April 2015 Moms

Can't sleep

DH is snoring. We had a huge fight last night which isn't like us and I feel like this baby is a burden to him. I need someone to talk to.

Re: Can't sleep

  • agree with soupy.  i would just talk to him about it.  i could be anybody.  anybodyyyyy.
    Together since 5.16.05 (16 & 19yo)
    Married since 3.6.10 (21 & 24yo)
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  • I introduced myself a few weeks ago and my husband and I did talk about things. Was only looking for a place to vent. Will rethink that in the future.
  • If this is a recurrent feeling, maybe reach out for professional help? Like counseling?
    I really wish you the best
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  • Just be sincere when talking to him about how you're feeling and not argumentative. Is this your first baby? If so, it takes men longer to get excited. It's like that old saying, a woman becomes a mother when she finds out she's pregnant and a man becomes a father when he holds his child for the first time. I wish you the best.
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  • i will try to play nice today.  what has he done to make you feel like the baby is a burden?  i feel like we need more background info.
    Together since 5.16.05 (16 & 19yo)
    Married since 3.6.10 (21 & 24yo)
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  • DH is snoring. We had a huge fight last night which isn't like us and I feel like this baby is a burden to him. I need someone to talk to.

    I can't help but I'm right there with you. 

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  • I understand actually. I love my guy, but I feel like a burden to him too sometimes. It really upsets me and I can't figure out if it's legitimately something he's doing or if I'm being sensitive.
    It's exhausting and I feel guilty arguing while I'm pregnant.
    It's ok to vent;)
  • As for the snoring try ear plugs.
  • I'm training him to sleep on his side... He uses nasal spray sometimes of it's really bad but I usually try to go to bed before he does so I get to sleep first.
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