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SFF (sex for fun) Weekly Check-In

GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
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Okay, you know the drill.  But you get an extra gold star fit you get it on in costume!  Haha!!! Anyone dressed up as a "Sexy fill-in-the-blank" ??? I didn't dress up for public, but once we get out little man down for the night, I may just put on something cute for my Hubs.  We'll see.
Happily Mrs. C 
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start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
Hoping holistic approach works!!!

BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
Back on metformin Aug 2013
Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
DS weaned in April 2014
Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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Re: SFF (sex for fun) Weekly Check-In

  • annibesannibes member
    Nothing recently, we've been kind of down. But I am thinking that DH and I are long past due for a night just about us. Maybe my Sister or BFF will take DS for a night and we can just spend the night at home thinking about us and not everything else that has been messing with us lately. We live in the same house, but I miss DH so much. We don't get a lot of time to connect lately.
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    We were supposed to do SFFs yesterday in my sexy Frank N Furter get up... Joe fell asleep like the moment we walked through the door  :-q

    I'm sure no one is surprised. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    Both of these posts make me sad. And I have sad news on the SFF front, too. After our issues trying to force TI this week, we haven't gotten back to it. I think DH is scared to try and fail :(. I'm sure with time, we'll get back to it. But I'm in the tww right now, so I'm thinking we're dye for a break.
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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  • sailorgalsailorgal member
    Nothing here either. I'm sick and bloated and waiting for AF delayed by progesterone.
    Me: 32, DH: 33
    DS #1: April 2010
    DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Okay, so this might be stretching the definition of  "fun" a bit.  Let's say I'm not in my fertile window but we get it on to clear the pipes and keep the swimmers fresh for the fertile window around the corner.  Sorta "fun" or no?  I mean, I didnt' ask him to take care of the "refresh" by himself or anything, and the spermies aren't serving a purpose so I feel like that gives this SFF thread a few points, right?  Or perhaps just a different spin on SFF failure.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    sailorgalCheesyPeas, I'm gonna say you get an A for effort.  I mean, did you have fun while you were getting to it?  And you were outside of the fw, and you didn't send him to the corner to take care of business on his own… so yeah, I'd say you get some points.  
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    image Image and video hosting by TinyPicimage image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    GraceyandTroy said:
    I mean, did you have fun while you were getting to it?    
    I'll go with yes.  I don't have the greatest libido, so my fun scale is a little different than most I'm sure but there was no "ugh, let's just get this over with" internal dialogue, so I'll call it a win.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    CheesyPeas said:
    Okay, so this might be stretching the definition of  "fun" a bit.  Let's say I'm not in my fertile window but we get it on to clear the pipes and keep the swimmers fresh for the fertile window around the corner.  Sorta "fun" or no?  I mean, I didnt' ask him to take care of the "refresh" by himself or anything, and the spermies aren't serving a purpose so I feel like that gives this SFF thread a few points, right?  Or perhaps just a different spin on SFF failure.
    Lol Joe has to do this in the shower. 

    Good for you girl. Keepin' it fresh in the Cheesy house. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    We had an anniversary nooner my DD want here!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


    Potato Launcher


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  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    Iloveshanej said:
    We had an anniversary nooner my DD want here!
    What, lol?  Is there a typo in there or am I missing something.  
    Happily Mrs. C 
    image  image

    image Image and video hosting by TinyPicimage image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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  • sailorgalsailorgal member
    edited November 2014
    GraceyandTroy said:
    Iloveshanej said:
    We had an anniversary nooner my DD want here!
    What, lol?  Is there a typo in there or am I missing something.  

    Haha I feel like it was meant to be "wasn't" here. 
    Me: 32, DH: 33
    DS #1: April 2010
    DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
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  • GraceyandTroyGraceyandTroy member
    sailorgal said:


    GraceyandTroy said:


    Iloveshanej said:

    We had an anniversary nooner my DD want here!

    What, lol?  Is there a typo in there or am I missing something.  


    Haha I feel like it was meant to be "wasn't" here. 


    Oh, hahahahaha! Of course, I should have figured that one out! My brain, it's all drugged up from hormones plus I've got a head cold. Please give a pass for this one!
    Happily Mrs. C 
    image  image

    image Image and video hosting by TinyPicimage image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    I meant wasn't, haha! Y'all should be used to my cray cray auto corrects by now, bwahaha!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


    Potato Launcher


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  • Jodee37Jodee37 member
    holy cow i can actually be a part of this post for once in my life. thanks TTC break.

    went away for the weekend to wine country and visited our wedding spot. was just what we needed.

    BOOM.
    Me: 36, DH: 36
    DH's SA = normal
    1 tube only wonder
    AFC 3-5, AMH 0.30

    BFP #1 3/29/11.  EDD 12/4/11... Missed m/c 5/9/11. Cytotec fail. D&C 5/17/11.
    BFP #2   7/5/11.  EDD 3/14/12... Our rainbow Kellen born 3/14/12 via c/s.
    BFP #3 5/30/13.  EDD 2/8/14...  6wk u/s HB 126. 8wk u/s lost HB. D&C 7/12/13.
    BFP #4 2/18/14.  EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.
    BFP #5 7/27/14.  EDD 4/9/15...  m/c @ 5w4d.

    IVF #1    Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN. 
    IVF #2    Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.  Converted to IUI #1. BFFN
    IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.

    BFP #6  (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15.  EDD 11/30/15...  CP at 4w2d.
    IUI #2:    Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.
    IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN. 

    BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).

    the universe can fuck off.


     "You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    all AL welcome. TTC #2 for 43 44 months.
    follow my infertility journey here at timestandsstillblog.com

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