DDF

Re: DDF

• pettycrocker member

  October 2014

  DDF, 

  
  

  Fuck today. N was being a super hellbrat, and my H was getting on my nerves: SOLUTION! Sent that MFer to Chuck E Cheese with the hellbrat. That's YOUR PROBLEM NOW, Chief. 

  
  

  
  

  I went from the bed, to the couch. 

  
  

  /done 

  
  

  
  Spontaneous pregnancy #1
  DD1 July 31, 2011

  
  Trying for #2 since Oct 11

  732973 Clomid Cycles

  2 IUIs 

  3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
  Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
  Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
  Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
  Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 
  
  
  
  

  

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• Bananappeal145 member

  October 2014 edited October 2014

  potatocastillo that is the best solution I have ever heard. Gets her out of your hair and is pretty much a punishment for him.
  
  OK, buckle up b/c it's been one hell of a week.
  
  Item #1 My roommate from college and I haven't spoken very much in the last few years owing mostly to the fact that she's a selfish bitch who never calls or returns my calls and always cancels plans so I just stopped trying. When I had my DD I got a text from her that said "Congrats" it was very heartfelt and moving. Anyway, she calls me about 6 months ago and asks me to shoot her wedding (i'm a photographer)....for FREE. I'm all fuck you bitch I don't do weddings and I sure as hell don't work for free, especially for you. Only I said it nice and referred her to a friend of mine (who is now just a little mad at me for setting bridezilla on her) Anyway, September rolls around and guess who's not invited to the wedding. Bitch, I'm good enough to come be your serf for the day but not good enough to be a guest? Fuck you!
  
  #2 I lost my job last weekend. It was only part time while DD was at school. They had to hire someone who could work full time. I get it but,  but I really enjoyed it and the extra income helped out a lot too.
  
  #3 My bitch SIL had her baby yesterday. She did not feel the need to include me on any of the texts or emails that went out so I just found out when DH got home. Not that I give a fuck but her parents do, she refused to tell us the gender of the baby for the longest time and then she refused to tell the name. Whatever, her choice except she was being a little bitch about it and kept hanging it over everyone's heads. Like Neener neener neener I know but I'm not telling, because she perpetually has to be the center of attention. So kid is born and still for SEVERAL hours she won't even tell her own mother what the kid's name is. Want to know what all the fuss was about? William...snore. Unrelated to this story but, she also loves to ask my advice and then tell me why I'm wrong. Have I mentioned that I fucking hate her?
  
  
  No offense if anyone's loved ones are named William. It's not the name I hate I promise.

  
  
  
  TTC #2 since 1/1/13
  
    
  

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• pettycrocker member

  October 2014

  It's just not a name worth keeping fucking secret  8-| 

  
  

  
  Spontaneous pregnancy #1
  DD1 July 31, 2011

  
  Trying for #2 since Oct 11

  732973 Clomid Cycles

  2 IUIs 

  3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
  Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
  Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
  Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
  Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 
  
  
  
  

  

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• sailorgal member

  October 2014

  Bananappeal145 - you totally deserve a drink! 

  Me: 32, DH: 33
  DS #1: April 2010
  DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
  

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• GraceyandTroy member

  October 2014

  Oh, @Bananappeal145‌ I'm so sorry all thus crap happened all at once. Seriously, one at a time would be a great ddf entry, but all in one week?!? I'm just... sorry.

  Happily Mrs. C 

    
  

  
  

   

   

  start ttc #1 in Jan 2009

  dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin

  Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)

  Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011

  Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011

  Hoping holistic approach works!!!

  
  

  BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo

  Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

  
  

  Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er

  Back on metformin Aug 2013
  

  Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf

  DS weaned in April 2014

  Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  

  Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!

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• sailorgal member

  October 2014

  DDF

  
  

  I'm co-hosting and planning two baby sprinkles right now. I'm in charge of the group gifts (I volunteered). But I hate myself a little because I felt like I had been punched in the gut as I was doing the shopping for them tonight and I developed a massive headache which is still lingering. I don't even know if it was about them that I was upset but more just being in the middle of the vast baby sections and holding newborn clothes. 

  
  

  Anyways I tested tonight and BFN. I'm 13DPO so I'm out, I'm sure of it since my tests picked up the chemical pregnancy when the beta was just over 6. 

  
  

  Signed, Terrible Friend 

  
  

  
  

  Me: 32, DH: 33
  DS #1: April 2010
  DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
  

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• Bananappeal145 member

  October 2014

  Oh no @sailorgal. I'm so sorry abou the BFN. Big hugs to you. When are the baby showers? Will they be over soon?
  

  
  
  
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• sailorgal member

  October 2014

  Bananappeal145 said:

  Oh no @sailorgal. I'm so sorry abou the BFN. Big hugs to you. When are the baby showers? Will they be over soon?
  

  Monday and Oct 17...so spread out! Bleh. And then of course last night I log into FB to see a gender reveal from someone onto her third child (we had our firsts at the same time)....and then an announcement from someone else....though the pregnancy announcement was admittedly very cute and I'm very happy for them on their first child.
  

  Me: 32, DH: 33
  DS #1: April 2010
  DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
  

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• pettycrocker member

  October 2014

  DD(s) 

  
  

  Finally my entire fucking face doesn't hurt today, so of course I woke up with the migraine from hell. Just took 600mg of motrin, and 2 cups of coffee, now I am praying to the Gods that I can manage to get my kid to dance class in the next 45mins. 

  :-&

  
  

  
  Spontaneous pregnancy #1
  DD1 July 31, 2011

  
  Trying for #2 since Oct 11

  732973 Clomid Cycles

  2 IUIs 

  3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
  Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
  Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
  Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
  Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 
  
  
  
  

  

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• GraceyandTroy member

  October 2014

  I'm sorry, @sailorgal.  Baby showers never get easier, do they.  I also get migraines and they are triggered by crying fits, so I am especially sorry.  And speaking of migraines, I hope you're feeling better today, @Potatocastillo.  

  
  

  Happily Mrs. C 

    
  

  
  

   

   

  start ttc #1 in Jan 2009

  dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin

  Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)

  Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011

  Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011

  Hoping holistic approach works!!!

  
  

  BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo

  Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

  
  

  Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er

  Back on metformin Aug 2013
  

  Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf

  DS weaned in April 2014

  Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  

  Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!

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• Jodee37 member

  October 2014

  @sailorgal‌ can I give you a hug? UGH. You are a great friend for agreeing to do those sprinkles. I don't have it in me to attend a shower, let alone host one.
  
  @potatocastillo‌ that was genius sending them both away! Although he prob had it easy, Chuck E Cheese has beer and those kids can run rampant without hurting themselves. I swear DS will have his bday there next year.
  
  My DDF... People who are picking and choosing the sex of their baby. Fucking ridiculous. What's next... Picking certain embies that have blond hair and blue eyes? Unreal. Meanwhile the rest of us would be thrilled with a baby with two heads and a tail.

  Me: 36, DH: 36

  DH's SA = normal

  1 tube only wonder

  AFC 3-5, AMH 0.30

  
  

  BFP #1 3/29/11.  EDD 12/4/11... Missed m/c 5/9/11. Cytotec fail. D&C 5/17/11.

  BFP #2   7/5/11.  EDD 3/14/12... Our rainbow Kellen born 3/14/12 via c/s.

  BFP #3 5/30/13.  EDD 2/8/14...  6wk u/s HB 126. 8wk u/s lost HB. D&C 7/12/13.

  BFP #4 2/18/14.  EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.

  BFP #5 7/27/14.  EDD 4/9/15...  m/c @ 5w4d.

  
  

  IVF #1    Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN. 

  IVF #2    Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.  Converted to IUI #1. BFFN

  IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.
  
  

  BFP #6  (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15.  EDD 11/30/15...  CP at 4w2d.

  IUI #2:    Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.

  IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN. 

  
  BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
  
  the universe can fuck off.

  
  

  
   "You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
  
  

  all AL welcome. TTC #2 for 43 44 months.

  follow my infertility journey here at timestandsstillblog.com

  
  

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