Pregnant after IF

When did you feel pregnant?

As of today, I am 11w0d with twins, and other than regular heartburn and fatigue, I don't really have any pregnancy symptoms.  I've gained somewhere between 3-5 lbs so far, but I've done worse than that between Thanksgiving & Christmas - in fact, I did just that last year, and I never lost it, so I've sorta looked a bit *fluffy* as it were for the past year.

So, I'm just wondering, when did everyone else finally feel like they were pregnant?  Did it begin after you started showing?  Or when you could start to feel the baby move?  Or, does it never really feel .... err.. real?

And, am I going to regret these statements, and just miss feeling normal in the coming weeks?  

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Me: 37, DH: 39, TTC 5 yrs

2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign); 
2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
2014 summary (to date):
IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!; 
1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26; 
ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze :'(
1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!! 
EDD: 29-April-2015
Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily

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  • I think I started when my bump poked out. I'm a petite 5'2" and there was no hiding the bump by 16 weeks. Now that I feel movement & feel pretty round I definitely feel pregnant.
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  • Canuck13Canuck13 member
    edited October 2014
    A lot of the time I don't feel pregnant, but I also have heartburn very regularly and am pretty tired by the end of my work day...the biggest thing I'm having trouble getting used to is my constantly bloated stomach and the fact that I feel like I *look* pregnant even though I know I'm not actually showing yet. I'm so self conscious about it because I'm still hiding my news so getting dressed in the morning has been a pain in the ass. ETA: I've also gained 3 lbs so far, so nothing extreme.

    Me: 37 | DH: 41
    TTC Since 2011 DX: Unexplained 
    IUI's #1 - 3 = BFN
    IVF August 2014: FSH 4.1, PRL 15.3, TSH 2.1, W/ AFC 8.
     08/03 ER 5R, 4M, 3F. 08/08 5DT of 1-3AA0, 2 frozen :) bfp @9dp5dt. Beta on 08/20 = 414.
    So excited to have one little bean on the way!!
     
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  • I started to feel really pregnant when she started to move constantly. Interestingly enough, when she doesn't move, I kinda forget I'm pregnant.

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  • I had zero symptoms. I "felt" pregnant when strangers could tell I was pregnant. Strangers get very excited to see pregnant people ;-) Prob 19 or 20 weeks?
    TTC since June 2011
    DH: perfect SA
    Me: 30, moderate endo, unexplained infertility
    IUI or IVF in December



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  • Some days I still don't feel pregnant!  But I'd say around our A/S and when the baby started moving, which were both around the same time.  Definitely once I could see the baby moving from the outside, that's pretty cool!

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    Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
    Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!

  • At 26 weeks, there are still days when I don't feel particularly pregnant. I finally look pregnant, unmistakably, but I still don't feel pregnant some days.

    I got food aversion starting at about 12 weeks, really no symptoms before that, but even that I kept feeling like it was somehow in my head. It wasn't, because it very promptly went away at 16 weeks, but for whatever reason it just didn't feel real, I still felt like I was playing pretend.

    Having the baby clearly and undeniably kick me is probably the best reminder that I am pregnant and that there's a little person inside of me. Before then, it felt like it was all this game where I was making up symptoms.
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    Off birth control March 2012 - Actively trying Sept 2012-April 2014
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    BFP on May 5th after Follistim & IUI #3
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  • I really didn't have symptoms either.. I had food aversions from wks 8-12 & I was so tired up until 14w. Other than that, I honestly still feel normal. I did start feeling movement everyday starting at 19w too, so that's a good reminder like PPs said. So don't worry, if you are!! Twins doesn't mean double the symptoms lol.

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    IUI #1 January - Clomid, Ovidrel: BFN
    IUI #2 February - Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel: BFP 1st beta-25, 2nd beta-56, 3rd beta-45, miscarriage
    IUI #3 April - CD3 U/S 4-10. Letrozole, Follistim, Ovidrel CD11 - Cancelled.. TI w/5 follicles-BFN
    IUI #3.1 May - CD3 U/S 5-6, Follistim start 5-11 thru 5-17, u/s 5-18 3 mature w/ a close 4th, IUI 5-20 - BFP!
                 Beta #1 12dpo - 164 & progesterone - 89!, Beta #2 16 dpo - 1189, 5w3d - u/s shows TWINS!
                 6/19- u/s showed heartbeats! Baby A 111 & Baby B 118, both measuring 6w1d
                 7/3- Baby A hb 170, Baby B hb 166 - both measuring perfect.
                 7/18 - Baby A 165, Baby B 171 - both measuring right on track & moving all around!

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  • I've had a really symptom free pregnancy. There are times I forget I'm pregnant too! When I realized I really AM pregnant was when I hit about 21 weeks and can feel the baby regularly.... Now I'm 25 weeks and I have a big round belly and feel lots of kicks/flips. Makes it feel VERY real!
    Me (28) DH (32)  Endometriosis                                                                                   IVF  #1 (1/2013) - 17 Retrieved, 16 Mature, 14 Fertilized- 2 transferred- BFN
    FET #1 (7/2013) - 2 embryos - BFN
    FET #2 (9/2013) - 2 emrbyos - BFN
    New RE. Fresh Start
    IVF  #2 (2/2014) - 25 Retrieved, 19 Mature, 16 Fertilized, 9 blasts.
                                 CGH Testing: 6 Normal
    FET #3 (4/2014) -1 embryo -  BFP! Beta#1: 35 Beta #2: 16 :(
    FET #4 (5/2014) -1 embryo -  BFP! Beta#1: 321!!! Beta #2: 727.9!
    6/5/2014 Heartbeat! 144bpm It's a girl!
    Due January!
     
     

  • I'm 17 weeks and I have a significant bump..but if I don't look down, there are plenty of times I forget I'm pregnant. I have some bad days where my back hurts, headaches, etc. and I really FEEL pregnant but sometimes I go for days without much. Yesterday, I had a sonogram and baby was kicking like crazy but I don't feel it yet (the tech says it's a combo of my placenta placement and tilted uterus) so it's surreal. You aren't alone with a lack of symptoms though and I'm sure there will surely show up in full force one day!
    Our Novel of TTC:

    *Male Factor (low count and low motility), High Prolactin, and Polycystic Ovaries (March 2013)
    *Recurrent Miscarriage testing also revealed high anti-phospholipids & single MTHFR mutation. (Feb 2014) 

    *IVF (07/2013): BFP-Natural Miscarriage @ 5 weeks* <3 Madison Riley <3
    *FET #1 (10/2013): BFN
    *FET #2 (12/2013)- BFP-Missed Miscarriage at 8 weeks <3 Kyle Andrew <3
    *Chromosomes and Karotyping tests were both normal.We lost a healthy baby boy :(
    *FET #3 (04/2014) was cancelled after finding Chronic Endometritis
    *Miraculous BFP July 2014!! (I was taking baby aspirin and Cabergoline to stay regulated while "taking a break from TTC" and waiting to consult with a reproductive immunologist!!!) 

    Our healthy baby girl was born 03/10/15 thanks to daily Lovenox injections and baby aspirin. There are no words for how grateful I am for our rainbow baby. <3
  • The "oh shit I'm really pregnant" feeling didn't kick in until I started to feel the baby move around 21weeks.
    Me: 32, DH:33, Married: 8/30/2008, TTC since: 10/1/2012
    DX: Me - DOR & tubal issues, DH: none. 
    June 2004: Ectopic pregnancy with DH while dating
    October & November 2013: IUI #1 & 2 - BFN
    December 2013:Taking a break, trying on our own.
    January 2014: BFP!!!! Ectopic pregnancy ruptured at 6wks1day. Left Fallopian tube removed. Noted during surgery the right Fallopian tube is severely damaged from 2004 ectopic pregnancy.
    April 8 2014: IVF#1 w/ISCI: 10 received, 5 mature, 3 fertilized. Day 3 transfer of all three embies.
    April 22, 2014: BFP! beta #1: 80 beta #2: 211 One nugget! 
    January 6, 2015: Adeline Marguerite is here!!


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  • No symptoms here either. the "pregnant" feeling only kicked in around week 20/21 for me
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    edited October 2014
    Aw, yay for this thread! Good job, ladies.  I have been making myself worried sick over my lack of "symptoms".  In the beginning (like before my BFP) I had pretty intense heartburn and dizziness.  And then, as I'm waiting for sore boobs and MS, NOTHING.  And here I've been since.  The only consistent in my life is cramping and that means period, right? SO you can imagine the stress building as I go.

    @AMshark You're one of my EDD partners and I can tell you I had convinced myself of bad news last night with minor spotting and intense cramps.  I doubt I'm out of the woods yet, but I just did a big ultrasound today and saw the baby in there kicking and sucking its thumb. (Don't tell me it can't do that yet.  I'll keep Awing and interpreting as I will. lol) It was such a relief because I don't feel pregnant at 11 weeks. 

    I was talking to my SIL today and she suggested perhaps I got used to some of the hormone element early on because I started taking Progesterone before I was even technically pregnant.  That sort of made sense to me.... No facts behind that, but with all of these ladies who don't have symptoms (and all of the "normals" on my BMB who DO have symptoms) it makes me wonder...

    Me: 27 DH: 27

    October 2013: Endo erosion/ Clear HSG

    March 2014: SA #1/  2%morph, borderline sperm count, decent motility

    June 2014: SA#2/  2% morph, low sperm count, worse motility

    Plan: "Quick Start IVF"/antagonist protocol with Follistim, Ganirelix, Ovidrel and progesterone suppositories (yay)

    High AMH (11) and Low BMI= low doses of everything to prevent OHSS

    July 27, 2014: Started Follistim injections for ten days

    July 31, 2014: U/S= 20 follicles, 8.5 lining, E2 is good, Ganirelix for 4 days starting 8/2

    August 4, 2014: 14 follicles on-track, good lining, Trigger 8/6

    August 9, 2014: 9 ICSIed/ 5 embryos; aiming for a 5dt on 8/13

    August 13, 2014: 5DT of 1 4BA almost-hatching blastocyst (Please hang in, Little Bug!)

    August 14, 2014: We have 3 frosties! Hope they're having fun hanging out together. :)

    August 23, 2014: Beta #1: 144 8/23/14: Beta #2: 374 Beta 8/25/14  Beta #3: 6,600 9/3/14

    September 9, 2014: Ultrasound #1 115 heartbeats per minute

    September 23, 2014: Ultrasound #2 182 heartbeats per minute 

    September 26, 2014: Love my OB's office

    October 10, 2014: Our baby looks like a baby and is moving all over!  

    December 8, 2014: Anatomy scan- It's a girl! 


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  • I believe I've read that women are more likely to experience M/S if they are under 35 years old. I feel like the oldest person on my BMB most days - I think this is maybe why they're all puking their guts out. .... But I do like @IFinTN‌ 's theory that I'm just more evolved (like my mother in all 5 of her pregnancies - all of which occurred under the age of 35).

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    Me: 37, DH: 39, TTC 5 yrs

    2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign); 
    2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
    2014 summary (to date):
    IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
    ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!; 
    1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
    IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26; 
    ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze :'(
    1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!! 
    EDD: 29-April-2015
    Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily

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  • It took me a while to really feel pregnant but being 35 weeks with twins just the other day I said out loud "oh my god, I'm bringing two babies home." It still doesn't seem real. For the longest time I felt like telling people I was pregnant with twins was a lie. I thought maybe I'm just going crazy from not getting pregnant!
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