WTF Wednesday

theholmanherd · October 2014

Posting this a couple hours early (for some time zones), since I work early.

Have a great Wednesday and give 'em hell!

emilycatlady · October 2014

Not 3T related but wtf @ my car! Blown head gasket...

WishUponAChild · October 2014

(BABY MENTIONED)

WTF to my in laws... SIL had her baby a couple days ago and we haven't been told. I saw a friend of a friends FB post.

WishUponAChild · October 2014

@blueFairy5 I am not too surprised this is the same chick that said I "took away her special moment" when I asked her to be a bridal attendant because I didn't let DH ask her... and the same person announced her pregnancy 3 days before our wedding, and since we couldn't go to her gender reveal party wouldn't let anyone tell us what the baby was until we called her and asked her personally.

Is it too late to fake our own deaths?

LindseyM2012 · October 2014

@wishuponachild - WHAAAA?? I know this isn't a WTF contest, but if it was, you'd win.

WishUponAChild · October 2014

I think we all deserve a drink... and a get out of jail free card.

Ann612 · October 2014

WishUponAChild said:

@blueFairy5 I am not too surprised this is the same chick that said I "took away her special moment" when I asked her to be a bridal attendant because I didn't let DH ask her... and the same person announced her pregnancy 3 days before our wedding, and since we couldn't go to her gender reveal party wouldn't let anyone tell us what the baby was until we called her and asked her personally.

Is it too late to fake our own deaths?

You really lost the SIL lottery. What a selfish, self-absorbed, nutty person she is!

WishUponAChild · October 2014

@Ann612 It runs in their family, my FIL actually sent my DH an email with a step by step process of apologizing to SIL about my tacklessness and then re-asking her to be apart of the wedding himself. And... No... we did not take FIL advice.

Ann612 · October 2014

@WishUponAChild

GOOD. I would not feed into that craziness.

Tiko99 · October 2014

@emilycatlady I'm totally WTFing my car too! I have a leak in my head gasket, leaking cv boot and another issues with my coolant leak. By Friday I will have spent $2,400 on my damn car in the past 2 weeks! I'm so frustrated, but for some reason I just can't sell it.....

Tiko99 · October 2014

@firstarabesqu I was stunned at last nights game....what the hell were the Giants thinking? I'm a HUGE Hunter Pence fan and think Joe Panik is the cutest thing ever, but aside from that they just couldn't get it together! My DH has been a Giants fan since he was 8 so this is the first year I got into it and I was yelling at the TV last night......hopefully they perform and get their shit together tonight!

mharnicker · October 2014

Your SIL sounds ALOT like my SIL! I'm grateful she lives out of state. This is the kind of woman who says i want to be pregnant and gets pregnant. Twins and an older one. She wants another. She said last March that her pregnancies are perfect and that I'll be miserable when I'm pregnant. This was told before I knew our problems TTC. She has no idea of our issues and our fertility treatment we will need. She's too into herself and her life to care about others. Sorry but this turned into a rant/vent. Seriously WTF Wednesday!!! My heart goes out to you!!!

wifeofafarmer · October 2014

Wow. That makes me feel so much more appreciative of all of my in-laws! Hope everyone's Wednesday gets better!

My WTF Wednesday is very lame in comparison to all of y'alls! WTF calf, why did you wake me up with the mother of all cramps?!? Hours later it is still so sore & hurts to walk! Ugh!

WishUponAChild · October 2014

@mharnicker I honestly wish I was the only one with these kinds of problem people in my life becuase then I could spare others from this roller coaster! If your SIL and my SIL got in the same room together the world would probably implode... At some point we should look to arrange that!

I had a BFF (23 years) that told me not to get pregnant because I couldn't handle being pregnant, she also said she was happy that we "can't get pregnant" (we thought we were 100% infertile, non reversible).

I know that we are suppose to drink before we BD (you know the advice, Just get drunk and it will happen!) but I think I might do it after tonight!

BunnyBerry · October 2014

WishUponAChild said:

@Ann612 It runs in their family, my FIL actually sent my DH an email with a step by step process of apologizing to SIL about my tacklessness and then re-asking her to be apart of the wedding himself. And... No... we did not take FIL advice.

Whoa.

So glad YH is on your side in all of that!!

BunnyBerry · October 2014

@sammae Ugh, what a wacko.

theholmanherd · October 2014

@sammae, WOW. I make it a policy to not friend anyone I'm currently working for or with. With the exception of someone I was friends with before we worked together.

@WishUponAChild, WTAF. Your ex-BFF, your SIL, and your FIL are douchecanoes. I would seriously have gone off on them. My BFF and I have had it out before and we're always stronger for it, but she's not an asshat and would never intentionally say something rude or insensitive. My FIL and SIL are way too passive to fuck with me, but I would tear them to shreds if they tried. I think they know that and that's why they've never bothered me with their stupidity. FTR, I love my SIL and FIL, but they can be pretty insensitive/intolerant so I have to stay guarded.

EDIT: OMG BUMP, STOP SCREWING UP MY POSTS.

mshandlebar · October 2014

I'm back from vacation and would like to join the chorus of WTF shitty SIL. We just spent 4 days in Disney and she was miserable the whole effing time. She is mean to my father (I am biased but he is a lovely human being). All I wanted was some time to pretend everything is peachy keen, but she is selfish and horrible. Ughhh!

@sammae‌ that is horrible! Who does that!!

Hollowvic · October 2014

@murrt wow if she's a grandmother at 37, it's not that you're too old it's that she's way too young, if you catch my drift

wifeofafarmer · October 2014

@murrt Ouch!!! That has got to hurt. I'm so sorry!

Hollowvic · October 2014

Ok WTF iPad? cut off most of my last post. My WTF also goes out to my husband, he's just been a jerk lately. I know I'm cranky but this is not the time to be a dick. I swear he gets a man period.

redandblue · October 2014

OMG. Where to begin! @wishuponachild you definitely deserve the award for the biggest WTF! I'm sorry you have those inconsiderate people around you!!

@sammae seriously WTF!! I'm sorry she is an idiot. It does make for challenging work environments for sure. Some people need to get thicker skin when they hear feedback (hi let me unfriend you, that solves the problem!)

Sorry guys, I'm not a huge baseball fan, but DH is and we also thought WTF to the Giants, but we happily thought that. We are cheering for the under dog, Royals. Either way game 7 will sure to be exciting!

@Hollowvic I second the WTF iPad. Mine has been doing strange things when I try to post here. Sigh for technology.

My WFT goes to my RE. I had my AMH blood work done when I started the process of diagnosis in late August. I was told it will take about 6 weeks to come in, and they would call me. We decided to go ahead and try the IUI without the results, but still felt we needed them. When I went in for my beta after the 2WW I asked if they received my results and they were like 'yup they are in'. But I couldn't get the results from the nurse, I needed to schedule an appointment with the RE. So I did, but the earliest was mid-November. Sigh. I guess I've been waiting for 4 years to get pregnant, what's another couple of weeks right? Anyways, I went today for CD10 monitoring, and this time the RE was the one to review the results (normally it's the NP). When I asked if he knew anything about my AMH, he was casually like, 'it's 48'. I was like, okay what does that mean. He says it is great and I won't run out of eggs anytime soon. Um why did I need an appointment for that?? Sigh.

I will consider that over beers and baseball tonight after my late evening at work! Have a great day ladies!

mharnicker · October 2014

@Wish Upon A Star‌ I think we should get our two SIL's together! They're perfect for one another!! Does she want to shove all three and maybe soon to be 4 into one room bunk beds because they have ran out of Space from having too many kids?! My SIL is going to do that and is going to homeschool the kids too! I wish DH and I could drink. We're drinking ZERO alcohol. My DH is a beer snob and Favorite beer is Oktoberfest. Estridol affects his sperm count and hops carries it and can affect it. We've given all alcohol up in hopes for natural conception. I'll probably be posting a vent Monday as it will mark one year TTC. How naive I was a year ago thinking I'd have no problems getting pregnant and would get a BFP in three months or less.

xhochixx · October 2014

Oh my god! Metformin is the devil:/ I'm still in the process of getting up to my full dose.. But every time I try to go up, I feel so shitty! I feel your pain! @ozma23

wifeofafarmer · October 2014

Ok, I take back my WTF of my calf cramp, even though it still hurts 12 hours later. My WTF goes to my OB/GYN office. I got my HSG results over a week ago. I had to wait until yesterday to confirm my referral "to the city". She called at 6:15 then. Nurse calls at 6:40 today (I've called earlier but they won't return my calls until after hours). Gave me the last name of the Dr, no name of the clinic & tells me she doesn't know if they are supposed to contact that clinic & schedule the appointment or if the clinic will call to schedule the appointment. Oh, and she's the only one who can make that phone call & she's going to be gone tomorrow so I have to wait until Monday since the office is closed on Fridays. Ugh. I just want to get an appointment & get this process started. Ugh!

mshandlebar · October 2014

Wow! Is that only for one months worth @lemonliz? WTF!

WishUponAChild · October 2014

OMG there are so many WTF moments and Supportive comments I can't even reply to it all.

I couldn't survive this without your support.

I told my husband that I won the Bump's WTF Wednesday award (I know it was a joke, but it made me feel good). He laughed, which is good cuz he has been pretty stressed from all this crap too. So thank you ladies.

BunnyBerry · October 2014

@murrt Wow! Definitely nothing you have to be envious of...there's got to be some dysfunction in that family!

@lemonliz Yikes, I really hope it ends up being less!

@mharnicker Lol it's my dream to have 3-4 kids and homeschool them...and since we're in a tiny 2-bedroom house (and are only going to get poorer with IF treatments and hopefully some expensive babies), I have been trying to figure out how to get a couple bunkbeds in that 2nd bedroom!

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