps have been all over the place - although H is gone this week so my sleep pattern is ALL messed up. OPKs have been negative thus far and FF is still predicting Sunday as Oday. Hopefully that is true as I pick up H from the airport tonight which would be just in time to get some BDing in!

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) not sure. last cycle i was feeling REALLY hopeful - so I'm just trying to be chill this cycle. I'm not sure how good of timing we'll manage either...

    QOTW: What is your (current) favorite TV show?
    Anything on HGTV, American Horror Story, Modern Family, the Voice, Dr WHo, Sherlock

    Tons of thoughts out to everyone testing / waiting / going through procedures this week!
  • 1. betch78, Virginia

    2. This is cycle #2 TTC #2
    3. The usual, but I've been pretty lax.... temping, FF, OPKs, supplements, no caffeine, no alcohol. I have been SO SICK with some sort of nasty virus (high fever, cough, sore throat, chills, aches, etc.), so I really haven't been thinking much about getting pregnant. In fact, I was thinking of taking a month off, but my DH seemed really disappointed when I suggested that.

    4. CD10, waiting to O. I have a feeling I might be waiting a while for it. Being sick and losing a bunch of weight will probably throw things way off this cycle. (You should see what a fever of 102.9 does to a FF chart! LOL)

    5. Not hopeful. With being so sick and losing 9 lbs, I really don't think this will be my month. Probably for the best. I'd rather start my pregnancy when I'm healthy and strong!
    QOTW: Mad Men, Call the Midwife, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black

    Good luck, ladies!!!
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  • Thought I'd be able to test this week but alas, CD1 is here.  Eff you AF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    booooooo!!! go away AF!
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  • @betch78  Hope you heal up!  102+ is high jeez... 
  • @cigsquared Boo on her!!!  Not fair.

    @betch78 wow!!  I hope you feel better soon.  That is a very high temp
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    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • Sorry I'm so late to the game! It's been a crazy week!

    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    TAT2MAMI from Northern Cal

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC #2 since Mar/April

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
    OPK - Ovia App

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    I am on CD 23 - In the 2WW. No real symptoms of any kind.

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    I got a positive OPK and we DTD plenty I think. But I've just stoped getting my hopes up. I think if I were to get a BFP, I would be shocked. DH's doctor requested bloodwork for him to check his testosterone, but DH has been too busy to go get it done!!

    QOTW: What is your (current) favorite TV show?
    I absolutely LOVE "Modern Family." It's the only show that can literally make me laugh out loud. Other than that, I like "Bates Motel." Can't wait for the new season. And reality shows on the Bravo channel.  ;)

    Me: 38 ~  DH: 38 ~   DD: 8
    TTC #2 since March/April 2014.
     
     
  • Late, Late, Late.  Sorry!  It's been a crazy week and I'm battling an awful code my girl was nice enough to share with me.  And I was too lazy to go back to the front to copy the original, so I copied @TAT2MAMI's entry, so I get her pretty colors...

    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    Heather from MN

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC #2 since March with a 2+ month break dealing with a possible fibroid outside my uterus.  Side note - it's getting smaller each ultrasound.  Saw my OB last week and she said it would be just our luck that it's gone when/if I next deliver and we'll never know what it was.  Oh well.

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE? 
    Femara 7.5 mg CD 3-8, Ovidrel trigger shot on CD 12, Progesterone supps started CD 15.

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    CD 20, TWW, 6-ish DPO I think.  I'm not having any symptoms aside from a little cramping - but this cold is really distracting me.  One positive of being sick, I guess.

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    My hubby had a bit of performance anxiety, so we only had sex once.  But that's all it takes, right?  It was on the day before ovulation, so that's good, I guess.  We got pregnant on our first medicated cycle last time, so I'm very hopeful.  I think my polycystic ovaries just need a little boost.  :)

    QOTW: What is your (current) favorite TV show?
    Modern Family, Once Upon A Time, Gotham, The Flash, Hells Kitchen, and Master Chef are a few of the shows we DVR.  Kind of eclectic - a melding of my hubby's taste and mine.

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    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Ugh, I'm STILL waiting to O. Originally FF was predicting Saturday - OPK was negative. Sunday OPK was very close to positive - test line was maybe the tiniest smidge lighter than control line but temps still low - this morning OPK was definitely positive right away - temp was even lower this morning. I guess I'll get home and get some BDing in and hope for the best. Last cycle was super short and now this cycle seems to want to make up for it.
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