June 2015 Moms

BO and now pregnant

back in February I was so excited to find out I was having a baby! Unfortunately, it took a trip to the ER to find out I had a blighted ovum. My world was crushed. This week I found out I am 6 weeks pregnant! I am so excited but so nervous to have a repeat. All I want is to get an ultrasound and be seen so I know everything is okay but unfortunately I have to wait awhile to be seen. I'm so scared so I'm not telling friends or family for awhile until I know for sure this time. Every feeling I feel down there scares me and makes me think this could be happening again. How do I just calm down?! Anyone with a similar story??

Re: BO and now pregnant

  • Hi there! I had my first loss at 9 weeks. And yes, I can sympathise with you. This pregnancy and the next 9 months will not be the same as my first pregnancy. Now I am filled with more fear than excitement. I'm afraid to do anything that might hurt the baby. I'm keeping it a secret from all of my friends. I have only told my mom and sister. I don't plan on telling anyone until I feel comfortable enough or until I start to show. Waiting for the first appointment is a bitch. Mine is in a couple of weeks, and the days are not moving fast enough. If you need any more support, the Pregnant Afterl A Loss board may help. You may already have joined, sorry but I can't keep track of every member. Good luck with everything. PM me if you need to vent.

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  • No I'm not a member but that sounds great! I lost mine at 7 weeks so I need this appt to come soon! I feel like if I bounce on the bed to hard or feel anything in that region it could be happening all over again! Thank you so much for the support! Ready to get this first trimester over with so I can breathe!
  • I had a BO discovered in June at 8 weeks that devastated us, and I have been more scared than excited and analyzing every little thing. I did betas after I found out that showed perfect doubling and after I had some brown spotting the other day so my dr let me do another to ease my mind that was nice and high! I'm going in next week to hopefully see a heartbeat this time around but honestly I've been so sick the last couple of days that I know this one will be ok. I never felt close to this before! My boss (who previously had multiple losses) said that when she got pregnant for real, you knew the difference. Deep breath and good luck to you!
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