Hi ladies,
I wanted to get your experience and honest opinion. This is my fourth pregnancy (no babies). First one suspected ectopic. Next two chemical that didn't last past 19DPO and two betas. Now on my fourth....I did IUI on September 24 and then had a bloodtest 16 days after IUI with a result of 11. Did another hcg today and got the results of 40. My nurse is very concerned and wants me to come back for another draw on Wednesday. When I asked her best case scenario she said it would be to have my body take care of it and miscarry on my own. I asked if there was any chance it was viable and she said not likely given the low numbers that it started with. I haven't had any cramping or spotting. I'm trying to be realistic. Any similar experiences that actually turned out to be a viable pregnancy?
Thanks for your time and response!!

Married: 8/25/13 - TTC #1 since May 2013 - Met with RE June 2014
BFP #1 August 2013 - Suspected Ectopic September 2013
BFP #2 May 22, 2014 - MC May 27, 2014
BFP #3 June 30, 2014 - MC July 6, 2014
BFP #4 IUI cycle #1 October 10th - ectopic identified October 24th
****Looking to start IVF next round since I've had 2 ectopics***
Re: Visiting - low hcg question for y'all
I have not experienced low hcg numbers myself, but I've read on here that the doubling time is more important than the number itself. I don't think your nurse should have said that because she really doesn't know what will happen.
Also, hcg numbers can vary a lot, if you look at betabase (just search it and it comes up) you can see the wide ranges of numbers given. I had a very high number at 16dpo (600+) and was nervous it was multiples, so don't read in to it too much on that site. It might be helpful to just see the wide variety of numbers out there. I hope you get good news on Wednesday.
Thanks so much ladies for your responses! I didn't think of doing a search of "low hcgs" until afterwards. I know there's really no "answer" anyone can provide but getting it out there helps some time pass by.
@Goldie000 - That's what I am thinking as well, that I implanted later, but wasn't sure how that works with IUI's. I am getting another blood draw tomorrow, so hopefully that gives more clearly to the ambiguity of it all.
@QSB Yes! You got the dates right. That was my initial reaction that they numbers had doubled but my nurse was really just going on the fact that they are so low at 16 and 19 days after IUI.
Thanks again ladies! You have supported my hope!
No experience and no advice to give, but just wanted to say Good Luck and hang in there. It isn't over yet, so keep your head up.
BFP: 08.11.14 EDD: 04.11.15
You mention that implantation could've been later, and that is also a possibility, even with IUI. The IUi helps the sperm get to the egg to fertilize but implantation typically occurs around 7-10 days later. So, you could've been on the 10 or later range. I hope you get good news soon!
Also, and I just thought of this, did you do a trigger shot to time ovulation? Or did you use OPKs to time the IUI? I only ask because even though the IUI was on the 24th, you could've ovulated later unless you did a shot or your RE checked, so I'm curious about how you timed the IUI? GL!
That makes sense actually; the trigger shot will make you ovulate about 24-36 hours later.
I'm sorry you are dealing with this, but be encouraged that your doubling time seems good! I hope you get good news soon! Getting a bfp after dealing with trouble TTC can be very stressful too. I'll be thinking of you!