Feeling so lonely and sad

c24s · October 2014

I was with my boyfriend for nine years since I got pregnant at 14 with my first now I'm pregnant with my third at 24. After being together for a little over 9 years we have recently broken up and I'm pregnant realizing that I'm going to go through this pregnancy alone, I just feel so lonely and sad but I have to be strong in front of my two boys of 8y and 5y old so I wait for the night and I cry... My pain comes from deep within my soul and it hurts so very badly I just want the pain to go away but I know it's going to take a lot of inner courage to face this alone. If anyone has regrettably gone through a similar situation please feel free to offer some words of advice.

c24s · October 2014

Thank you

redneckmomma25 · October 2014

I'm sorry you are in this situation. Heartbreak is awful. I hope that each day gets a little easier for you.

c24s · October 2014

Yes I'm trying to be optimistic but it's so hard to keep it consistent while pregnant thank you RDM25

angelfish628 · October 2014

I'm so sorry. Do you have any family or friends close by that you can talk to? Hang in there, it will gradually get better with time. Try your best to focus on your health and your kids. Big hug.

tigerlily25 · October 2014

I'm so sorry you are going through a rough time. Hopefully you have some family or friends that will be a good support group to you. You guts were together a long time! Is there any possibility of reconciling or has that ship sailed? Most importantly, your two children are loved and well taken care of. Concentrate on being the best mother you can be to them right now.

myeumyeu · October 2014

I'm so sorry you are suffering.

It's ok to mourn the end of relationships, don't give yourself a hard time for being sad! Its ok for others (even children) to see that you are sad. That said, if you feel like you can't take on your responsibilities, do everything you can to seek help and support!

jenniferaudrey0116 · October 2014

To be in a relationship so important to your emotional development and then have it end must be even more difficult. I can't even imagine, I'm so sorry.

Tonysgirl03 · October 2014

Sorry sweetie

jmnilsen · October 2014

I'm so sorry! What a terrible time to be pregnant through. Have you ever used essential oils? There are some that help IMMENSELY with depression, sadness, hormones, etc. If you're interested, I would recommend wild orange, clary calm, past tense as well as the basics lemon, lavender, & peppermint. The great thing about these is that they 100% safe for you and baby and your other kids can even use them. I know it won't take the pain away, but it may help you manage to get through your day a little better.

knitfastdiewarm · October 2014

It's so hard when a relationship ends. I'm so sorry you are going through this while pregnant! I hope you have a great support system around you to help with your boys. I hope that you'll find some peace with this new chapter in your life.

emilyssymonds · October 2014

Time heals all wounds eventually, sorry you are suffering.

smeliemelie3 · October 2014

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this! Breakups can be so unbelievably hard. Be sure to find some friends close by to help encourage you, care for you, and remind you of what an amazing individual you are. You are strong, and you can and will do this. Will be praying for you and thinking of you.

vickersh1 · October 2014

So sorry you are going through this. As PP have said - time. It will take time - each day will get a little easier. I can only imagine what you are going through - DH and I have been together 9 years next month and while we don't have kids (this will be our first) I can't imagine what I would be like if we were to go our separate ways. Hang in there and find some friends that can keep you company and or busy to keep your mind off of things. Take care of you boys too - they still need their momma.

c24s · October 2014

Words cannot even begin to express how grateful I am for all of your encouraging words and while I am very emotional as I read your replies I am also touched and more motivated to keep going on one step at a time. I know I have to be strong and hold my head up high for my kids and myself ...
You are all wonderful THANK YOU ALL. I wish I could give you all hugs and kisses!