so we are looking for a bigger car before the twins get here, and i really want a 3 row suv, but dh wants a minivan all of a sudden. he says they are the most practical, which i think is dumb because there are a lot of good options that arent minivans. ive just never been a van type of person, and its bs that he is trying to force me to get a car i dont like! anyone have experience or recommendations?! thanks!
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You put three kids in the second row and keep the third row folded down for more storage. You do have to pay attention to the seats you buy but it's totally possible to fit 3 across in an SUV. I don't have a need for a third row right now, honestly.
FWIW, the Honda Pilot is a great car for 3 across. We have an Acura MDX which is built on a Honda platform.
a) can't access this row unless we take a seat out
b) if we do take a seat out and use the third row there is not enough trunk space for stroller groceries etc.
Its a pain in the butt getting the girls in the car as it is , when the new baby arrives I can only imagine it will get worse.
I really want a minivan now.
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For sure take your car seats with you car shopping & make your decision.
My hubby purchased a 3rd row pathfinder & infant seats do not fit behind the driver seat when he is driving. & the passenger will be an inch from the glove box.
I am getting an odyssey to drive & am expecting my first children... A set of twins:)
Good luck!!!