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Hallo!

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I've been lurking and decided to introduce myself since I'll probably frequent here. 

I'm a 23 yo FTM, EDD is 3/4/15.I'm scared to death about becoming a parent, but at the same time I'm so excited to be a mom. I'm currently trying to fix my living situation to something more suitable. While my roommates/adoptive family are AWESOME for taking me in, there's a lot of stuff I can't deal with. (i.e. They own 8 cats, and I'm allergic. UGH.) My immediate family members are all going through some pretty intense stuff in their own lives, and, unfortunately/understandably, it's sometimes taken out on me as judgement or guilt. I try to be fairly quick to shoot them down when they're out of line, but there's only so much you can say to a dying father. 
I started fighting and broke up with BD right before I found out I was pregnant. He has completely checked out of my/our life and claims lots of crap like he'll refuse c/s or will go for full custody when the paternity test comes back. His behavior was (and still is) very unexpected seeing as we were talking about getting married and lived in NV together, while our families in TN/MS. Don't ask me why he snapped or changed, I just have to do what's best for me and LO at this point. :(

Everything seems topsy-turvy right now, and I'm trying to find some inner peace. I'm beyond blessed to have the support system I do, but I feel like a terrible person for being pissed about the one person who promised me support if this exact life event turned up. 

Anyway, I feel like I'm rambling at this point. I just wanted to say hi and let you all know I'm coming out of lurking. :)

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BFP: 01/10/2010, EDD: 10/10/2010, Loss: 03/16/2010

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BFP: 07/14/2014, EDD: 03/04/2015
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Re: Hallo!

  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Hellooooo, welcome.

    What are youe feelings on ranch dressing?
    What do you think of harry potter?
    Marvel vs dc?
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  • ST3WDST3WD member
    Well, Ranch is the flavor of life and can only be rivaled by Honey Mustard.
    Batman is the hero of my heart and everyone else's, but Marvel DOES makes a fantastic movie.
    And how do I put this...?

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    Harry Potter and the Wonderful Wizarding World in which he resides will always be my obsession and true calling as a fangirl.


    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP: 01/10/2010, EDD: 10/10/2010, Loss: 03/16/2010

    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    BFP: 07/14/2014, EDD: 03/04/2015
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Op, i think youll fit in well here.
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  • ST3WDST3WD member
    OMG dat gif. I LOL'd and the dog was scared by the abruptness.  =))

    Your reward, milady:
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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    BFP: 01/10/2010, EDD: 10/10/2010, Loss: 03/16/2010

    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    BFP: 07/14/2014, EDD: 03/04/2015
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