~~June Bugs Check-In 10/21/14 ~~

rmpar29 · October 2014

This is a weekly check-in for women who have suffered the loss of an angel with an EDD in June, no matter what the year. You are welcome to join us, just post an intro including your EDD and the information below:

Where are you in your TTCAL journey/cycle, etc? Any updates/appointments you'd like to share?

Good luck to all of you!! If you leave for PGAL, please send me a PM so we can all congratulate you. If you are taking a bump break, please do the same!

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QOTW: Does your SO want to know in advance when FW is?

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June Bugs:

@CheesyPeas 6/15/2011 - How’s the TWW treating you?

@MrsG80inTN 6/4/2014 - Nice to have you back! Are you being monitored this cycle?

@kittymeowbark 6/21/2014 - Wow, your temps are all over the place. Looks like you’re getting close to O though so hopefully you will see a + soon.

@towncargirl 6/27/2014 - I’m sorry that you are struggling. Sounds like your body’s playing some serious mind games with you. I hope AF either comes soon or stays away! (((HUGS)))

If your name is missing from above, please let me know and post an update. Some are not included as we have not heard from you in many weeks.

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rmpar29 · October 2014

AFM: Finishing up our last TTA cycle. Just waiting on AF to get busy again!

QOTW: Here's why I asked. DH asked me to make a note on the calender when the approximate O day is. I told him that he could download the FF app and keep track that way, but he politely declined. Does your SO plan in advance, or just wait for the green light to get busy?

CheesyPeas · October 2014

@rmpar29, yay for burning the bench!

My TWW is okay. My EDD approaching has distracted me from obsessing over my cycle. I'm not feeling hopeful on this cycle anyway, so I'm just praying that AF stays away until after my EDD on Thursday. I don't want to deal with that on top of everything else. There's a remembrance walk for my pregnancy and infant loss grief group this weekend too, so if AF could hold off until Saturday afternoon or Sunday, that would be swell.

QOTW: With the way our household operates, DH needs to know in advance. I don't mark anything on the calendar or anything but I let him know that the time is coming and that we should probably get it on so he doesn't fall asleep on me before I come to bed or make plans to be out of the house for the evening.

MrsG80inTN · October 2014

@rmpar29 - My DH is always asking so we can plan ahead... We generally look at the calendar while AF is visiting and determine when might be good times for us to go at it...

AFM --- I have a monitoring appt tomorrow. They wanted me to do IUI this cycle, but couldn't tell me how/why that would help me so I'm only doing clomid + monitoring + TI. I also have an appt with the RE on Monday afternoon to talk about a plan and next steps as I'm not comfortable moving to IUI or anything else until they talk to me about why it helps our specific situation.

rmpar29 · October 2014

@CheesyPeas - I'm glad that you have the remembrance walk this weekend. Seems like a perfect time to reflect. I hope that AF cooperates, or that you have a good reason to celebrate.

@MrsG80inTN - I'm so glad to hear that you have an appointment with the RE!!!!! I think you really need to push for something more than Clomid. I recommend that you take your BBT charts with you and ask how he's sure that you are Oing. I would think 7DPO b/w would be in order too. Good luck and please PM me if you need anything or just to vent!

kittymeowbark · October 2014

Hi Ladies!!

Thanks for the check-in @rmpar29 --- YAY!! for last cycle before burning the bench!!

I have no clue why my temps are just all over the place. The past 2-3 days I have been waking up earlier but that cant be the main reason or can it? My O day is typically CD21,which is today, but my OPK and CBFM are not showing any good signs so I am not sure whats going on. FX that the OPK lets me know when it's time. I am so scared I am going to miss O this cycle. ughhh

QOTW: I usually tell H the week of O that "its baby making season"

) I tried to get him more involved once by showing him my peed on OPK stick so he can learn to read it, but he was not having that

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@CheesyPeas - FX that AF just stays away!! Lots of hugs for the approaching EDD as well.

@MrsG80inTN - It's great that you are asking for more information vs. just doing the IUI. FX that you speak with your RE and get some answers. GL

towncargirl · October 2014

AF still hasn't showed her ugly face here.

QOTW: My hubby doesn't want to know.. he feels like there is too much pressure but I do drop hints that he needs to stay awake etc.

rmpar29 · October 2014

@kittymeowbark - You crack me up! DH knows more than the average man about my cycles, but still doesn't want to know about pee sticks and what they mean. Waking up early could cause a shift, but I wouldn't think it'd be too much unless you aren't getting a solid 3-4 hours of sleep before you wake up.

@towncargirl - So many ((((HUGS)))) lady! Keep me posted!

kittymeowbark · October 2014

I have actually been getting more sleep. Used to be about 5-7 and now 8-10 these past few days.

Question---when I first started using the Wondfo's last week the line was much darker than it is these few days. It never got to the point of being as dark as the control. Is there a possibility I missed O?
My CBFM still has not shown peak, but it did not show it last month either so I am not sure if the monitor is failing.
AHHHH!!!!!

rmpar29 · October 2014

@kittymeowbark - Your temps do not support that you've O'd yet. It's possibly that your body geared up to O and didn't. It might gear up again, so I'd continue the OPKs. Are you using them with FMU or in the afternoon?

kittymeowbark · October 2014

I am using the OPK with bot FMU and in the afternoon. The crazy is setting in, so I might transition to 3x per day ~X(

rmpar29 · October 2014

@kittymeowbark - When I got close to O I would check in the afternoon too. Remember that you need to hold off on drinking and peeing for a few hours before testing to get a good reading. If you get to the point where the line is very light or not there at all I would stop testing. You could be having an anovulatory cycle. It's normal to have one occasionally. I've had two in the time I've been temping and using OPKs and it is so frustrating. I feel your pain!!!

kittymeowbark · October 2014

@rmpar29 - thanks for your help.

MrsG80inTN · October 2014

@rmpar29 - so I had my monitoring appt today... Had 3 follicles (22.5, 19, and 16) and I'm going to go ahead and do a trigger shot today even though I wasn't planning on it this month.

@kittymeowbark - Hoping you ovulate, but I've had several anovulatory cycles as well and it could be that is what is going on with you. They suck, but hopefully you can enjoy the BD...

kittymeowbark · October 2014

I really REALLY hope not

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rmpar29 · October 2014

@MrsG80inTN‌ - Sounds like u have some good follies there. FX sweetie!

@kittymeowbark‌ - I've also had cycles where I just ovulated a few days late so don't give up hope yet. How did your afternoon OPK look?

kittymeowbark · October 2014

The line is there but much lighter than it was last week. My CBFM is still showing high and no peak. :-<

I am beginning to mentally prepare myself that this is yet another month that is a bust.

rmpar29 · October 2014

@kittymeowbark - Huge (((((HUGS))))) honey! I'm so sorry that your body is giving you such a MF.

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