April 2015 Moms

Clingy

edited October 2014 in April 2015 Moms
Does anyone else want to be with or under their significant other ALL THE TIME?

Re: Clingy

  • Loading the player...
  • No it wasn't a sexual reference. I meant always around if that sounds better to you.
  • 10years that's a long time. Makes sense why you would like silence
  • No. Not at all.
  • I do find myself being a bit clingy lately. We don't get much time together during the work week anymore so anytime I can spend with him I do.
  • Funny in the very beginning I had that same problem. His cologne smelled, his deodorant, everything about him smelled & I thought I was just being weird. Glad to know I wasn't.
  • That might explain it. We used to see each other everyday & spend 24hrs of the day together when we worked near now we work in two different cities, different hours and hardly see each other.
  • The user and all related content has been deleted.
  • I was a little shortly after finding out about baby, but it's gone now thank goodness. I was annoying myself.
  • Nope. We enjoy our time together, but we're both only children and have always been very independent. Nothing has changed.

    Me: 34 DH: 36

    Married since 11/11/11
    BFP#1 10/5/13 MC 11/11/13 @9wks 3d
    BFP#2 7/20/14 EDD 4/4/15


  • I do but that's because we work different schedules. Time apart is Good but I do wish I saw him more

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
    Lilypie Maternity tickers
  • No it wasn't a sexual reference. I meant always around if that sounds better to you.
    I'm confused who spends time under their spouse in a non sexual way? Anyway,  If it were referring to sex, I'd say that with my first, I was all about the sex. And it was way easier for me to get something out of it than usual ;)  With this one, I agree with everyone else so far.  I love my space and love DH.
  • We've been together 11 years and I deeply enjoy lazy weekend mornings or Sundays spent under blankets watching football with H. We are together a lot when I'm not at work (he works from home), and during that time we are affectionate and snuggly, but we also both really value our own space and the freedom to do our own thing. Pregnancy has made me less snuggly, but colder weather makes me more in the mood, so it evens out.
  • Yes! I love being with with my dh as much as I can. I have always been like this though. We've been together 7 years and I still miss him as soon as he leaves.
  • I'm more clingy but so is DH, he's got a new job where he's out of town all week and home on the weekends...DD and I rule the house, we get lonely.
  • This content has been removed.
  • I don't see mine at all during the week, and depending on the schedule it could be weeks at a time. So yes when he's home I'm extra clingy! Especially with baby on the way.
  • Not all the time, but I do prefer when we spend more time together rather than less. Clingy with me was more on of those early 20s crush phases (not implying that you're going through that).
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Yes! I have been married eight years but we just love every minute together! Sounds cheesy but it is true. I was gone to school for two years and he lived in our hometown and I went to the city my schooling was offered- it was so tough and we usually only saw each other on weekends but it brought us so close and helped us really appreciate the time we get to spend together and make it quality time.
  • I am like that, my husband works 12hr days, so we only get about 3-4hrs together before we both crash at night. When he gets home, we'll just stand there and hug each other for like 5 minutes, just soaking it in. If we are in the same room, we are touching, hell I even curl up in his lap sometimes, like a little kid. We are both just very affectionate towards each other.
    BabyFetus Ticker

  • I think I am a terrible wife. I am not clingy. At all. Kiss when he gets home from work. Maybe a cuddle before bed. Hug and kiss when he leaves in the morning. Then I have 3 more glorious hours to have the bed to myself. Weekends he sleeps in his man cave. We don't spend a lot of time together on weekends either. He is always working on the house, outside, or one of his many projects. Ha. We sound like the worst married couple ever.
  • Swoon13 said:
    I think there's a big difference between affectionate and clingy. My H and I are super affectionate. But we aren't clingy.
    I agree!  we're affectionate, but the clinginess ended a long time ago.
    Together since 5.16.05 (16 & 19yo)
    Married since 3.6.10 (21 & 24yo)
    Baby Olivia coming 4.14.15 <3 (26 & 29yo)

    image


    January Siggy Challenge: Fitness Fails

    image


  • I am so clingy. Stupid hormones. My fiancé is on call all the time so he is gone a lot and I find myself crying everytime his stupid phone rings. I just want cuddles and laziness!
  • We both work from home so we are always together but we don't mind at all. We never argue or fight and everyone looks at us like we are crazy when we say that haha. We are already pretty affectionate but I wouldn't say clingy. I want to be touched more but he is in his own world sometimes and doesn't realize it I guess
    image
    Married 3/5/10
    Started TTC Baby #1 6/2014
    BFP #1 7/27/2014 
    EDD 4/3/2014
    IT'S A GIRL! 10/16/14
    Team Pink!

     BabyFruit Ticker

    BabyFetus Ticker
  • nope.  not even a little
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • Not all the time - I like to have my space. I enjoy Monday's and Wednesday's when he has class and I can do my own thing and have the TV to myself :) He doesn't have class this week and it is totally screwing my bum status up!! On the other hand, he is home all week and cooking dinner, so I won't complain too much ;)

    We have been together going on 9 year next month, while we enjoy our time together, we enjoy doing our own things as well.



    BFP: 08.11.14   EDD: 04.11.15
    IT'S A GIRL!!!
    image

    BabyFetus Ticker

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"