I'm starting to enter panic mode with DH being 12 hours away and realizing I only have about 7.5 weeks until my due date. I know
@MusicFanatic just asked about this the other day but I do better with polls
Jan15 December Siggy Challenge: Holiday Fails
TTC Since 4/13 | Me: 28 DH: 29 | DX: PCOS + High T + Arcuate Uterus (11/13)
Cycle #1+2 (4/13-6/13): Natural Cycles = BFN | Cycle #3+4 (6/13-11/13): Anovulatory (Provera)
Cycle #5 (11/13-1/14): Femara + Clomid + Follistim = Cancelled | Cycle #6 (1/14-3/14): Benched
Cycle #7 (3/14-4/14): Femara + Follistim + Estradiol + Pregnyl + Progesterone
BFP: 4/22/14 | Due: 1/1/15 | TEAM BLUE!
Re: POLL: STMs, how long was your first labor?
DSS: 15 DS: 7
DD born 1/3/15
I'm excited that the second time is usually quicker!

<p align="center"TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)
BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d
BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13
BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks
BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby
my OB is predicting 7-8 hours for me this time, based on my labor length before. we'll see. i don't think previous labor lengths really have a lot of bearing on subsequent labors.
BFP#1 EDD 04.20.2010, SUNSHINE baby boy born 03.31.2010
BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015
jan'15 january siggy challenge: baby fails
So I picked 6-12 hours.
I had dull & increasing back pain (I'm guessing that was maybe back labor) starting the afternoon before, but that never felt like contractions, just uncomfortable. Woke up more uncomfortable & couldn't get back to sleep about 2 hours before water broke, but still wasn't contracting until after my water broke.
I'm okay with the second baby being a shorter labor, but not too much shorter!!! I don't want to miss that epidural window!!
Good luck! I hope your DH can make it! Do you have someone else to go with you to the hospital??
Thanks for all the responses, ladies! For those that asked, I do have a doula that knows our circumstances and will be meeting me at my house to help me labor at home for a while and will be helping me get to the hospital. I just don't want DH to miss out on our first child being born if we can avoid it...