TTC After a Loss

I need your thoughts and prayers please!!!

I stood up after supper tonight and felt something.  I went to the bathroom and saw that what I felt was me starting to bleed.  Bright red blood! Crying  I am thinking that this is it.  DH is trying to convince me that it isn't over yet, but I just know it is.  I can't help but think what is wrong with me that I can't carry a baby! 

I'm going to call the OB's office tomorrow morning and see what they say.  Our ultrasound appt. is scheduled for Wed. so I need to see what they want me to do.  Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Re: I need your thoughts and prayers please!!!

  • Oh no! Please don't give up hope yet.  I'll be thinking of you and praying for you.  ((HUGS)) I hope everything's okay!
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  • Oh my gosh - that would be so scary.  Don't panic yet - just call your OB tomorrow and maybe they can squeeze you in.  It could be something normal so just try to stay calm for now. 

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  • oh sweetie i'm so sorry! please don't loose hope i know how hard it is not too after having experienced a loss.
    try and stay calm and lay down with your feet up, it may be nothing at all but nonetheless scary!
    ((((HUGE BIG HUGS))))
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    BFP #3 Apr 2008 EDD Dec 10 ~ ectopic ~ May 2008 ~ 5wk 2d ~ emergency lap surgery, lost left tube
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  • Hey Michelle

    I am thinking about your and including you in my prayers tonight.  Please try to relax and get off your feet.  Treat yourself tonight to a nice cup of tea and whatever comfort food you desire.  Call your OB 1st thing in the morning. 

    Keep us informed.

    ((HUGS))

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  • OMG!!!!  I am sending tons of postive, sticky vibes your way!!!! 

    Call your on call dr right now if you are having heavy, red bleeding.  Oh, I am so sorry.  But remember that many healthy pregnancys involve spotting, so try your hardest to put your feet up and not stress.

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  • The bleeding is not heavy and I checked a few min. ago and there was nothing on my pad but I haven't been to the bathroom.  I relaly hope it is nothing but considering the past, I can't help but think the worst.
  • OMG Michelle how scary. I am so sorry this is happening. I know it is hard, but try not to lose hope just yet. It could be normal pregnancy spotting. I would do what the others said, put your feet up and try to relax until morning.

    If the bleeding becomes heavy or you start to have cramping I would go directly to your nearest ER.

    Good Luck I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.... [BIG HUGS}?

  • no no no!  It is not!  It is probablya clot from the uteris or something that became dislodged.....

    sending sticky dust!!

  • Oh, big big big hugs.  I am sure you are so scared right now.  So many people post on 1st tri that they had bleeding in the first trimester.  I hope that this is just some patch of blood making its way out.  I am sorry you are having to deal with this.
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  • I am so sorry you're dealing with this, you will be in my thoughts.
  • Im sure you are totally freaking out but just curl up and go rest if you can. Worry and stress is the worst thing for baby. I have a friend who bled for a couple months with her baby and everything turned out fine! Call your OB tomorrow but other than that just relax. I'll be praying for you sweetie.
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  • I will be thinking about you.
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  • Please try not to give up hope. I will be praying for you.
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  • I'm sorry this is happening to you.  I'm praying for you and sending positive vibes your way!  Best of luck tomorrow at the OB! 
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  • I am SO sorry you are bleeding. I pray this isn't it for you. I had a friend that had some major bleeding (she thoughts she was m/c) during the 1st tri and now has a gorgeous little boy.

    Please keep us posted.

    :::hugs::: and :::healthy baby vibes:::?

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  • i'm so sorry....just put your feet up and try to relax. ?i know it will be hard, but try to stay positive and not think it's over...it could be totally normal. ?((sticky baby dust))
  • Oh no!!! I will be praying for you. Do like the others said, stay off your feet and try to relax.
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  • I'm praying for you Susan.  Please keep us updated.
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  • Try and stay positive with your DH! I hope that it is nothing and that everything is going to be ok. I will most definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers! I hope they can get you in right away! Please keep us posted.

  • Lots of hugs and prayers.  I am wishing the very best for you.
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  • Stay positive. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Please, please try to stay positive.  Spotting can be just fine.  Please just rest and call the OB in the morning.  I am sending you all of the positive energy I can find.  (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm sorry you are having to go through this. How scary. I hope your dr can get you in tomorrow. (((Big hugs))) My thoughts are with you!
  • Sending you thoughts, prayers and ((hugs))!!!
  • good luck to you!!!! your in my prayers!!!!
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    All my love and hugs to you- please don't give up hope just yet!!!!!

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  • You are in my thoughts and prayers! Try to stay positive and relax tonight. GL hun!
  • Sending you lots of thoughts and prayers!
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  • oh no!  Susan, I will pray really hard for you.

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  • Susan I just saw your post this morning and hope you made it through the night alright. I am thinking of you and praying that you and your baby are fine. Give us an update today after you see your dr. Keep thinking positive!!  You will get through this.
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