I'm kind of freaking out! I *think* I might be pregnant but hubby had a vasectomy two years ago.
I stopped tracking my cycles after DD was born because I knew we weren't having another baby and am generally very regular. Because of this, and having moved at the end of August, I don't remember exactly when my last period started but I do know I was expecting it to start late last week sometime. I had a little spotting on Friday and assumed that was it but AF never arrived! And I've had absolutely no AF symptoms at all (no cramping, no pms, no headache which I get every month).
What are the odds I could be pregnant?
Re: Need to tell someone! TMI
You might long for the person you were before
When you had freedom and time
And nothing in particular to worry about
You will know tiredness like you never knew it before
And days will run into days that are exactly the same
Full of feedings and burping
Nappy changes and crying
Whining and fighting
Naps or a lack of naps
It might seem like a never-ending cycle
But don’t forget….
There is a last time for everything
There will come a time when you will feed your baby for the very last time
They will fall asleep on you after a long day
And it will be the last time you ever hold your sleeping child
One day you will carry them on your hip then set them down
And never pick them up that way again
You will scrub their hair in the bath one night
And from that day on they will want to bathe alone
They will hold your hand to cross the road
Then never reach for it again
They will creep into your room at midnight for cuddles
And it will be the last night you ever wake to this
One afternoon you will sing “the wheels on the bus” and do all the actions
Then never sing them that song again
They will kiss you goodbye at the school gate
The next day they will ask to walk to the gate alone
You will read a final bedtime story and wipe your last dirty face
They will run to you with arms raised for the very last time.
The thing is, you won’t even know it’s the last time
Until there are no more times. And even then, it will take you a while to realize.
So while you are living in these times, remember there are only so many of them and when they are gone, you will yearn for just one more day of them.
For one last time.
I hope dh can get his test asap for you!
We are also OAD, for a number of reasons. I still occasionally feel pangs of regret, even though I know it's the best decision for our family. ((Hugs))
@Littleredfish- that was the sweetest thing I've read in awhile, and I sat at my desk at work crying as I read it and thought about how true it is.
@bellelamb- Can you share your experience with me? I'm thinking about having my tubes tied after DS is born, but am worried about the extra down time since I will only have DH home with me for 2 weeks of my 6 weeks home with both kiddos. I thought about going and having it done at a later time but then I worry that we will have to be super careful until that time comes which we are not great at.