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lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
in Trouble TTC a Sibling
Four of my friends just did pregnancy annoucements in the past week. I can't even pretend to be happy.  18 months of trying...could have made two babies.  I hate that i am so bitter...
DS: Born November 2011
TTC #2 since April '13
DH 35, Me: 34
DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • mara005mara005 member

    >:D<  We all know how you feel, be good to yourself.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!     

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  • MrsZkoMrsZko member
    I'm sorry and I can relate....we lost our second baby in the past 6 months, the second being last week. Since then, 2 of our friends have had their babies. It's not easy...and I know it's ok to not be "happy" but I also know this is actually unrelated, even though it seems like the universe is against you some days/a lot!
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  • ambmamaambmama member
    Hugs! I'm in a similar spot. So crappy.

    BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12

    BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14


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  • SweetTea26SweetTea26 member
    I'm so sorry. It sucks so bad.
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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    Thanks ladies. I appreciate having the safe place to get that out.  

    MrsZko for your loss.  You are right - it's not like they took me spot.  But darn if it doesn't feel like that sometimes. 

     
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • incirincir member
    Hugs for you!  It sucks enough with one announcement, but 4 is just awful.

    BFP #1 ended with H born 2/2/13
    BFP #2 ended in loss @7weeks 10/15/14
    BFP #3 due 8/21/15 *please stick*
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  • tigerlynx31413tigerlynx31413 member
    Big hugs! Be kind to yourself!

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    I hear ya, honey.  I've dealt with two over the course of an hour this morning and have been fighting back tears since the first one.  Fucking sucks.  ((hugs))
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    Holy cow, @CheesyPeas!  That is nuts . I guess this is how the holidays are going to be right? We have to make it through Thanksgiving and Christmas and maybe New Years.  Bracing myself now..
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member

    Yep, holidays bring out the pinteresty pregnancy announcement ideas that all the fertiles are itching to use.  We're in for a fun ride!  Happy holidays y'all! 

    8-|
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • roselynnermroselynnerm member
    I just got back from a Halloween party one of the moms in my DS's toddler playgroup hosted. I was so excited about it that I completely forgot to mentally prepare myself for seeing the bellies. There were two ladies with big bellies, but oddly, it was the mom with the newly emerging bump that hit me the hardest. I started wondering whether the bitterness will ever go away.
    BFP 2/14/14, m/c 4/14/14 at 12 wks
    BFP 12/24/11… happy and healthy baby boy!
    BFP 11/23/11, m/c 11/25/11 at 4 wks
    BFP 7/10/09, m/c 7/23/09 at 6 wks

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  • morganlmwmorganlmw member
    Hugs to all. I was just talking to my male marriage counsler about my bitterness and lack of family understanding.
    He's working with me on trying to have a better perspective...I am sceptic...but hey its worth a try
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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    roselynnerm Ugh, I hear you!  Yeah, it is the newbies that hurt me too. @Morganlmw, Please share any tips!  I used to be pretty chill and able to separate.   But as the months go by....

    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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