What's the proper etiquette on inviting friends (from college) that now live out of town/state to a baby shower? Some are far enough out of town that they would have to fly in and I do not expect them to do that nor do I expect them to send a gift but at the same time I don't want them to feel left out or like I forgot them or didn't want them there.
What do you think?
Re: Inviting out-of-towners?
Baby showers are for your nearest and dearest. If you send these people an invite it does look like you're expecting them to send a gift since that is really what a baby shower is about--showering the new mom with gifts to welcome her to motherhood.
This is not like your wedding/bridal shower.
If these are girlfriends that you haven't seen in years (or only follow on facebook, and don't talk to on the phone) I wouldn't include them. If they want to send you a gift they will do that but it is tacky to send them an invitation.
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This is basically where I fall. I did invite 2 friends who lived OOT but they were 2 people who I KNEW wanted to be invited. I have a lot of other OOT friends and family and did not invite them. It's JUST a shower. not a wedding. Not nearly the same level of importance and not an "invite all" event.