Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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Hi ladies,

I'm just moving over from the FEB 15 birth month board.  My daughter was stillborn at 22 weeks gestation on October 7th.  My husband and I had been ttc for 6 years, and have been through the ringer with fertility treatments.  We had been completely blindsided when we found out we had lost her at a re-do of our anatomy scan.  The next two days were a nightmarish blur, and now three weeks later the funeral is over.  Most of the flowers have died, and I can still hardly get out of bed.  Today I finally had the courage to come to this board looking to you ladies for a bit of hope, and maybe some help picking up the pieces.
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. The pain you're going through is indescribable and it's going to take a long time to feel relatively "normal". Just know that you have a great support system here if you need to cry, vent, or just talk. Just know that every single emotion you have is ok to have. Everyone mourns differently and you're not alone. Big hugs to you and your DH.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs) You are more than welcome here, just know there is also a board "Loss" that you might want to go to as well.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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    I am so sorry to hear your story. I am glad you found your way here to at least talk about it. It doesn't make all the pain go away but it does help to have support of others that have gone through similiar situations. Many hugs to you.
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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    I am so deeply sorry for your loss.  


    ::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy

    BFP #1: 07/08/11  EDD: 03/22/12  Missed miscarriage @ 8w: 08/11/11, stopped growing @ 6w6d
    BFP #2: 03/26/12  EDD: 12/07/12  We have a HB at 7w!! (04/20/12)  CSD born 12/12/12 
    BFP #3: 08/05/14  Chemical Pregnancy at 4w3d 08/06/14
    BFP #4: 10/02/14  EDD: 06/10/15  Miscarriage at 6w6d 10/22/14




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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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    I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Sometimes life just seems so cruel and there are no explanations for why these things happen. Please be kind to yourself and know that this is a wonderful group of women. ((Hugs))
    Me: 28, DH: 33
    Married 10.12.11
     BFP #1: 5.30.12- Giannna, born 1.27.13
    BFP #2: 9.18.14- due 6.1.15 -- natural m/c @ 5w6d 
    BFP #3 11.2.14- due 7.16.14 -- mmc, d&c @ 10w1d

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    So so sorry for your loss
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    I'm deeply sorry for your loss, I hope you find comfort in this board. We are always here to listen. ((HUGS))
    Met 10/27/2006 & Married 6/7/2014
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    BFP 8/30/2104 | EDD 5/11/2015 | MS 10/3/2014 | D&C 10/7/2014
    BFP 12/31/2014 | EDD 9/13/2015 PLEASE be our RAINBOW

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    I am so sorry about your loss.  My EDD was in Feb '15 as well.  Mourn for as long as you need to.


    Lilypie Maternity tickers
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    • BFP #1 6/19/2014, EDD 2/21/2015, MC 9/14/2014 (17 weeks) possibly due to IC
    • BFP #2 1/31/2015, EDD 10/10/2015
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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    I'm so sorry.  I think you might find better support on the board called "Loss"  which is more for "late pregnancy loss":  https://forums.thebump.com/categories/loss

    We are very encouraging here but you will mostly find early miscarriages losses, and I think you are dealing with a specific kind of later term loss.

    Take care of yourself dear.  

      Me:36, DH:37

    DS born 11/2012

    BFP 7/26/14, Missed M/C at 8 weeks, discovered at 10 wks, 6 days, D&C 9/22/14, Dx: Partial molar pregnancy

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    I really feel for you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married to a wonderful man

    TTC since 2001

    4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)

    High FSH and low ovarian reserve

    Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
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    I'm deeply saddened by your loss. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Take care of yourself.
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