Mostly I just needed to talk about how it's going. My baby is 6 weeks and today is the first day I attempted to CD. she hardly slept at all and so she nursed just about every hour. Not sure if it is due to the CDing or maybe a growth spurt.
Since she was 3 weeks early she was really small and we were also in a heat wave. I thought it was too much fabric to have on her and they were so bulky. We also had BFing issues and jaundice to worry about, so we put CDing on hold. We just had too much going on.
I felt like a failure. I still feel that way. I'm really bummed about it. I am also not sure I still want to do it. I am not going to give up on it just yet, but maybe some of you experienced ladies can talk me off the ledge. I don't currently see a lot of positives to CDing and it's bumming me out.
How is it going for everyone?
FTM - BFP: 1/23/14 - EDD: 10/5/14 - DD Born 9/13/14
Re: Cloth Diaper Check-in
I wouldn't think that the sleep and nursing issues would be because of the diapers. It sounds like a growth spurt. When I first started CDing I worried about the bulkiness too. Never seemed to bother my boys though. DS#2 is a super soaker, so his diapers are massive, but he runs around just as easily in cloth as he does in a disposable.
Try not to get too discouraged! CDing takes a bit to get into, but once you can get a good routine down and get comfortable with it, CD are totally worth it!
We have been using cloth for 1 week now. Yes, I do an extra load of laundry every other day but I don't find it burdensome at all. I'm amazed by how many diapers we go through. It's nice to be using something reusable. More cost effective, better for the environment. We are also using cloth wipes. Super easy. When we were using disposable wipes we were going through a package every 2 days or so. Crazy!
What kind of diapers are you using?
DS1 is not yet potty trained and I gave myself a 2 week break before going back to cloth diapers for him. I plan to return to cloth on Monday for him.
@TheOtherJacobsons I don't think your LO's behavior had anything to do with the diaper. Sounds like a growth spurt to me. In my experience, babies don't have a preference for the disposable -if anything, a dry cloth diaper is probably more comfortable. It takes a week or so to get a good CD system going, but I eventually got to the point where I was doing laundry just once a week and the extra work wasn't bad at all. I live in the south and the summers here are brutal. The cloth diapers have never been an issue heat wise.
Married 10/06
Baby Girl "C" arrived on 10/07/14 (39 weeks, 6 days)
@theotherjacobsons, don't beat yourself up about your flagging interest in CD. Cuddles and breastmilk are more important to your baby than cloth diapers... it's one of those parenting decisions that makes us feel good but that really doesn't matter to baby. Even if you throw in the towel with CD, you're doing great!
I have a large stash of fuzzybunz but I am not a huge fan of those, with DD1 they leaked more than my bumgenius. I am looking to get rid of the fuzzybunz what are you guys using?
We have alittle diaper rash right now so we started using gramna el's and he is tolerating that well. Just had dh turn up our water tank to make sure they are getting disinfected...since he got that little rash.
So far so good and i love not spending any money on diapers. Looked at how much a pack of honest conpany was at target yesterday...dear lord those things are expensive!
The next hurdle is teaching my mother to change a cloth diaper!
I'm still building up what we will use next, I look forward to hearing what others are/will be using!