Monday Bitchfest

mander82 · November 2014

Not sure how this isn't up yet.....but I need this thread on a daily basis...so we are NOT skipping it today!

mander82 · November 2014

got a pedicure last night and I went to a different place....they wouldn't let me use the chair massager cause I am pregnant..........really ? Geez.....if anything us pregnant ladies should get EXTRA massages.....sigh.

howin23 · November 2014

I'm still mad about the same eBay issue where the guy hasn't paid the $1000 for the bike we sold him. We know it arrived and someone signed for it, but it looks like he listed his old address instead of his new one, so of course that's where we sent it. We could really use this $1,000...

meeshybee · November 2014

My mother is driving me nuts. She means well, but she has decided to clean my house and it just makes a bigger headache for me. She doesn't ask where anything goes or what/if I need anything, just shows up with it. She has brought diapers that are too large (and I already have some of that size anyway), cat litter (I now have three 20lb containers of it thanks to her) and random cleaning supplies she assumes I don't have. Mom... I have Windex. Trust me on this.

And, while I think you BF'ing mamas are champs, if I hear the phrase "breast is best" one more time I will scream. She tells me all the time that she never had these problems with her kids because they were all breastfed and she just doesn't understand why I don't. (Although she seems to conveniently forget that she only BF'd me for a month.) She is convinced that JJ's BM issues are because of "that nasty formula". Although I agree it could be a formula issue I'd prefer to get my medical advice from, y'know, a medical professional. She admitted to me yesterday that she'd never heard of babies having reflux until I said I thought JJ had it.

I can commiserate with my Dad, though. He knows that she is going to "help" me even if it kills me. Just having someone to share that look with helps a lot.

mander82 · November 2014

I baked a chocolate cake yesterday...............but didn't bring any to work with me today. I want my cake damnit!!! :@)

MissN06 · November 2014

I want my body to figure things out get these contractions to regulate themselves so I'm not just hanging out in pain.

bethbaker14 · November 2014

Just a THANK YOU to all the Capt. Obvious' I work with. Yes, I'm back to work again today, still pregnant...

sAAmFam · November 2014

My nips hurt, my uterus hurts, everything hurts!!!! My ass and the inside of my thighs hurt. It's like I'm gonna have the worst period ever! Lack of sleep has left me pretty bitchy. My husband is annoying the hell out of me. I think he needs some ADHD meds! His xbox is gonna end up in the trash. His nesting instinct is to play video games as much as he can right now. :-w

oklahomamom09 · November 2014

A girl I work with is HORRIBLE about walking in on other peoples conversations and just starts talking about something completely different. Aggravates the hell out of me. Didn't your parents teach you NOT to interrupt people when they are talking?! This is something I would get backhanded for as a kid. Taking all I have to keep my mouth shut today ~X(

oklahomamom09 · November 2014

lovebuggies1 said:

chesneybrynn said:
A girl I work with is HORRIBLE about walking in on other peoples conversations and just starts talking about something completely different. Aggravates the hell out of me. Didn't your parents teach you NOT to interrupt people when they are talking?! This is something I would get backhanded for as a kid. Taking all I have to keep my mouth shut today ~X(
Lol I met a girl like that. Except this one gets right up in your face, like an inch away and starts talking about something else. I've never had my personal space violated and convo interrupted like that all at once! Totally creeped me out lol.

I just can't stand people sometimes! Lol

silverwings72 · November 2014

I'm miserable. I am so uncomfortable in my own skin right now. I hate this feeling!! And my boobs hurt. And my back. So over today already.

runningmama22 · November 2014

Im so tired of coworkers texting me "any update?" just because they want to know if they have to completely take over my projects yet... ROARR. Also so freaking tired of BD. We are not together, and he BAILS on everything baby related. Pediatrician meet and greet tomorrow? "Yeah I'll be there" ... cue text just about an hour ago, "Hey, I'm really sick again, trying not to throw up and my nose is bleeding. I dont think I can go".... my response, "gee, you seem to get sick A LOT these days, like 5 times over the last 3 weeks. L&D won't let you in if you're sick, just letting you know! And these viruses you keep getting would be devastating to baby, so I really hope you figure out what's up with your immune system! Feel better!" I just want to go home and nap now.

silverwings72 · November 2014

@budzer‌ thank you so much, friend. I needed that!! :x

snarkylibrarian · November 2014

Another coworker gripe: I have a coworker that shares an office space with me who feels the need to ask me every FREAKING time I go to the bathroom "Is everything okay? Your water didn't break did it?" And I'm going to the bathroom like every 30 minutes. SO OBNOXIOUS.

Everyone is so freaking paranoid about me going into labor at work. Well, jeezus, sorry that me being pregnant makes you so damn uncomfortable. After all, it's a total freaking picnic for me to work up until the final few days, bitches.

snarkylibrarian · November 2014

@silverwings72 - I totally feel you on that! I was having major low back pain and spasms all night Saturday and then at work off and on yesterday and it was totally awful. I know you probably know how to deal with it, but I have a flaxseed heating pad that I use at work and an acupressure ball that I use on breaks to help me make it through. I hope you feel better! Mondays totally suck.

ARZamora1111 · November 2014

Just found out my sister planned a ski trip on my due date (tomorrow) which includes my mom. As it so happens, had my midwife appointment today and I'm 2.5cm and 70% effaced, so Mr. Niko could really make his appearance any time. Little history on my sister and I....she scheduled her hysterectomy less than a week before my first one was due. God forbid there be a time in her life when it wasn't about her!!!!!

mander82 · November 2014

Someone I work with just found out she is pregnant, she is asking ALL THE QUESTIONS. I on the other hand, am SO SICK OF PREGNANCY TALK. I feel bad.....like I am not sharing her excitement.....but I am just so over this. I need my maternity leave NOW.

silverwings72 · November 2014

@snarkylibrarian‌ - using my flaxseed heating pad right now !! It smells like lavender too so it is calming me. Great minds think alike! I'm going to rewarm it and put it on my boobs next

MmmPopcorn · November 2014

I'm amazed at how many people give me unsolicited advice for inducing labor on my own (read: OWTs) and then follow it up by saying, "I tried all those things, but nothing worked for me and I had to be induced." Then why did you just spend 10 minutes talking to me about all the things I should be doing to jump-start labor?

audreym0824 · November 2014

@MissN06, I feel your pain (literally and figuratively)! It gets to the point where I find myself talking to my uterus and asking DS to please make up his mind, haha.

freetobekristin · November 2014

Long rant, sorry. Andy's dad passed away when he was 7. He has 3 older half brothers that are 9, 11 & 13 years older than him. Andy's mom & dad had full custody over them since a month after they got married & she retained custody when Andy's dad passed away (2 were in college/Navy & 1 was 16 & living at home). Fast forward to present day & we have 4 nieces from his brothers..MIL has been Grandma to them and has never said anything to make you think otherwise. UNTIL NOW. Saturday she sent Andy & me a text saying "I'm going to be a "real" grandma!" WTF. Has she been a fake or pretend grandma all this time? I understand the reality that Andy is her only biological child, but I just want to scream to back the F off & don't treat our kid like the golden grandchild. (*ETA: I should mention that she texts me multiple times a day about the baby, baby related items, advice/recommendations, gifts, etc. That's partially why I want to tell her to back off.)

I found out Friday that I have to have a scheduled c-section so we sent out an email to both of our families explaining everything & our wishes for it to be just us on Thursday until 4pm or after. She tells me today that she'll be there at 3:30 & she trumps everyone else. Um, hello? It makes me want to have my mom & Gma come up to the hospital at 3..just because.

I know I should let it go and relax, but geeeez.

MissN06 · November 2014

audreym0824 said:

@MissN06, I feel your pain (literally and figuratively)! It gets to the point where I find myself talking to my uterus and asking DS to please make up his mind, haha.

I've had the discussion with DD too, I've just determined that I'm growing a stubborn mini me and this diva is doing it on her own time. Unforantely for her I'm being induced tomorrow morning so she's getting evicted. I'm now joking that she's learning that mom will win all disagreements.

mander82 · November 2014

If my cankles get any bigger, I will have stretch marks on them......

silverwings72 · November 2014

If people on my Facebook don't stop inviting me to their stupid nail sticker thingies I'm going to unfriend them... I swear!

MissN06 · November 2014

So I've managed to be miss the stretch mark bus and was all excited until today. I looked in the mirror and realized my butt and thighs have been run over by the cellulite freight train. Cellulite just killed swim suit and short season for me.

Snuffy007 · November 2014

CatLady22 said:
I hate the long hours DH has to work. He took 2 days off after DS was born then has been working 6am- 10 pm since. I'm feeling overwhelmed having to do everything for LO myself.

I'm sorry you're dealing with everything yourself, it's really hard!! Do you have someone who could come over for a couple hours? Even if it just means you take a nap, being able to take a mental break could help. Hope it eases up for you soon!

krissykris89 · November 2014

My SIL had the nerve to tell my MIL she needs to stop buying things for our unborn daughter. Pissed me off royaly this is my first child and my DH's first child. We have not asked for his Mom to spend money, but SIL is jealous. She has four children who all get spoiled very much by MIL. Get over yourself SIL!

sAAmFam · November 2014

@silverwings72‌ I'm heating my rice pack up for my nips right now! I have ice packs on my feet too. I told DH if he turns his video game on tonight after work while I'm sleeping he won't need to go to the urologist for a vasectomy. I'll google it and do it myself. As call of duty game states "kill confirmed"!

howin23 · November 2014

I am soo mad at eBay right now. Hubby has been on the phone with them for 90 minutes trying to get them to pay us the $1,000 for the bike we sold. They are claiming all the emails from eBay about the purchase are spoofs and fraud and that there isn't a real buyer and there was never a sale, even though when hubby logs into eBay it shows the sale and gives us the buyer's contact info. He has emailed the buyer multiple times and also called him (no voicemail set up -- sketchy). He's about ready to fly to this guy's house and tell him to pay up. What a freakin disaster.

silverwings72 · November 2014

@sAAmFam‌ - omg! Im sitting here with my heat pack again (now it's under my boobs) and this is happening in my house right now!

Sorry it's dark but I took it under cover lol

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