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megt216megt216 member
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It's been a little over a week since my d&c and I am a mess of emotion. Today it took everything I had to get out of bed and go to work. I'm a teacher and I took most of last week off, but I just don't trust my emotions right now. I cry at the drop of a hat and am so nervous I'll lose it at school. DH is trying to understand and be sensitive to how I'm feeling, but I just feel so alone sometimes. I'm still bleeding and feel like that is contributing to my difficulty. It's like a constant reminder of our loss. I feel like I start to come to grips with it then one little thing happens and I'm crying or completely zoning out. I just hope i start feeling more like myself soon.
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  • nikiswimrnikiswimr member
    I'm sorry you're going through this. I haven't had my D&C yet but had to go back to work after they confirmed my loss today. I could barely keep things together and spent the time in between patients crying in my office. I hope it gets better for you.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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  • foodie12rnfoodie12rn member
    I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I hope things get better soon.
    Me: 28, DH: 33
    Married 10.12.11
     BFP #1: 5.30.12- Giannna, born 1.27.13
    BFP #2: 9.18.14- due 6.1.15 -- natural m/c @ 5w6d 
    BFP #3 11.2.14- due 7.16.14 -- mmc, d&c @ 10w1d

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  • katie0919katie0919 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss! I know it's not much of a consolation, but it DOES get better. I'm not even quite 3 weeks out from my loss and I'm MUCH better than I was just a little over a week ago. It still hurts, a lot, and I have my moments. But I no longer feel like I could cry 24 hours a day. I'm just ready for my body to get in gear so I can start trying again next cycle.

    Hang in there, I know it's so tough, especially having to deal with work. That has been the hardest part for me also.
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Me: 37 DH: 38 
    BFP #1 3/17/11 - DS born 12/4/11
    TFAS Dec 2013
    BFP #2 - 3/23/14 - CP 3/26/14
    BFP #3 - 8/20/14 - Natural Miscarriage 9/22/14
    BFP #4 - 1/28/15 - DS2 born 10/13/15
    Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17

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  • 4N6s4N6s member
    I'm so sorry for your loss... :( I was the same way.
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