April 2015 Moms

I don't feel sexy...(aw-ish)

So resently my DH has wanted sex more often...he finds me sexy still even though i'm prego...i still just feel fat and weird in my own skin. We got in a heated argument about it last night and I fell SO bad :( He told me I make him feel like I he doesn't turn me on...ugh...but thats not it at all...I tried telling him that men and women get turned on differently and right now I just don't feel sexy :(

What else can I do to reassure him that he is still sexy to me but I'm just not in that place right now? Are any other ladies having this problem?

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Re: I don't feel sexy...(aw-ish)

  • Going through the exact same thing. I had lost some weight and was finally feeling good about myself then we found out about this April baby...now I'm back to feeling just fat again.
    I've had to keep explaining why I just don't want sex right now and that my sex drive is in a down place right now. It helped when he talked to my Dr and he explained about a woman's body changing and how it's a difficult process to handle for some...that may help your DH understand a little more.
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  • @Ineice0160 I'm glad i'm not the only one...what suxis that we JUST had an apt Monday and this happend Monday night :( so we wil have to wait until 11/24 for thenext Doc apt....but I will let him know about what your doc said...hopefully it helps.

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  • It does majorly! Hopefully it helps! My docs office has an open door policy on calling with any kind of question related to pregnancy. I think guys don't understand how hard it is to have your body change so much and so fast especially topped with all of the "fun" side effects.
  • I don't feel sexy. But I have the opposite problem. I want sex all the time and my husband doesn't because it freaks him out.
  • lol @smilesallaround It was like that before i got prego lol...she with me my situation and he will be happy! lol

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