February 2015 Moms

Small head? :(

Hello F15. Fairly new here. I lurk here and there, and commented a few times. But tonight I need some reassurance.

Due Feb 9th with a baby girl. Had my midway sonogram Sept 29. And everything came back good. My OBGYN appt a few days later, said they wanted to do it again, to make sure she's growing right. Reason being, they had two different due dates. Their error, never updated. So fine, last Monday I went in, doc says she's measuring great. Right where she needs to be. Her head and thigh are right on the average line, and her tummy is slightly above. Which he said is fine and joked she loves her grub. Went to OBGYN a few days after and midwife said she's growing perfectly and my due date is still Feb 9th. Now today, that same Midwife calls and tells me they want to do yet another scan, because her head measurements seem a little small. Her personal opinion, she thinks it's another error, baby is in 62nd percentile and growing great. But to be safe, schedule another test in 4 weeks.

Should I not worry since they've made mistakes before? And not worry since they're ok with waiting 4 wks to test again? This hospital isn't my favorite to begin with. And hubby isn't worried. But regardless, how can I not worry? Has anyone ever had a similar, or is having a similar situation? Thanks ladies :(. And sorry this is so long.

Re: Small head? :(

  • I'm sorry you are going through this. :-( My advice would be, as long as the midwife seems to be indicating that you should not worry, then try not to worry. I think they probably have to wait at least a few weeks, since they might be measuring the growth difference and not necessary the first measurement again. Hang in there, I know it is easier said than done to not worry. 
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  • Thank you! Yea, the waiting makes sense now. Baby girl is an active one, my heart tells me nothing is wrong. But it's in the back of my head. No mother wants to hear any bad news :(. Thanks for response!
  • Thank you! Yea, the waiting makes sense now. Baby girl is an active one, my heart tells me nothing is wrong. But it's in the back of my head. No mother wants to hear any bad news :(. Thanks for response!
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  • The mistakes they made concern me, but I'm sure there is nothing to worry about if they are giving it four weeks before rechecking.

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  • kefttsc said:

    The mistakes they made concern me, but I'm sure there is nothing to worry about if they are giving it four weeks before rechecking.

    Good luck!

    Thank you! It's just so confusing cause the sonographer showed me her measurements, with the "below average, average, above average" marks, and her head and thigh were right on the average line, with the stomach a tad bigger. He assured me baby was right where she needs to be. So where did this small head come from? But thank you for response!
  • I have to agree with kefttsc that the mistakes they're making concern me more than having another scan done. Sounds like this place needs to get their $#*^ together. I can understand your worry but try to relax and keep us updated.

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  • marblesparademarblesparade member
    edited November 2014

    I have to agree with kefttsc that the mistakes they're making concern me more than having another scan done. Sounds like this place needs to get their $#*^ together. I can understand your worry but try to relax and keep us updated.

    And if you could believe it, it's an Army hospital. And when I was about 17wks I went to the ER with pain and didn't get seen till 6 hrs later. Clearly I'm in good hands right? But thank you! And I will keep you all updated!
  • @marblesparade I def. believe it abt an Army hospital. My sister was non-stop throwing up they kept her waiting for 3hrs bf she just left. She was never called back.

    I agree w/ previous posts.. their mistakes are annoying, but I wouldn't worry. I had a gf who told me at 32 weeks one of her twins' brains was measuring small. Now she has two beautiful boys who are perfect!

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  • MissEm15 said:

    @marblesparade I def. believe it abt an Army hospital. My sister was non-stop throwing up they kept her waiting for 3hrs bf she just left. She was never called back.

    I agree w/ previous posts.. their mistakes are annoying, but I wouldn't worry. I had a gf who told me at 32 weeks one of her twins' brains was measuring small. Now she has two beautiful boys who are perfect!

    Glad to hear her boys are perfect! Awesome! :).

    I searched my results online through my insurance's website, and the doc put "findings consistent with dolichocephaly". Which is a long and narrow head. They didn't mention it to me. And of course I called OBGYN and got no answer. I'm just so worried :(
  • Are you able to get a second opinion elsewhere? Military hospitals are the worst. I changedy insurance plan so I could be seen out on town. I will keep you in my thoughts and pray everything is ok! If you remember- come back and update us :)
  • Thanks ladies. Yea I was going to change my insurance but then things were going ok for once so I didn't. Now this. And I can't get a second opinion unless I pay out of pocket or get a referral from my insurance, which in he military isn't always easy.

    Yea the midwife didn't seem too worried. I finally got through to reach her and I'm waiting for her to call me back. Baby girl is so active. Jabbing at my ribs this morning. It aches me to think anything could be wrong. Thanks ladies! I'll be back to update for sure!
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  • No provider should change your due date based on ultrasounds after 12 weeks. The measurements can be "off" by up to 10-14 days based on operator differences and the overall inaccuracy of measuring the abdomen or the femur for dating as opposed to the way babies are dated in the first trimester (crown-rump length) which is much more accurate.

    Sounds like they are not communicating well to you. If everything was healthy on your 20 week u/s (all the organs normal, baby average size, placenta looked good, HB was normal, etc) I wouldn't trip out too much about it.

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  • marblesparademarblesparade member
    edited November 2014
    Thank you ladies! Your responses mean a lot. Glad to hear some reassurance. The midwife called me back, advised me again she doesn't think it's anything to worry about, but to do the test to be safe. It is another look at baby girl so I'll enjoy it for sure! Appt is for the 24th and I know these next few weeks will drag! I know mistakes can be made, and measurements are sometimes off. It's just a scary thought to get that phone call.

    My 20 wk ultrasound was fine, but they did want to re measure her to get a better accuracy to match my due date. They got jan 31 based on lmp, and first sonogram at 12 wks, we got a due date of feb 9. They never updated their system. That's where the confusion was. But the doc at 20 wk scan said everything looked good. And last week this recent test, doc said she looks good still. I think I'm worrying for nothing. Thanks again ladies! :)
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