I would.like to ask if it is safe or good to go to cemetery while pregnant since its a filipino traditional to go to cemetery to light some candles every nov.1-2.
I wouldn't. The undead can sense the new life forming in your belly and may rise from their graves to consume the soul of your innocent child. It's the only way they can reclaim human form and experience eternal life.
I feel the need to know why this is a concern. Are you worried about the undead? The chemicals from embalming that ata buried 6 ft underground? Where did this stem from?
On a serious note: my college roommate grew up next to a cemetery and said there were ambulances there frequently because older people trip and either twist an ankle/knee/hip/back or hit a tombstone. The ground is uneven and people aren't focusing on walking.
So, be sure to hold the hand or arm of your parents and grandparents as they walk. It's apparently fairly common.
(I know this is a troll post but I found this tidbit of info interesting!).
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This was the first post I read today. Thanks for the laughs, everyone.
But I have to be serious for a sec: OP, is this a cultural superstition? (My town in Mexico won't let kids near the cemetery on Day of the Dead; I'd like to think it's because they think kids don't have the gravitas to honor the dead, but I know it's superstition at play.)
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@lizjennings81 That was my first thought as well, maybe a cultural difference we're not picking up on here? Or maybe I'm just really naive and trying to make sense of an odd question...
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Depends on the human/ghost ratio. If you are going to a small cemetery with a large group you are ok, but if you are going to a large cemetery with a small group then I would avoid it. Always make sure the ghost/human ratio isn't more than 10:1
It's indigenous cultural practice in my country for pregnant women to rinse their hands under water when leaving a funeral or cemetery to 'cleanse' maybe this is similar. Come back and tell us though!
I'm going to assume that you're asking this because you celebrate..Araw ng mga Patay?
I believe that's what Dia de los muertos is in the Philippines? Due to the cultural aspect of why you're going I understand your concern, but just be careful when walking through. Hold on to someone so you don't trip and if you are going to be cleaning and decorating someone's grave just don't drink the cleaning product or light yourself on fire when lighting candles. you'll be fine.
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Hello, Yes it's fine to go to the grave yard darling. I have been several times to visit late relatives & lay flowers. I sat talking to my late rels & cleaned their headstones. Go ahead & light candles. Light one from me to your family too please. X
If you go, I would wear a sheet ghost costume. That way the boogies won't bother you, they'll think you're just one of the gang. Also, bring an offering for the Great Pumpkin.
@ChickenOnSunday I dare you to bump the thread that shall not be named. :P
Ohh, bump it, BUMP IT!! I am so curious now.
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I hope so I just went to a funeral.
But seriously why wouldn't it be.
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The undead can sense the new life forming in your belly and may rise from their graves to consume the soul of your innocent child. It's the only way they can reclaim human form and experience eternal life.
So, be sure to hold the hand or arm of your parents and grandparents as they walk. It's apparently fairly common.
(I know this is a troll post but I found this tidbit of info interesting!).
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Yes it's fine to go to the grave yard darling. I have been several times to visit late relatives & lay flowers. I sat talking to my late rels & cleaned their headstones.
Go ahead & light candles. Light one from me to your family too please.
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If you go, I would wear a sheet ghost costume. That way the boogies won't bother you, they'll think you're just one of the gang. Also, bring an offering for the Great Pumpkin.
Ohh, bump it, BUMP IT!! I am so curious now.
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