TTC after 35

Newbie here introducing myself

Hi. I'm 39 and just completed 4 rounds of femara with TI and have an appt with my RE tomorrow afternoon. Probably moving to injectables with IUI. My fiancé is 45 and neither of us has any children (this is my 1st time TTC). All is normal in the land of testing, so it's currently unexplained. The waiting and stress is definitely taking a toll. I could definitely use some support.

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  • Welcome.  Good luck to you.  It sounds like you're doing everything you should be.  And this is a great community - very supportive.  I hope your stay is short.

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    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

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  • Welcome! I hope your stay is short, but in the meantime there's lots of support to be had here!
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    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
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    edited November 2014
    Welcome to the board and I hope you find the support you're looking for here. I'm 39 as well and neither MH or I have any kids.

    Keep us posted on how things are going :)
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • Thanks for all the well wishes. I definitely feel much better for reaching out. I'll keep you all updated on what happens at the RE tomorrow. 
  • Welcome, and good luck with the RE tomorrow!
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    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
  • Welcome and Good Luck at the RE :)
  • I have an update - we met with the RE yesterday. He explained moving to injectables with IUI, but I mentioned to him that the other health plan covers IVF (our HR dept. has cobbled together really good infertility coverage with 2 different health plans) and he said to move straight to IVF and that it's the right decision for us. 

    I'd have to probably switch REs, but he said to send me the list that the insurance covers and he will pick the best one from that list. I was kinda hoping that I could stay with this RE - both of us really like him.

    Wow - I kinda feel like I just got hit by lightning.
  • Sorry you have to change RE's when you like this one but that's so awesome your insurance covers it!

    FX for you as you move forward. :)
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • @knottie4978096 great news about your insurance covering IVF. I hope everything moves along quickly and smoothly and u get a BFP soon
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