::::::UPDATE WE HAVE A Heartbeat!!!!::::::: T&Ps Request - Thank you :|

Re: ::::::UPDATE WE HAVE A Heartbeat!!!!::::::: T&Ps Request - Thank you :|

• footprint member

  October 2014

  Sending t&ps for a great u/s tomorrow.
  
  Make sure you tell your "friend" that you will announce when you are ready and that there is no shame in miscarrying and then kick her in head.
  

  
  Married August 2003

  
  

  BFP: January 8, 2012

  Due: September 5, 2012

  DS: August 14, 2012

  
  

  BFP: November 5, 2013

  Due: July 11, 2014

  MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

  
  

  BFP: June 10, 2014

  Due: February 16, 2015

  
  
  

  

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• peggels24 member

  October 2014

  Sending you t&p's for a great u/s tomorrow!

  BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013

  BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• lyndz333 member

  October 2014

  Sending T&P for you!!

  BFP #1 - 12/7/2012 - EDD 8/14/2013 - DD born 8/17/2013

  BFP #2 - 3/31/2014 - EDD 12/6/2014 - Natural miscarriage on 4/28/2014

  BFP #3 - 8/4/2014 - EDD 4/12/2015 - Chemical Pregnancy discovered on 8/13/2014

  
  

   
  

  
  

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• chicagojackie member

  October 2014

  kreardon11 said:

  Hi Everyone, 

  
  

  DH and I have our first U/S tomorrow to look for a hb. PgAL brain has set in pretty bad for me this morning in anticipation of the appt and I could use some T&Ps. 

  
  

  All of this was made worse by a friend who, I think was trying to help, but sent me an article on MC a day before our big appt and told me she would never announce her pregnancy before the second tri. She's never been Pg. This, of course, has made me pretty down in the dumps because it feels like my best friend has no hope and we're doomed again. Sigh. 

  
  

  Send me that good ju ju, please and thank you. 

  The fuck? This is like sending someone an article about post-partum hemorrhage or SIDS right before they go in for induction. Yuck. She can keep her help.

  All our love and thoughts are with you.
  

  BFP #1: It's a GIRL! DD born October, 2012
  BFP #2: m/c at 7w, February, 2014
  BFP #3: It's a BOY! Please be our rainbow! Due February, 2015
  *everyone always welcome*
   
  

        

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• carlsonbaby2014 member

  October 2014

  A) Best of luck for your U/S tomorrow, we are all cheering for great news!!!!  ((((HUGS)))

  
  

  
  

  And now what your friend did was totally out of line and inconsiderate.  If it were me, I would consider telling her how her "good intentions" were hurtful to you and very poor taste (as in, not at all supportive!).  So sorry you have to deal with that.

  Began trying for a baby January 2012
  BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
  BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
  BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 

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• CreechMommy member

  October 2014

  Sending lots and lots of T&Ps to you and YH - FX for a great appointment!

  
  

  That was so insensitive of your friend!  I don't know that I would have handled that too well.  It's really none of her business when you announce and it's certainly not the right time to be talking to you about miscarriages!

  
  

  Hope you are able to be calm for the big appt tomorrow - hopefully having YH there will make you feel better

  
  

  Ashleigh (26) and Darren (26)

  Married 8-10-13

  TTC since February 2014

  BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15

  8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected

  Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone

  Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c

  6-6-14 natural m/c completed

  10-24-14 BFP #2 EDD 7-6-15 **Please** be our Rainbow 

  
  

  

                                                                  

  

  
  
  

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• KJsbabe member

  October 2014

  Sending you lots of good thoughts for a great u/s! I'm sorry your friend was so thoughtless. Definitely not what you want to read right before an u/s...

  
  

  BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
  BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
  BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
  BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
  "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
  
  This time I'm not leaving without you.
  

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• DenaMaree member

  October 2014

  I'll be stalking for an update tomorrow!! You'll be in my thoughts and prayers for a excellent scan!

      BFP: 2/24/14 | EDD: 10/22/14 (triplets) 
  US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)
  

  US (with RE) 4/7/14 No Heartbeats   | D&C 4/8/14
  BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta  #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~

  DX: MTHFR hetero C677T

  
  

  
  

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• pblge member

  October 2014

  Good luck tomorrow! I'm sorry about your friend. I agree with PP that this is an opportunity for a teaching moment. Perhaps sending some articles?
  

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  ***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage.   Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen.  => M/C @ 8 wks. Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!
  

  

  
  

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• BookishMomma member

  October 2014

  Sending lots of prayers your way and also ((((hugs))))

  

  
  

  DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser

  Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007

  BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11

  BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d

  BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d

  BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 

  BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d

  BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]

  In search of a 

  
  

  
  

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• NoeliaV member

  October 2014

  Sending you lots of good thoughts for a wonderful u/s tomorrow! 

  And, I have a friend like that. She just doesn't think through how her words could really make others feel. :: sigh :: I'm sorry your friend chose to share that with you because it was really out of line. ((( hugs )))

  

  BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)

  BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)

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• mrsjg2013 member

  October 2014

  Best wishes for tomorrow!  And that your friend is able to learn to be more considerate! 

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• Courtney1741 member

  October 2014

  Many t&p's for a great apt tomorrow!
  

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

  
     

  

  
  My Chart
  
  BFP #1 - 6-2009 - edd 1-23-10 - mmc - discovered by u/s @ 13wks 2days - D&C
  BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
  BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
  BFP #4 - 3-10-14 - edd 11-19-14 - natural miscarriage 4-10-14
  BFP #5 - 8-24-14 - edd 5-5-15 - Please be our RAINBOW!!!
  U/S 9-30 - baby measuring right on track, heart rate of 155bpm
  U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
  10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
  11-13 IT'S A BOY!!!!!
  

  12-11 & 12-18 - 144 bpm everything looked great at recheck of a/s

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• sgio7485 member

  October 2014

  Sending lots of positive thoughts your way!

  

  BFP #1 10/5/13 MMC 11/13/13 D&C 11/15/13

  BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d  Please be our RAINBOW!

  Baby G is a BOY!

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• kreardon11 member

  October 2014 edited October 2014

  Thanks ladies for the positive vibes!! I texted my gf this morning to ask what her intention was, sending this to me the week of my US, and she said "I found it interesting." and "was it bad to send?" and "You always post articles about MC??" 

  
  

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  This.

  
  

  This is why I am on the bump. Friends and family just don't get it. 

  ________________________

  Married my partner in crime 06/11/11

  DH: 29, Me: 28

  Started TTC 10/01/2013

  BFP#1: 03/05/14 | EDD: 11/11/14 | MC: 04/10/14 | D&C 05/01/14 [Molar]

  BFP#2: 10/15/14 | EDD: 06/25/14 | MC: 12/02/14 | D&C 12/04/14 [MMC]

  Current Status: RE appt 01/20/15 & Cleared to TTC

  Plan: Baby Aspirin, More (raw) folate, PNP, Iron, diet

  DX: MTHFR hetero C677T, ANA+ Homogeneous, Anemia. Ige sensitivities: gluten, egg, dairy

  All AL Welcome

  “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”

  We will never forgot our angels

  
  

  
  

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• kate6214 member

  October 2014

  Wow. I can't believe she would send you something like that. I really feel like its hard for people to understand that haven't been through it. Best of luck with your US tomorrow

  
  

  BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13

  BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14

  BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• alleycat39 member

  October 2014

  Sending only positive thoughts your way!

  PCOS & ute crew member

  BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
  DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13

  BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E

  BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22

  RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal

  BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!

  
  

  Baby GIRL on the way!!

  **All AL Welcome**

  
  

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• nohalo21 member

  October 2014

  Thinking of you! Sorry that your friend is clueless.

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• LuvLoveXo member

  October 2014

  Sending lots of positive vibes. I'm sorry your friend did a shitty thing.

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• KMW08 member

  October 2014

  Good luck today (((hugs)))
  Fx fx fx!

  BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
  

  DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart

      
  

  
  

   

   

   

   

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• Mel&John2013 member

  October 2014

  Good luck tomorrow!!
  

  Your friend has questionable judgement, to say the least!

  
  

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• BookishMomma member

  October 2014

  Stalking for update. Thinking of you!

  

  
  

  DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser

  Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007

  BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11

  BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d

  BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d

  BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 

  BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d

  BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]

  In search of a 

  
  

  
  

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• augusta17 member

  October 2014

  Sending T&P's!

  TTC #1 since 08/2013
  

  BFP#1: 1/6/2014 EDD: 9/17/2014 Natural MC: 1/17/2014 (5w3d)

  BFP #2: 6/7/2014 EDD: 2/18/2015 Natural MC 6/19/2014 (5w)

  BFP #3: 10/22/14 EDD: 7/1/2015  

  *Taking Progesterone supplements* Beta 1: 777, Beta 2: 2589 *GROW BABY!*

   

  

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• kreardon11 member

  October 2014

  Update in OP!

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  Married my partner in crime 06/11/11

  DH: 29, Me: 28

  Started TTC 10/01/2013

  BFP#1: 03/05/14 | EDD: 11/11/14 | MC: 04/10/14 | D&C 05/01/14 [Molar]

  BFP#2: 10/15/14 | EDD: 06/25/14 | MC: 12/02/14 | D&C 12/04/14 [MMC]

  Current Status: RE appt 01/20/15 & Cleared to TTC

  Plan: Baby Aspirin, More (raw) folate, PNP, Iron, diet

  DX: MTHFR hetero C677T, ANA+ Homogeneous, Anemia. Ige sensitivities: gluten, egg, dairy

  All AL Welcome

  “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”

  We will never forgot our angels

  
  

  
  

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• Samuelismomma member

  October 2014 edited October 2014

  Congrats on great scan!...edited for typo**

  ***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !! [url=http://lilypie.com][img]http://lb1f.lilypie.com/z5R8p1.png[/img][/url] <a href="http://www.thebump.com/?

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