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Sex Tape

MsFaith15MsFaith15 member
edited November 2014 in Trying to Get Pregnant
So DH and I watched The Sex Tape movie with Cameron Diaz. So now he is asking if we can make one. Would you?

Sex Tape 308 votes

Heck no!
57% 177 votes
Only photos, no video
10% 32 votes
Sounds like fun! Add it to the to do list!
8% 25 votes
Already have one
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  • heysupnatalieheysupnatalie member
    Kingfisher1 said:

    Eff to the no.


    The anxiety of having to keep it hidden until its destruction would be too overwhelming for me. Like, what if something happened to us, and our family was tasked with cleaning out our apartment?

    "Oh, what's this video? It doesn't have a label."
    100% this.
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  • cateyes543cateyes543 member
    Kingfisher1 said:
    Eff to the no.

    The anxiety of having to keep it hidden until its destruction would be too overwhelming for me. Like, what if something happened to us, and our family was tasked with cleaning out our apartment?

    "Oh, what's this video? It doesn't have a label."

    Plus I don't want to worry during the act of who will see the act!
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  • pmcd886pmcd886 member
    That would be a negative for me! For all of the reasons listed above.
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  • SassetteSmurflingSassetteSmurfling member
    We've made videos. They pretty much get deleted right away. It's fun.
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  • thewickedfairythewickedfairy member
    SassetteSmurfling said:

    We've made videos. They pretty much get deleted right away. It's fun.

    This. I've also made videos and took pics of myself when I've had to go away for work. Usually after I get back I scrub DH's phone. Or we put them in the Vault app.
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  • MrsC0617MrsC0617 member
    edited November 2014
    Hell no. I don't even want to see myself naked in my bathroom mirror. I don't need the extra heft the camera adds. ::Shudder::

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  • Msbender129Msbender129 member
    HELL TO THE NO!!!!!!!

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  • WafflesFriendsWorkWafflesFriendsWork member
    Nope. I honestly don't think DH would even want to. I have considered a Polaroid camera (no cloud/distribution problems) but honestly he's never even hinted at this and we're very much a "ask and you will (probably) receive" couple."

    Along the same lines I wish I had done boudoir photos when I was wedding-skinny.
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  • therubyslippertherubyslipper member
    H and I did photos when we were long distance. But that was years ago. We won't even do photos now.
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  • pippacricketpippacricket member
    DH and I made a video in the early years of our relationship (aka pre-iCloud days). It was deleted right away.
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  • Bee1112Bee1112 member
    Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt. The videos always get deleted fairly quickly.

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  • southernpeach89southernpeach89 member
    I'm pretty sure we would never do a video. We have done photos but they get deleted pretty soon after they're taken. 

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  • dmsmthdmsmth member
    LongLiveTheEvilQueen said:
    We have made videos/pictures on our cell phones which gets deleted right away. We haven't gone so far as to put on dvd where it could be found. Even if we kept it on our phones we each have screen locks so nobody can get into our pictures.

    same here. We have recorded in ipads but they get deleted right away
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  • uromysuromys member

    When DH drinks he is in to wanting to make videos. Depending on my level on intoxication he may get a few minute clip. I hate it! I'm happy with pictures, but videos really freak me out.


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  • carolinagirl67carolinagirl67 member
    Uhm..... no. Sorry not sorry
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  • lvlyldybmplvlyldybmp member
    I am not brave enough to do that! Ish ends up on the internet too quick!
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  • greer825greer825 member
    Ugh, we did it once. Watched it. Most awkward thing of my life. Quickly deleted. Will never happen again.
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  • cabgirlcabgirl member
    Yes, we did this a couple of times before we were married. Still have them stashed somewhere. I'm really not worried about it getting "leaked." We're not celebrities, and I think the chances of someone breaking into our house, coming across an ambiguously labeled disc, watching it and then uploading it to the internet are slim to none.
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  • Samby86Samby86 member
    Me and my DH watched it this weekend and he asked me the exact same thing. I knew he was being sarcastic so I said "Sure!" really enthusiastically and he paused and was all awkward "ahhhh...maybe sometime..."
     

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  • bracingourselvesbracingourselves member
    DH has no compunctions about fumbling for his phone and taping my rear for his later enjoyment. Whatever floats his boat /shrug
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  • maggie515maggie515 member
    Remember when Ross and Rachel watched their sex tape? Ya that's how it is when we watch ours. We use a digital cam and then end up deleting it before we fall asleep and never get it near the internet. Those porn stars got some talent, cause I don't look like them when I have sex.. Even when I try really hard. ;)
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