I always feel like the office schlub when I'm at work, but have trouble getting myself to spend time and money on clothes.
So I'm curious, for those of you who work in an office or other professional environment:
1) how much do you spend on your clothes, as a percentage of your income?
2) how much do you spend on other grooming-related costs (e.g. hair/skin care, dry cleaning, tailoring), as a percentage of your income?
3) do you spend equally on "work" and "non-work" clothing?
4) on a scale of 1-10, how much do you think it matters how put together you look?
Re: Clothing and Grooming Costs
I get my hair cut every 3-4 mos...its $62 for a cut and then I tip her 10-15 depending what I have on me! I have just started to do a glaze in my hair which is another $100..should go every 6 weeks but I push it to 8/9 weeks. Now that I am pregnant I wont be doing it anymore so that expense is out. I get pedicures every 3 weeks which is $25 plus tip and I do my own nails weekly unless I have an event like a wedding or something to go to then I get them done.
My clothes sort of overlap. I cant wear jeans to work so I do a lot of dresses and skirts. But most of my tops/sweaters/cardigans can be worn to work and on the weekend with jeans. I try to make them go both ways.
To me .. a 10. Looking good makes you feel good and that makes you more productive. Also looks are your resume cover letter. Like it or not, thats the first impression that people get of you, your appearance. I never leave the house without make up, even if its just concealer and bronzer. Even on maternity leave, I showered every day and if we were ever going out..also did my hair and put on at a minimum concealer and bronzer. It just makes me feel better.
ETA: Forgot about makeup, drycleaning, etc. I wear drugstore stuff - Almay eye makeup. I do buy Prescriptives foundation - it's the only thing that doesn't wreck my skin - but I don't wear it every day.
Drycleaning - maybe $75 per quarter? I wash most of my "dry clean only" stuff, and only send a few pieces out after 2-3 wears each.
1. I am not sure percentage wise, but I am a shopper. I probably spend more than I should, but I don't ever pay retail, for anything. Since I work in fashion, I like to say that my clothes/shoes shopping habbit is research and development- haha.
2. This is where I probably save a ton. I color my hair myself at home. I keep my hair long and don't frequently change the style (it's just side swept bangs and long layers) so I get a trim maybe every 3 months. I buy my skincare prducts from the drugstore (I am an Olay fan). I also purchase most of my makeup from the drugstore, with the exception of my blush (I use Tarte) and my fragrance (Chloe). I maybe spend 30.00 a month on dry cleaning- as I purposely look for clothing made out of fabrics that I can launder at home.
3. Lately, I have been spending equally on work and play clothes. I don't have a dress code at work, but I probably dress a notch or two above many of the ladies I work with (formality wise). I am recently single though, so I have been spending more on outfits that I can wear on dates-- so jeans, dressy/ sexy tops etc.
4. This has always been a 10 for me, right or wrong.
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Grooming: $150 every 8 weeks for haircut and highlights. I don't wear much makeup, so virtually nothing is spent there.
I spend more money on work clothes.
On work days, I try to look put together, so maybe an 8. On non-work days, more like a 6.
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It probably averages to $50-100/month. DH spends more on my clothes; he randomly picks things up (and is WAY better at it than I am, but he also does not even look at price tags). I buy most at a local resale and score Loft sweaters new with tags for $8, etc.
I infrequently get hair cuts at the $15 place. I got a Brazilian blowout last year and really want to spend the $100 every three months to keep that up. It is more
I work from home but dress business casual as I feel more productive. Today is a blouse, cardigan, jeans and boots.
10 - I wore leggings with a tshirt to pick up DD yesterday and felt naked. When I dress like a slacker I am way less motivated and authoritative.
Make-up seems to last me a long time. I just replaced almost all my make-up for $200, but last time I bought any make-up was 2 years ago, so I probably spend about $100/year on make-up. I get an occasional facial, but only get a haircut twice a year. I use drug store lotion, etc.
I definitely spend more on work clothes than casual clothes. I work in a business formal environment, so I have to wear suits. At home, I wear mostly Gap/Old Navy jeans, sweaters, shorts, sundresses, etc.
9-10. I absolutely LOVE feeling good about how I look. If I feel like I look put together, I have significantly more confidence, which I think is an overall benefit.
I can totally relate. I also feel like a schlub most days. I used to love shopping for clothes and spending money on stuff but now I don't want to spend the money or take the time to go shopping. Honestly, I would much rather spend money on going out for a nice dinner with DH or taking a fun weekend trip somewhere. Also, we are kind of on a budget now since once baby #2 comes, I am staying home for 9 months so I couldn't spend money on clothes even if I wanted to.
Anyway I spend less than $50 a month on clothes. I don't buy myself something every month and if I do it's cheap and from Marshall's or TJMaxx.
For hair, it's $35 for a haircut and I do that about once every 5 or 6 months or if it's just gotten too long and it's driving me crazy. I don't dye my hair yet but I am starting to see some grays so I may have to start.
Honestly, if looking good were much cheaper and much less work I would care more about it. Also, it helps that the school I teach at now is more on the casual side so I feel like I fit in with what everyone else is wearing.
Not sure about percentage, but I would say $100-300/month on average. There are months I go without shopping, then spend $500.
2) how much do you spend on other grooming-related costs (e.g. hair/skin care, dry cleaning, tailoring), as a percentage of your income?
I spend very little on my hair. I haven't found any place that really makes me happy, so I just do a box dye every 3-6 months for roots. I have dark brown hair, and go a shade or two lighter at most so very little room for error. I mainly do it for vibrancy bc my hair color is very flat. My hair is pretty long and smooth so I can go 6+ months without a cut. I've had short hair before and it def cost more money maintaining it. Skin care cost is interesting - My mom buys them for me when she's out shopping or gives me things she tried once and didn't like. I have lots of Chanel and La Mer products which I could never afford on my own. I have lots of makeup from her too. The only thing I buy for myself is marc jacobs eyeliner ($25) once every few months.
3) do you spend equally on "work" and "non-work" clothing?
I would say 50/50. Some of my non work clothes can be dressed up for work.
4)on a scale of 1-10, how much do you think it matters how put together you look?
10. It really makes a huge difference in my mood.
Wait.
Some people don't like shopping?
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I used to wear a suit every day, because that seemed safe and above reproach. Then I was told my wardrobe was too formal and appeared stiff, so suits were out. I now use a personal shopping-like service where I visit the boutique with an appointment and they have all the outfits including accessories (except shoes) ready for me. After I had DS 6 months ago, when my weight had pretty well stabilized, I went to see them. I bought a season's worth of work and casual clothes including everything from dresses and dress pants to really nice designer jeans, for about $2500, which is just under 1% of our gross income. Normally I wouldn't need to spend that much, but my body just completely changed after having this baby. I needed someone to help me figure out how to dress my new body. And all my shopping was done in one slightly extended lunch hour. (Maybe 2 hours total.). It's totally worth it to me to save time and look good.
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I spend a decent amount of time shopping for bargins, but I do have a pretty good base wardrobe as well. I shop a lot online, have things shipped to me, try on at my leisure (usually when DD is asleep) and then just return what doesn't work. I make mental notes of how different brands fit me so that my next shopping venture might be more sucessful, and less time is wasted (returning).
I also have sort of learned that if you wait a bit, most things (in lots of the specialty stores - so Ann Taylor, The Limited) will eventually go on sale. Coupled with coupons (which you can have emailed to you if you sign up for it) you can buy a lot for a little.
You can also get great deals shopping huge end of season sales. Since the fashion industry operates on a slightly different schedule, there are usually huge markdowns mid season. If you shop then, you can still get a bit of wear out of the items, then put them away for next year. For example, most summer stuff goes on sale mid July to make room for fall, and boots are starting to get marked down now-- before most of the country has seen super cold weather.
Shop off price stores as well-- you can get a lot of current clothing, shoes and accesories for literally a fraction of what you would pay at retail-- you just have to have the time/ patience to look through crowded racks. So that type of shopping I would say maybe save for an afternoon when you have a sitter.
I am sure I spend more than 50.00 per month on clothes, average, but I do stick to my guns about absolutley never paying retail. For anything. Even if you are desperately in need of an item (say, a winter coat) shop a large department store. Many of them regulalry hand out 15-20% off coupons (sometimes more if you have a CC to that store) OR they will give you a price adjustment if the item you purchased goes on sale withing 14 days of you purchasing it.
Whew-- that got long. And now I think my crazy is showing, but I hope this helps!
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I love them too because they offer such great service. I had a multi-day business trip recently that required a lot of changes of clothes. I got overwhelmed about what to wear when and texted in a panic. I told them the events and that I was packing my carry on only. They literally sent me pictures of what pieces to wear for every event, limited the number of pieces I took so it would fit in the carry on, and told me what shoes and jewelry to take. It was fabulous.
I doubt I spend more than an average of $50-60 a month on clothing and grooming items. I used to splurge quite a bit but that was pre-baby!