I understand he difference, I think. What do you recommend?
My personal situation: I am overweight so many policies are expensive or won't cover me. Do I just take what I can get?
I have an employer based policy so it's not portable. I want something portable and I need more insurance than what I have. Kids are young, 1 and 4. I am not young; I am 40.
I know I need to lose weight

and then my problem would be solved.
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We have 30 year term on both of us. DH has health issues, so his policy costs significantly more than mine, but it was still the best option for us. I don't need any of the other features of universal or whole, I just need insurance.
I need to get a new policy with a higher payout b/c my income has increased significantly over the past few years, but am waiting until I loose a little more weight (talking 10 post baby pounds I want to loose anyway) but if I go on much longer without loosing the weight (DD is now 7 months old) I'm just going to go out and get a policy.