AF arrived, so on to IUI #3. I was a huge mess yesterday, but I am managing to hold it together pretty well today. Thanks mostly to you ladies (and an epic foot rub MH gave me last night)!
So, currently I am seeing my OB for treatment. A little bit of back
story on this decision because I know this isn't what most if anyone would recommend. We use known donor sperm, and it was difficult for us to find a place that would let us use our donor without loads of BS and ridiculous quarantine periods. Which is why we stuck with my OB because she is ok with our situation. We started our IF journey with her, and right off the bat she ordered a SA and HSG before jumping into treatment. She also does proper monitoring, and generally doesn't make me feel like she is just having fun playing at being an RE.
That being said, I have anxiety, and I am always paranoid that we should be seeing an RE and maybe she is missing something (although to be fair, I would probably feel this way regardless of who we were seeing). My baseline scan is going to be on Monday, and I have some concerns that I want to bring up with her. Before I do, I was hoping I could get your input. I want to make sure I ask the right questions. My HSG showed that one of my tubes is blocked. My doc isn't concerned with this at all. This makes me nervous, especially because I usually have follies on one side or the other. I know a few of the you also have blocked tubes, how do your RE's deal with it? My other concern is that I haven't had any blood work done except for mid LP progesterone. I am OOP, and she says why spend the money when the results wouldn't change my procedure. If I insisted she would do them, but I don't want to waste moolah. In general, I tend to be pretty wimpy whenever I meet with her, but this time I am determined to be fierce (not in a mean way, just in a super advocate way). Thanks, ladies! You help make me strong
****SIGGY WARNING****

TTC since May 2013Me: 31, blocked tube
DH: 35, azoospermia 
IUI #1 (50 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 9/7/2014: BFN
IUI #2 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 10/3/2014: BFN
IUI #3 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Estradiol) on 11/1/2014: BFN
First RE appt. on 11/11/2014
November 2014: Benched due to cyst 
IUI #4 (5 mg Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel, Crinone) on 12/26/2014: BFP!!!
Beta 1 (1/9/2015): 292 Beta 2 (1/12/2015): 843
Re: blocked tubes and blood tests
I am sorry to hear about the endo, but I am glad your RE took care of it. That is my worry. I think she is doing her best for me, but what if there is something she just doesn't know about or recognize. IVF isn't an option for us, and I want to make sure we aren't wasting our time or getting our hopes up. Thank you again.
edited because apparently my grammar has left the building
TTC since May 2013
Me: 31, blocked tube
DH: 35, azoospermia
IUI #1 (50 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 9/7/2014: BFN
IUI #2 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 10/3/2014: BFN
IUI #3 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Estradiol) on 11/1/2014: BFN
First RE appt. on 11/11/2014
November 2014: Benched due to cyst
IUI #4 (5 mg Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel, Crinone) on 12/26/2014: BFP!!!
Beta 1 (1/9/2015): 292 Beta 2 (1/12/2015): 843
Me: 27 DH: 35
TTC #1 Since July 2013
Started RE Testing July 2014
2 HSG tests: Right tube is blocked, possible endo.
TSH elevated, started Synthroid 25 mg daily.
October, 2014: Femara 5 mg + TI ---> 3 follies on blocked tube side ---> BFN
November, 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI#1--2 follies (on the good side), 46 mil. motile sperm=BFN
Nov-Dec 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI #2 (1 follie, 76 mil. motile sperm) + Endometrin=BFN
January, 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI #3 (1 follie, 38 mil. motile sperm)=???
New RE appt. scheduled for 1/14.
3T January Siggy Challenge: New Years Resolutions
Mine: Lose the weight I put on from booze and cookies over Christmas.
Husband: 26 SA: normal
Me: 23 Low AMH and damaged ovaries due to chemotherapy.
No AF or O in 3 years. HSG showed a slight T shaped uterus.
High Risk OB 9/29- got the ok to get pregnant.
RE Appt: 10/28/ U/S showed follicles, but also small damaged ovaries.
B/W results CD0: all normal except low AMH at 1.3
Cycle 1-November (TI)- Femera 2.5mg, 2mg Estradoil, and Trigger=BFN
Cycle 2-December (TI)- Femera 2.5 mg ,4mg Estradoil, and Trigger= No O
Cycle 3-January (TI)- Femera 5 mg, 2mg Estradoil, and Trigger=
@BunnyBerry you are exactly right. DH is really fantastic, but the donor sperm issue is so complicated for him that I was hoping we could make it as easy as possible.
@BandM14 we didn't even discuss surgery, which makes me even more certain I need to talk to someone else. At my CD12 u/s last round, I only had follies on the right side, and I couldn't quite remember what side was blocked so I asked my doc. She said she didn't remember either (ummm, ok, could you look in your file, perhaps?) and that it didn't matter because the other tube would pick up any strays. I've done some googling and it isn't as crazy as it sounds, but I would have liked a more comprehensive explanation. I hope you have good luck!
@shafwilson I see your Lap is scheduled for November. Good luck!
@rainbowbridge14 thanks for the input on bloodwork. I am going to insist on getting the whole panel. I'm glad she is concerned about our finances, but I would rather spend the money for some piece of mind.
@BlueFairy5 thank you for the moral support!
TTC since May 2013
Me: 31, blocked tube
DH: 35, azoospermia
IUI #1 (50 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 9/7/2014: BFN
IUI #2 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 10/3/2014: BFN
IUI #3 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Estradiol) on 11/1/2014: BFN
First RE appt. on 11/11/2014
November 2014: Benched due to cyst
IUI #4 (5 mg Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel, Crinone) on 12/26/2014: BFP!!!
Beta 1 (1/9/2015): 292 Beta 2 (1/12/2015): 843
I would say it sounds like your OB/Gyn is trying to be helpful, but at the end of the day she just doesn't have the training or experience that an RE has. I think you're making the right move by setting up an appt with an RE- don't worry about hurting your OB/Gyn's feelings, first of all I'm sure she will understand, but most importantly you have to work with someone you trust and feel confident with. Good luck
Me: 27 DH: 35
TTC #1 Since July 2013
Started RE Testing July 2014
2 HSG tests: Right tube is blocked, possible endo.
TSH elevated, started Synthroid 25 mg daily.
October, 2014: Femara 5 mg + TI ---> 3 follies on blocked tube side ---> BFN
November, 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI#1--2 follies (on the good side), 46 mil. motile sperm=BFN
Nov-Dec 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI #2 (1 follie, 76 mil. motile sperm) + Endometrin=BFN
January, 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI #3 (1 follie, 38 mil. motile sperm)=???
New RE appt. scheduled for 1/14.
3T January Siggy Challenge: New Years Resolutions
Mine: Lose the weight I put on from booze and cookies over Christmas.
(Is it too early for this many exclamation points in one post?)
TTC since May 2013
Me: 31, blocked tube
DH: 35, azoospermia
IUI #1 (50 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 9/7/2014: BFN
IUI #2 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel) on 10/3/2014: BFN
IUI #3 (100 mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Estradiol) on 11/1/2014: BFN
First RE appt. on 11/11/2014
November 2014: Benched due to cyst
IUI #4 (5 mg Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel, Crinone) on 12/26/2014: BFP!!!
Beta 1 (1/9/2015): 292 Beta 2 (1/12/2015): 843