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Hello everyone. This week at 11 weeks my sono showed no heartbeat. I was given misoprostol because I wasn't "expelling the pregnancy product". That was such a horrific experience. Three days later I am still bleeding and cramping. I ate Cap'n Crunch for dinner because I have little appetite and zero desire to cook. My MIL wants to take me out tomorrow and all I want to do is lie in bed with my heating pad.

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  • I'm sorry :(
    Laying in bed sounds like a good choice.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. I also wanted to lay in bed this weekend, but my friends and family want me out and distracted, which is probably a good idea.
  • So sorry to hear about your loss. A miscarriage can be so hard physically and emotionally. Only you know what is best for yourself. If laying in bed is what you want to do...you should do that. You will get out and about when you are ready.
  • So sorry for your loss. Sounds like your MIL's heart is in the right place, but do what you need to do to take care of yourself. (((hugs)))

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    Me: 36, DH:37

    Married 4/2010, TTC since 7/2011

    Dx: Officially Unexplained (I have Polycystic Ovaries diagnosed via ultrasound, but few classic PCOS symptoms, he has mild MF issues. So... not issue free, but nothing so severe as to explain IF)

    I also deal with post-surgical Hypothyroidism following Thyroid Cancer in 2009, but under control with Levothyroxine

    4 months Clomid (thinned lining) and 10 months Letrozole (every indication that I responded perfectly)

    6 failed IUIs in 2013, 3 with trigger

    IVF #1 in March 2014

    ER 3/21/14, 31R/21F, 12 frosties!

    ET 3/26/14, 1 perfect blast transferred: BFN

    FET#1 5/28/14, 2 "beautiful" early blasts transferred. BFP!!

    Beta #1 (6/11/14) 798; Beta #2 (6/18/14) 7,966.

    1st u/s (6/25/14) showed 2 sacs, 1 empty & 1 with a beautiful little bean doing what it needs to do!

    EDD 2/14/15, missed miscarriage, DX: Trisomy 21. D&C 8/1/14

    FET#2 Transferred 3 embies, 2 looking pretty good, one not so much. BFN.

    IVF#2 January 2015, tentative ER 1/23

  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and I agree with PPs, do what you feel is the right thing for you, not what others want. ((Hugs))
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself and feel no guilt for not wanting to get out.
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    BFP #1 6.9.12 EDD 2.16.13 Ended in emergency surgery due to an ectopic 6.23.13
    BFP #2 9.6.13  Rainbow born 5.22.13
    BFP# 3 8.28.14 EDD 5.1.15  2nd u/s revealed Twins   m/c 9.21.14 
    BFP # 4 11.27.14 EDD 8.5.15  1 perfect bean @ 6 weeks


  • omg i was given a half a dose of miso in order to prep for my d&c! that was the most God Awful thing i have EVER been through!!i am sooo sorry you have to deal with that. So sorry for your loss!

    ~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
    ~BFP #1 6/2014 
    EDD 2/11/15
    ~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014  

  • So sorry for your loss.  My mc started Sunday and was natural.  I'm still cramping and bleeding today so I feel your pain.  Hugs.
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