Had my first conversation with DH a couple nights about saying for sure I want one more. I'm 95% off the OAD fence.
He isn't as convinced.
We'll wait at least another year before TTC, maybe when DD is 3. I'd want them about 4 years apart. We'd be living in Colombia at the time of delivery though and I can't imagine actually having a kid abroad so that would mean medical evacuation back to the US. Not ideal but otherwise the age gap would be 5.5 years and I'd really prefer 4-4.5 years. More than 5 seems like too long & I think I wouldn't want to restart with a newborn then.
We are still TTA and I don't see that changing in the near future. We both get a little sappy when we see little babies, but DS is becoming more of a handful every day so it brings us back to reality. We have a very limited support system so we would NEVER get out and 2 in DC just sounds awful. We are both at pretty pivotal points in our careers, too, so we've pretty much rationalized waiting until we either decide it's time or it's not going to happen. It's funny how much our perspective has changed over the last 6 months!
We are TTA until DD turns 2 and then we will be trying for #2. I have been using the OPK's to track when I ovulate to make sure we don't get pregnant before next year and then will more than likely use them when we are actively trying.
We are still tta here too. I am sure I want another one but I don't want to try until next summer. Dh isn't so sure. I get wistful looking at pregnant people but I am terrified of another little baby. Yet DD makes me wanna do it again. :-)
We are TTA until i'm two years post op. So like, 3 more years or so. So right now i am just focused on Thoren and that is kinda nice actually, but man, i was watching old videos of him from the newborn phase and got weepy as hell.
7/5/11 MC at 8 weeks. 5/17/12 BFP, twins EDD 1/20/13! 6/20/12 Baby B's heart has stopped beating. 8/31/12 Baby A is a boy! And is perfectly healthy and thriving. 1/19/2013 emergency c-section, Thoren is perfect. 3/1/2013 told i will never be able to conceive again. 12/16/13 told they were wrong!
I am on the TTA train, ideally I would like to wait another year and try when Jacey is 3. My mom just found out she may have lung cancer and she lives with us. Right now im just trying to figure out whats going on with her health. My plate is running over right now, anyway congrats to all the preggo mamas.
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Just found out one of my high school friends is having a baby. Its so hard to hear when it is someone that was close to you rather than a friend of a friend in making you think well maybe I should have another. But I so enjoy getting rid of baby stuff and sleeping lol. I would have all the babies if they would just pop out at 2.5 years old.
Re: TTAers
Congrats to all the mamas with BFP posts lately!
BFP #1: 05/2012 DS born 12/30/12
BFP #2: 02/2014 Natural M/C 03/2014 @ 7 weeks
BFP #3: 06/2014 EDD: 02/17/2015 M/C @ 7w2d, D&E 7/15/14
Henry Cavill...You're welcome!
BFP #3: EDD 1/10/13 **DS born 12/30/12!!!**
BFP #2: MC 7/2/11 @ 12 weeks
**Missing our February '12 LoveBug**
BFP #1: MMC discovered on 12/6/10
This.