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sweetbdr58sweetbdr58 member
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Hi I'm new here. Here's my story. I had my Mirena removed on July 16 and we found out I was pregnant on Sep 1. I started spotting about a week and a half later but was told by the dr's office that was normal. Started bleeding heavier on Sep 23 and went into the ER. They couldn't find a heartbeat on the ultrasound but said it could just be too early and sent me home with a diagnosis of "threatened miscarriage". The bleeding continued getting heavier the next morning, Sep 24 (I was exactly 7 weeks) and then came the cramping. I passed the intact tissue at home before my dr apt that afternoon and luckily the u/s showed the miscarriage was complete with no tissue left behind. It has now been 2 weeks. I've been "tracking" my hcg with hpt's which have been gradually getting lighter and finally negative today. I had another blood draw yesterday with my hcg down to 15. I also had some ovulation symptoms and a positive opk on Sun. I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I just want to be pregnant again as soon as possible. It's been so hard being pregnant and then feeling so empty after the loss. Just letting nature take its course and seeing what happens over this next month or so.
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  • nikiswimrnikiswimr member
    I'm sorry for your loss and I definitely understand wanting to try again. As soon as we're cleared in a couple of months after my D&C I want to try again too.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to this board.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Sorry for your loss. We all understand wanting to get pregnant again but give yourself time to help physically and emotionally. You also need to make sure you check with your doctor before trying again. Most women here have been told to wait at least 1 cycle. I was told to wait 3. ((Hugs)) welcome to the board.
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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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  • ashlee113085ashlee113085 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.



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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    Welcome to the board.  I am sorry for your loss.

    December 4                     image

    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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  • sweetbdr58sweetbdr58 member
    I have discussed TTC again with my Dr and while she says they always recommend to wait a couple cycles that it wouldn't be a higher risk if it happened sooner since my body took care of everything naturally. I am mentally prepared for another loss should it occur again as well, although I am trying to stay positive.
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss. If your dr says they "always recommend" waiting, then wait.
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. Take time to heal. This is a wonderful place, and everyone is very supportive. 
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • uromysuromys member
    Im sorry to hear of your loss. Emotionally I was not ready cycle one. By my second I was itching to TTC, but we remained benched. I'm currently on my third cycle and I'm excited and nervous to start TTC again. Take time to heal emotionally if you need it. Best wishes.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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