Trouble TTC a Sibling

Question...After HSG...

My doc has planned for me to have HSG on CD 8 of this upcoming cycle and when talking to the nurse she said if that's not the problem he wants to do a "post coital exam". At first I was taken back by this because it was never brought up with doc so I asked about what it was to the nurse and she explained that on CD 12 they want me to have sex with DH then drive into get checked out within an hour. Has anyone ever done this?? All I keep thinking is WTF am I supposed to do with DD while do it and how the heck am I supposed to keep all the stuff from dripping down my legs as I drive to the office to get this exam??? Any experience/advice welcome on this one. And sorry for being gross but I have a feeling you ladies know what I mean about the dripping.   ;) TIA!

ME: 35 DH: 39

Married July 2011

DD Born 8/12

TTC #2 since 11/13

ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

Beta #1-344

Beta #2-809

Beta #3 8,390

1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



Re: Question...After HSG...

  • I haven't heard of that but am interested in hearing what the other girls say!
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  • Yeah, we the nurse first said it she wasn't clear either and said she needed to speak to doc then call me back to clarify so in the meantime I went to Dr. Google who said it's to check to make sure my CM is allowing the sperm to get through. I don't know...

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



  • I've not heard of it and it sounds kinda yucky.

    As for how to keep the stuff from coming out, you could use a menstrual cup like soft cups.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
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  • I swear they just make up stuff to see if we will do it.  "Let's see if they will drive in after the hibbity-jibbity - how uncomfy is that?"

    Sorry I haven't heard of it!  Maybe ask to see what they are looking for? 
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
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  • Hmmm. Well that's not comforting that none of you have heard of it!! I will be sure to ask him all about it when I go in for my other appointment!

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



  • All I can say about this is that my friend had to do it.  She had the test before moving on to IVF 10 years ago and I think it was more the thing back then.  Maybe your doc is a little "old school?"  She did say it was pretty gross.  Good luck!  
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Heath&Jas said:
    All I can say about this is that my friend had to do it.  She had the test before moving on to IVF 10 years ago and I think it was more the thing back then.  Maybe your doc is a little "old school?"  She did say it was pretty gross.  Good luck!  
    Thank you! I will definitely find out if he is just old school and if that's the case thanks but no thanks doc!

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



  • I just saw my RE last week and am currently going through testing. I have my HSG tomorrow. She went over almost every possible situation and what we could do depending on different results from the different tests. She never mentioned that once. I am so sorry if you have to do that. I can't imagine having to drive to my RE's office 20 minutes away, leaking fluids. :( Keep us updated when you hear back from the doc on what exactly you are supposed to do.
  • I just saw my RE last week and am currently going through testing. I have my HSG tomorrow. She went over almost every possible situation and what we could do depending on different results from the different tests. She never mentioned that once. I am so sorry if you have to do that. I can't imagine having to drive to my RE's office 20 minutes away, leaking fluids. :( Keep us updated when you hear back from the doc on what exactly you are supposed to do.

    Thank you! I go in next Tuesday to discuss so if it's not something I'm comfortable with I'm going to say no to it.

    BTW-My sis and BIL were Hawkeyes! Love your avatar!

    ;;)

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



  • NB817 said:



    I just saw my RE last week and am currently going through testing. I have my HSG tomorrow. She went over almost every possible situation and what we could do depending on different results from the different tests. She never mentioned that once. I am so sorry if you have to do that. I can't imagine having to drive to my RE's office 20 minutes away, leaking fluids. :( Keep us updated when you hear back from the doc on what exactly you are supposed to do.



    Thank you! I go in next Tuesday to discuss so if it's not something I'm comfortable with I'm going to say no to it.

    BTW-My sis and BIL were Hawkeyes! Love your avatar!

    ;;)

    Thanks! We just moved to Ohio 3 weeks ago, but we lived right outside of Iowa City for the last 8 years! DH taught at the University! We had season tickets for football and the weekend package for basketball! I miss my hawkeyes!! Go Hawks!

    **we are now surrounded by Ohio State fans and we wear our black and gold proudly :) We do get some looks though ;)

  • Haha! I bet you do get some looks! My BIL actually played for the football team and my sis was the filed hockey goalie but they graduated back in 2000 so that was a while ago!

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



  • I have heard of this-it's to test your CM to see if it is not conducive/hostile to the sperm. I actually requested this test from my RE, but because we are doing IUIs, he said it is not necessary (since we're bypassing the CM part of it all). He did say it is an older way of thinking, but one that he still considers important, so if he deems it necessary, he definitely still does it.

    I, too, though, share your uncertainty about driving to the RE immediately following sex! That would be a little uncomfortable, I'd imagine!
    Thanks! This makes me a little relieved that someone has actually heard of it! Lol!

    ME: 35 DH: 39

    Married July 2011

    DD Born 8/12

    TTC #2 since 11/13

    ME: Submucosal Fibroid Surgery Date APRIL 14th 2015 -Left Tube is blocked by Fibroid~Surgeon removed 26 Fibroids from my Ute and Unblocked my Tube

    DH:Azoospermia...Thank God we have 12 vials of frozen swimmers

    July 15-Check to see if Ute is all healed

    IUI #1 8/3/15...BFN

    IUI #2 9/5/15...BFP on 9/17/15

    Beta #1-344

    Beta #2-809

    Beta #3 8,390

    1st u/s 8/8/15 1 bean HB 135 @ 6w5d



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