back in February I was so excited to find out I was having a baby! Unfortunately, it took a trip to the ER to find out I had a blighted ovum. My world was crushed. This week I found out I am 6 weeks pregnant! I am so excited but so nervous to have a repeat. All I want is to get an ultrasound and be seen so I know everything is okay but unfortunately I have to wait awhile to be seen. I'm so scared so I'm not telling friends or family for awhile until I know for sure this time. Every feeling I feel down there scares me and makes me think this could be happening again. How do I just calm down?! Anyone with a similar story??
Re: BO and now pregnant
Hi there! I had my first loss at 9 weeks. And yes, I can sympathise with you. This pregnancy and the next 9 months will not be the same as my first pregnancy. Now I am filled with more fear than excitement. I'm afraid to do anything that might hurt the baby. I'm keeping it a secret from all of my friends. I have only told my mom and sister. I don't plan on telling anyone until I feel comfortable enough or until I start to show. Waiting for the first appointment is a bitch. Mine is in a couple of weeks, and the days are not moving fast enough. If you need any more support, the Pregnant Afterl A Loss board may help. You may already have joined, sorry but I can't keep track of every member. Good luck with everything. PM me if you need to vent.
BFP #1 12/23/13 MMC 01/24/14 @ 9w5days